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Topic: Is my world falling apart?
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SparklingSag
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posted July 19, 2011 12:10 PM
  
I honestly do not know what is happening. It seems that all that was fragile in my life has cracked and fractured.Family: Mum is having emotional breakdown and is clearly not over my parents divorce from almost 20 years ago. I am interested to contact my dad who I haven't seen for 15 years and he has a website so when I googled him, pics came up. Man: I ended the relationship with my ex for the second time as he doesn't care at all and I feel lost and empty. Work: My manger who supported and developed me has quit and my new manager is not as concerned about supporting me even though it is a new role so feel like I am drowning. WHAT is going on? I feel like my world is falling apart and just want to get up and move or do something drastic. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 19, 2011 12:37 PM
I am not good with transits but put up your chart with transits and we can see  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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SparklingSag
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posted July 19, 2011 03:06 PM
I tried to upload through Tinypic from astro.com, transit chart:  IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted July 19, 2011 03:08 PM
Ya that was easy! Tinypic is great  IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 03:50 PM
Here are the transits affecting you right now;Saturn conjunction Venus- January 2011 until beginning of October 2011 Uranus trine Sun- Mid April 2011 until mid March 2012 Uranus opposition Mars- Mid May 2011 until end of January 2013 Jupiter opposition Pluto- Beginning of June 2011 until end of January 2012 IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 03:51 PM
Saturn conjunction Venus: Harsh realizations
Beginning of January 2011 until beginning of October 2011: This influence will have a strong effect on your relationships with others. Relationships that are solidly based will go through a period of testing and examination during which you and your loved ones and friends will become increasingly concerned about what is valid between you. A weak and unstable relationship will go through the same process, but you are more likely to conclude that it is not worth preserving. Consequently, at this time the relationships that have no purpose or that have outlived their purpose in your life will be cut off. Often you will be reluctant to let go of them.
Even in the best of circumstances you are likely to withdraw from others. During this time you have to evaluate who you are, what your individuality consists of and how all of these fit into your relationships with other people, particularly loved ones. You may come to some harsh realizations about your relationships, and even those that you thought were quite good may have to be given up. But you can be sure that any relationship that comes through this period in good shape is very real and important to you.
New relationships with a strongly "fated" quality may also come into your life now, which will have very profound significance for you in about fourteen years.
This is definitely a time to be conservative in financial matters and not take on any new financial obligations, for you may have trouble meeting your existing ones. On the other hand, this is an excellent time for firming up and organizing the financial structure of your life.
In general you should look upon this transit as a time for withdrawing into yourself with respect to others and to material possessions. This withdrawal will enable you to get a clearer idea of what and who you are, so that your future relationships with people and possessions will be more solidly based on reality and therefore more reliable and useful.IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 03:52 PM
Uranus trine Sun: Hungry for change
Mid April 2011 until mid March 2012: Sometimes it is very upsetting to make fundamental changes in your life. But at other times you feel that change is creative and exciting, and this is one of those times. You are eager for change and hope it will lead you to a life that is more exciting, interesting and alive. You look to new ideas and new experiences for insights that will make your life more real. Consequently this is an excellent time to begin studying disciplines that will allow you to develop and grow as a human being. Such disciplines can include encounter or group therapy, yoga or other spiritual disciplines, astrology or any other subject that allows you to see yourself in a new light and to grow in consciousness.
You may encounter new relationships, new friends or even a new love that will allow you to be yourself more than ever before. Your everyday being is compatible with change now, and you are hungry for it in every possible way.
This is a good time to adopt a new physical regimen - a new exercise program, new health habits or a different kind of nutrition - that will allow your body to grow and develop. Break out of old physical habits that have been damaging your body. You might conceivably be able to quit smoking or drop some other physically debilitating habit at this time.
You will be successful in every way that you reach out to encounter new experience. Do not allow conservatism or insecurity to deprive you of this great opportunity. Now you can make changes that will make your life better later on.IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 03:53 PM
Uranus opposition Mars: Psychological explosions
Mid May 2011 until end of January 2013: With this influence you can expect rebellious and explosive energies to enter your life. You may begin to chafe at the restrictions on your life and break free of them, or others may rebel against restrictions that you have placed on them.
You are likely to be in a fighting mood toward anyone who says that you cannot do something. You will act more impulsively and fly off the handle at the slightest provocation, especially if you usually tend to hold everything in. You want to assert yourself, and you are not terribly concerned about the obstacles you come up against.
One manifestation of this influence can be a new fondness for taking risks. You take chances and do things that don't have much chance of working out. Subconsciously you may be trying to prove yourself by pulling off a "long shot" or making a big splash if you fail.
Sometimes you can suppress this feeling of rebellious self-assertion and make your life go on as if nothing were happening. But this is not a good idea, because the energy does not go away. This influence signifies that you need to make changes in your life that will allow you to be more self-assertive than you have been.
This influence may also affect your relations with other people. If others feel the need to be more assertive with you, let them state their case and then try to come to some accommodation with them. If you allow others to be themselves with you, it will be easier to be yourself with them. Trying to live according to your old plan is not likely to work out very well at this time. Psychological explosions are expressions of unresolved tensions that should have been handled before when there was less energy behind them. Even now it is not too late to handle them, if you are willing to be flexible. You may have to make truly revolutionary changes in your life, but you will benefit in the long run.IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 03:54 PM
Jupiter opposition Pluto: Just that problem
Beginning of June 2011 until end of January 2012: This period can represent the culmination of a long drive for success or power. However, it is very important that you proceed with caution, because the forces opposing you are likely to be strong, unless you make a special effort to placate them. This can be a time when you get a promotion in your work or gain power in some other way to change and affect the lives of those around you. But it can also be a time when all your efforts come to nothing, and you find yourself losing out in a perpetual war with people in power.
Sometimes this influence can stimulate a rather ruthless desire to get ahead. Most of us are tempted to cut corners, but that can have very unfortunate consequences, for this influence can indicate trouble with the law or even arrest. In fact you should do as little as possible to arouse the authorities against you, because this influence is so likely to create just that problem.
Another problem can be obsessive or fanatical behavior, feeling that you alone are right about some matter to the point that you are unwilling to hear any other point of view. Avoid becoming totally convinced of your own righteousness, and do not try to force your own views upon others. Your ideas may in fact be quite good, but your problem comes from the style you would be likely to use. You must try to be open to other points of view and be able to compromise.
It is also possible that you may try to coerce someone into doing something that he or she doesn't want to do, or someone may try to coerce you. You can avoid the negative side of this influence if you have built up your affairs carefully and enlisted the aid of others in your efforts, making them understand that you are also working for their interest. And even if you are encountering the negative effects, it is not too late to enlist other people's aid. You may have to enlarge your personal goals to encompass a group's goals, but it can be done.IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted July 19, 2011 05:54 PM
Thank you very much, the saturn transit rang particualy true. It feels all my relationships are being tested right now. If fragile, they fall apart, it feels that its like everything is being burned to the ground.Sparkling IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 19, 2011 06:20 PM
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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Thank you very much, the saturn transit rang particualy true. It feels all my relationships are being tested right now. If fragile, they fall apart, it feels that its like everything is being burned to the ground.Sparkling
No problem, and I went through a similar thing when Saturn opposed my Mars. Lost my two best friends  Fortunately, the transit's almost over IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted July 20, 2011 01:23 AM
Also,TPluto square mars - uh oh
TSaturn conj MC Sorry, I don't have any info on these. Maaan, that's crazy - Pluto is going to square your MC next, then your Venus, and all the rest in your 10thH. That's pretty much the next 20 years, or something. Maybe read up lots in preparation? I don't know a lot about transits, I am watching TPluto however, as it's applying a conjunction to my venus(in the 12th also), I am learing what I can about this, and watching. After that, it will square my moon also (moon in Libra 12', a few years yet), which sounds ghastly.
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Nicole401
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posted July 20, 2011 01:59 AM
Pluto square Mars-(When it happens)Your ambition and drive to succeed will be incredibly strong. You will go to any lengths to achieve your goals, and you will have the energy to do it. You will be driven by a compulsive need to achieve, and you often will find it difficult to stop. -Power struggle may well be the keyword here. You could find yourself pushing against a need for greater sensitivity and inner growth. Push could come to shove, and you may end up driving against your own inadequacies and vulnerability. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 20, 2011 02:07 AM
Saturn conjunct Mc(Medium-duration, 1-4 weeks)
This will be a period of career culmination. You may feel added responsibilities in your profession or in your dealings with the public. You can receive a promotion or recognition for good work, if merited, or disgrace, if deserved. Possible change of employment or career.
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sassaqua
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posted July 20, 2011 02:10 AM
Thanks Nicole401, great timing  IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 20, 2011 02:21 AM
Wait. Nevermind, the chart you posted says Venus is in Scorpio.. & it isn't, it's actually in cancer. So it must be wrong.I'll use your info and post a new one. One in which has Venus in cancer!  All transits are right, except for the last two [Pluto/mars & Saturn/MC] IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted July 20, 2011 04:07 AM
Hi NicoleOh am sorry if the chart was wrong (I did it from astro.com). So shall I ignore what was said previously? 9.49 am Melbourne Australia, 26/11/1983 I appreciate your support. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted July 20, 2011 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Hi NicoleOh am sorry if the chart was wrong (I did it from astro.com). So shall I ignore what was said previously? 9.49 am Melbourne Australia, 26/11/1983 I appreciate your support. Sparkling
All of them are right, since I used another chart (the right one) to find the transits. Just ignore the ones Sassaqua mentioned. EDIT; ALL of them are right!!  Even the ones Sassaqua mentioned. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 20, 2011 03:12 PM
Awesome Nicole
That was so nice of you to look all of that up ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Nicole401
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posted July 20, 2011 04:19 PM
It's no biggie, I've always loved helping people@SparklingSag Here's your chart;
 It has Venus in Cancer IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted July 21, 2011 04:48 AM
Thanks Nicole!Is having venus in cancer right now a good thing? Sparkling IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted July 21, 2011 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Also,TPluto square mars - uh oh
TSaturn conj MC Sorry, I don't have any info on these. Maaan, that's crazy - Pluto is going to square your MC next, then your Venus, and all the rest in your 10thH. That's pretty much the next 20 years, or something. Maybe read up lots in preparation? I don't know a lot about transits, I am watching TPluto however, as it's applying a conjunction to my venus(in the 12th also), I am learing what I can about this, and watching. After that, it will square my moon also (moon in Libra 12', a few years yet), which sounds ghastly.
This still stands then. Is this chart different somehow? IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted July 21, 2011 11:51 AM
I'll have my saturn return soon next year then? I guess it is normal for life to be shaken in all areas to make you want to change your life.Sparkling IP: Logged |
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