posted July 31, 2011 02:00 AM            

OK just a basic observation, One day wanting to be with them and then the next taking a closer look musing 'what was I thinking' and 'how could this go anywhere' and just a general back and forth.

posted August 06, 2011 10:20 PM            

However, there has been a cardinal grand cross going on throughout the summer including both Uranus & Pluto which could definately be causing a lot of tension, frustration, emotionality and upset depending on your placements. If you or your partner are being affected via transits, this could explain it. I know it's been making me feel like a basket case!!! Lol, although having venus & asc in Cancer (fitting right into that Grand Cross)in which it squares Uranus/Saturn and opposes Pluto it's no wonder.

posted August 06, 2011 11:23 PM            

What do you think about his Scorp Asc sq my Leo Asc, and his Sun opp my Asc in Aqua. Am I just bringing up too much tension for him? I'm kinda bad with him cos his Scorp sort of thinks he can get away with a lot in his actions with others but there is my Leo calling him on it and I wonder if I'm just being stubborn purposely not giving him what he wants to teach him a lesson? But really he wants me he's just going about it in Scorpy ways that are just not vibing with that pride of mine. But let me tell you he has a gang of pride, much more than mine. His Asc is trine my Sun so there's that. But man I have my principles and I'm not gonna throw em away lol. You should see the way he looks at me like a vulnerable boy in love, I don't want to hurt him but I have to stand my ground. Also his Scorp asc makes him come acoss as really crass sometimes (Also has merc trine pluto) and wow that does not sit well with me (his asc squares his sun and my merc which conj his sun). I need someone with Scorp asc male experience lol to unravel this.

posted August 07, 2011 12:37 AM            

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But man I have my principles and I'm not gonna throw em away lol.

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posted August 07, 2011 12:53 AM            

I'm guessing you're the moon??? Lol.

That aspect would cause a competitive vibe, a defensiveness and therefore power struggles, but also intense feelings of being insanely drawn to the person even if you can't logically figure out what you like about them! And probably a lot of passion, meaning your feelings are never casual or "easy", always fiery and extreme (love/hate). Very frusterating and confusing!!!

All my relationships have been very Plutonian! It has it's drawbacks for sure, but Pluto aspects also add the most amazing sexual chemistry, passion like no other and deep feelings, which are all huge bonuses! And a lot of times all the love/hate and frustrated feelings are really just about misunderstandings or taking things too personally when they weren't meant to offend. What I've noticed is that when the other person ****** you off or rubs you the wrong way, you just need to walk away and clear your head. Typically once you do, you realize your reaction was irrational, not to say you didn't have reason to be upset, just not THAT upset.

But there may well be other factors at work too. Pluto & Uranus can be a real b!t*h on a relationship if there are too many hard aspects at once, whether natal or transiting. A lot of break ups happen during heavy Pluto (transforamtion/letting go) & Uranus (sudden change, independence) transits. I know that from experience too! lol.

posted August 07, 2011 01:13 AM            

"That aspect would cause a competitive vibe, a defensiveness and therefore power struggles, but also intense feelings of being insanely drawn to the person even if you can't logically figure out what you like about them! And probably a lot of passion, meaning your feelings are never casual or "easy", always fiery and extreme (love/hate). Very frusterating and confusing!!! "
---Were you describing it more from the Moon person's pov in this quote here? This isn't the only person whose Moon has conj mine in synastry...I will say that the classic response from them is 1) vulnerability 2) welcoming me into their home/family life/emotional sharing 3)childish responses and thinking that I am their mother on some level and then it just spirals down from there, they really do act out around me. You think cos I'm touching them on the Lunar level with Moon conj/Venus conj/Pluto sq that it may be too much for them to handle unless they have Pluto/moon natally? (he doesn't). But anyway I think you described some strange happenings in my relationships with this Moon when it's conj mine. The horrid thing like I said is my Venus is conj their Moon and I really do want to care for them, so you think they sense that, maybe it's that I feel too much for them...but how can they sense that right off the bat when they look at me with those vulnerable eyes. I'm almost to the point I think of 'a lil Moon is awhl rite but too much and you're playing with fire' cos you will stir up so much emotion in them and they will transfer it to you.

"Pluto & Uranus can be a real b!t*h on a relationship if there are too many hard aspects at once, whether natal or transiting. "
---haha, o no, Sun sq Uranus here (asc.dsc rulers) and Moon sq Pluto.