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Topic: Interesting question.
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Pixienoire
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posted July 31, 2011 10:23 PM
  
When two consenting adults who are in a relationship together decide to live the slave/master lifestyle with each other, what types of astrological aspects would show this in their synastry chart?This person that I am involved with has been acting a bit odd for a couple of days, and then he sort of popped the question on me that he wants me to be his slave. Not just in the bedroom. But both in the bedroom and in life. So he wants me to be totally obedient to him and his every wish and desire. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted July 31, 2011 11:24 PM
no idea what would show that but only do it if thats what gets you off------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 11:26 PM
so he wants u to be his sub.. i dunnot what would make a person lean towards that direction but definitely, mars and pluto oughta play a role somewhere in there!if he's into spanking, maybe even saturn. IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted July 31, 2011 11:32 PM
His Mars is Square my Pluto.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted July 31, 2011 11:38 PM
ta-da!!!!!!!  well, there ya go! go for it!
because that energy is highly competitive!
so if you guys don't play it out with some kink and leather, it can lead to other ways of it manifesting itself, consider it as a part of therapy, role playing, if you will. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 01, 2011 12:07 AM
Aren't girls who are into extreme slave roles abused in the past in some way?IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 12:13 AM
I've never been abused. I had a very healthy upbringing, as well as relationships.IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
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posted August 01, 2011 12:15 AM
I mean, Im not saying that you are corrupted or anything but anyone that I have known or heard about who enjoys being a slave like that were abused someway, usually sexually, when they were younger. Some even don't remember being abused.IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted August 01, 2011 01:22 AM
Not everyone who has different sexual proclivaties was necessarily abused. Again, I'd like to see some statistics.IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
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posted August 01, 2011 01:28 AM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
Not everyone who has different sexual proclivaties was necessarily abused. Again, I'd like to see some statistics.
I just want to know how a person who was raised in a healthy and loving environment could enjoy pain and slave BDSM? IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted August 01, 2011 01:34 AM
Well, I like light domination (being held down, etc) and I grew up in a perfectly fine environment.It's just bothersome that when women express their sexualities, someone has to say "Oh you were probably ABUSED." No one ever says "Oh, as a man, you like to dominate women, hm you must have been abused." Women are always the victims, aren't they? No woman could possibly ever be in charge of their own sexualities, amirite. IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 12:08 PM
I had a perfectly ideal, non-abused life. So I attribute it to some weird astrological aspects in my chart. In our synastry chart, we do have a lot of hard pluto aspects which are probably contributing factors to it. Our composite chart has a stellium in the 12th house.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 01, 2011 12:09 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Pixienoire:
When two consenting adults who are in a relationship together decide to live the slave/master lifestyle with each other, what types of astrological aspects would show this in their synastry chart?This person that I am involved with has been acting a bit odd for a couple of days, and then he sort of popped the question on me that he wants me to be his slave. Not just in the bedroom. But both in the bedroom and in life. So he wants me to be totally obedient to him and his every wish and desire.
I would like a guy like that  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 01, 2011 12:11 PM
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Originally posted by bethcarliseh:
I just want to know how a person who was raised in a healthy and loving environment could enjoy pain and slave BDSM?
Warning to you--- the last troll was just kicked off yesterday. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 01, 2011 12:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Pixienoire:
I had a perfectly ideal, non-abused life. So I attribute it to some weird astrological aspects in my chart. In our synastry chart, we do have a lot of hard pluto aspects which are probably contributing factors to it. Our composite chart has a stellium in the 12th house.
Check Nessus and Dejaneria.I bet anything you have it very closely with him--in synastry Also--Eros IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 12:17 PM
I found we have Nessus Conjunct Dejanira.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted August 01, 2011 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by Pixienoire:
I found we have Nessus Conjunct Dejanira.
WOW
How close? What is the sign, house? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 01, 2011 12:21 PM
Who is the Nessus and who is the Deja or is this the Comp?IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 12:27 PM
I am nessus, he is dejanira. They are in Cancer. My nessus falls in his 7th house, and his dejanira falls in my 2nd house. It is about a 3 degree orb. It is in our synastry chart.IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 05:44 PM
I think one thing that could really be influencing it that I just noticed is that natally he has Mars Conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. Then his Pluto is square my Mars.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted August 01, 2011 05:53 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Pixienoire:
I am nessus, he is dejanira. They are in Cancer. My nessus falls in his 7th house, and his dejanira falls in my 2nd house. It is about a 3 degree orb. It is in our synastry chart.
Don't worry.If you are the Nessus you will abuse HIM  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 01, 2011 05:56 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Pixienoire:
I am nessus, he is dejanira. They are in Cancer. My nessus falls in his 7th house, and his dejanira falls in my 2nd house. It is about a 3 degree orb. It is in our synastry chart.
In Cancer,it will prolly be emotional abuse vs physical.Just a guess though lol
You will abuse him in the area of relationships. He will be victimized by your finances.
Let me ask you this.
Does any of this ring true.
Are you abusive to him by holding money or security over his head.
Hey,peeps I am real.Don't ask if you don't want the real deal IP: Logged |
Pixienoire
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posted August 01, 2011 06:02 PM
I don't hold money or security over his head. But I can be very emotionally manipulative towards him. I know where his weak spots are, and I use that against him. Sadly, I don't like not getting my way, and I will employ any means to get what I want. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 01, 2011 09:32 PM
hey, pixie..i found this and thought of you
http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/journeysub.htm#advice IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 16379
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 02, 2011 08:34 AM
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Originally posted by Pixienoire:
I don't hold money or security over his head. But I can be very emotionally manipulative towards him. I know where his weak spots are, and I use that against him. Sadly, I don't like not getting my way, and I will employ any means to get what I want.
Wow ,it worked.Well do you ,manipulate him in his self esteem areas.That would be the 2nd house too.
If you want to put your chart and his chart in Personal readings addressed to me,I would like to see. I would like to see the synastry too
Put them all on separate threads if you do.
Also,what is the nature of your relationship with him.Are you serious? IP: Logged |
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