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Topic: I wanna be a workaholic if it means steadiness
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carl Knowflake Posts: 729 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 12:13 AM
I just do not get it.I have such a deep desire to be...IT. What is "it"? A: Just a hard worker making a difference. I do not mind working 80 hours a week as long as it keeps me busy. I've done it before. It allows for a steady life. But what keeps me way from "it"?? IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 562 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 12:20 AM
i'm a workaholic. despite that i'm still not steady. i think it's because i jump too fast into things. i don't get what you mean by it. do you mean success? IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 729 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 12:23 AM
"It" is..just, a special hard working human being making a difference. It is subjective, sand. But for me, it is working my tail off and knowing that other humans are impacted.For me, THAT would allow me to feel steady. I just do not understand why I can not find an opportunity that will allow me to help others because I deeply want that. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1332 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 20, 2011 12:46 AM
quote: Just a hard worker making a difference. I do not mind working 80 hours a week as long as it keeps me busy. I've done it before. It allows for a steady life.
I understand the desire. I really do! I'm not sure why you can't get started.. Maybe you haven't found the right place. I think you should consider which area of work you want to get into and what you need in terms of qualifications. Have you tried volunteering? :edit: quote: why I can not find an opportunity that will allow me to help others because I deeply want that.
It’s too general. You have to focus on one particular way to help others that you believe you can do well.. and work on finding employment in that area. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 729 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2011 01:09 AM
I want to help other struggling with cancerIP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 562 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:36 AM
monetary? or you mean emotionally/ even spiritually?try starting a group that meets once a week for the latter. though the groups iv seen although with a lot of cancer patients didn't say out right they were for cancer patients. more like "healing" or "therapy". other people come too not just sick ones. if monetary perhaps you could work for a charity and help them raise funds. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 339 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 01:59 AM
i have merc. in Virgo, and ever since i found out i did and what it meant I’ve been waiting for it to take over, wanting it to take over but its still shy and dominated by my lazy Libra sun.. but its getting better, i'm starting to become more meticulous in work, if i have something to do then i won’t leave office before im done even if that means leaving at 9pm..i have cap rising (among other planets in cap), so having a satisfying career is essential to my happiness... you dont have to be a workaholic to be "steady" or "stable" you just have to do what you are required to do and excel in that and you will go places..
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rajji Moderator Posts: 900 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 02:16 AM
Carl..That is a raelly good idea! But not when you are undergoing treatment yourself.You are too weak to work for long hours.You need rest and support. Be at peace and offer prayers. Yes prayer heals cancer. Probably you can give others puppies...it will be a loving gift for them.Never loose your semse of humour.Make others just like you- smile. How have you been doing?IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 164 From: Australia Registered: May 2011
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posted July 20, 2011 02:20 AM
Carl,what is your connection with cancer can you say please? I might be able to help. I understand the IT thing btw (at first I thought you meant you wanted to get into IT - Information Technology ) Can we find something in your chart perhaps?
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