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Topic: Game: Match the Description to the SYN Chart!
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 05:30 AM
Hi Guys!I’ll post 4 different synastries with people who were/are in my life. I’ll tell you briefly what my relationship with each of them was like. Then – it’s up to you to guess which description matches which synastry chart! When everyone’s done guessing – we could do someone else’s relationships (I’m sure Lioness is game on this one!!! lol) IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 05:31 AM
Here are the descriptions:1. A person I dated briefly when I was a teenager who came back into my life recently and says he’s always been in love with me. This person cracks me up! They are extremely funny. Very much the life of the party - This is different to me since I like to observe and don’t always get involved. But I like the differences. This person brings out a very optimistic side of me. I also feel like they are reliable and honest. 2. A person I am good friends with. I trust them a lot. But sometimes we are not mentally in sync. Throughout the years we’ve drifted in and out of friendship. But on some level we are actually extremely close… almost like siblings. They sometimes misunderstand my silences for ‘dislike’ and think I am rejecting them in some way.. That’s usually how the problems start… but then we go back to being friends.
3. A person who I have a neutral relationship with. I have to see this person because we are often around each other. Even though I like them overall – you could say that “I’m not that into them”. We are very cordial and nice to each other but it feels ‘surface’. They are reluctant to open up to me on the one hand… and on the other hand, they are seemingly annoyed that I have not opened up to them. We tend to maintain a safe distance but there is a silent understanding that if either of us actually had a serious problem the other person would help.
4. A person I have had trouble getting along with since the day I met them. They had issues with me right off the bat (which does not happen to me often). They seem constantly annoyed with me or sceptical of me and nothing I do is ok with them. I have tried to make things work with them – but it’s very difficult. They are also a bit scared of me and extremely distrusting of the things I say. They desperately try to avoid any conversation with me and if they must make conversation they are evasive (speaking very quietly, so I can barely hear them - and avoiding eye contact - sometimes walking away).
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:25 AM
Sorry... the charts are coming up! Photobucket is being $crewy!IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:27 AM
Ok! Finally uploaded lolCHART A: CHART B: IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 06:34 AM
CHART C CHART D
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bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 383 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 07:00 AM
4 A 2 C 3D 1B ? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 08, 2011 07:02 AM
Add reasons!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 10:31 AM
Betty,I was thinking that chart C was the first relationship-story you posted. The one you had been dating before and who said he has always been in love with you. Your Venus/NN opposes his Pluto (though this is generational) Your Venus/NN trines his Neptune His Neptune on your DESC your Mars/Neptune opposes his Venus Your ASC conjunct his Venus These are the ones that I think may indicate an attraction, especially the ASC-Venus-conjunction. And Venus-Mars-opposition can be magnetic as well. Also, the Venus/NN and Mars/Neptune/DESC are "hot spots" in your chart, I think they need to be triggered. ---------------------------- Your Sun trine his Sun in your 3rd house Your Sun in your 11th house trine his Uranus A grand trine of Sun-Sun-Uranus in firesigns and airhouses - that sounds like a stimulating friendship and definitely like fun. Maybe for him it would run deeper though as your Sun falls into his 4th house, his Sun is in his 8th and Uranus in his 12th. Also, his Sun and Mars in Leo trine Uranus could be the life of a party, though his Sun and Mars are in 8th house, so I don`t really know. ------------------------------- your Jupiter conjuncts his Moon your Pluto trines his Moon your Saturn squares his Moon the Jupiter-Moon-conjunction is a warmhearted "feel-good" aspect, and could very well make you optimistic. The Saturn-Moon-square can be painful, but I have also seen it in longlasting friendships or relationships. Probably a karmic thing. Anyway you have Moon in Cappy - so you`re already in tune with moon/Saturn. ----------- your Pluto square his Sun and Mars Wow, that does not look too smooth. More like very strong intensity and possible issues surrounding powergames, posessiveness and jealousy. Not sure how this fit here. ----------------- there is a Kite between your Sun, his Sun, your Saturn and his Jupiter, as far as I can see it (though I don´t know how tight the orbs are). I guess this would be a good configuration for mutual support and respect.
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 10:41 AM
2BThough this could also be the synastry of the brief relationship. It depends on how deep the relationship was I guess. If it was just a "hot and short" thing then the intense aspects here of Venus-Pluto, Pluto-Moon, Mars-Sun, Mars-Venus and a ´harmonous Sun-Mars one might be fitting. In this case I would think that the close friendship is chart C. You said though that you are sometimes mentally not in synch and here we have his Mercury squaring your Mars/neptune and your mercury is unaspected, that is why I thought this here might be the friendship. Here is also a widish conjunction of his Moon tzo your Venus/NN- which can give a feeling of closeness. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 10:55 AM
Leaves the last two:Chart A has: your Sun opposite his Moon-Mars conjunction your Venus/NN opposite his Pluto your Pluto square his Venus your Venus/NN trine his Neptune your Mercury conjunct his Sun your Uranus square his Sun your Moon square his Saturn/Mars your Mars/Neptune is unaspected Chart D has: your Venus/NN is unaspected
your Chiron conjunct his Sun and Mercury your Saturn opposite his Sun and Mercury your Saturn squares his Saturn your Mars/Neptune trines his Saturn your Jupiter opposite his Saturn your Moon trine his Venus your Mercury squares his Neptune your Sun opposite his Pluto Difficult. First I was thinking: D4. Because his Neptpune squares your Mercury and that is extremely difficult for communication and would fit the evasiveness. All these Saturn-aspects might be very critical or restrictive.
On the other hand there is a lot of tension between the personal aspects, including Mars, in synastry A. Plus a Venus-Pluto-DW. In one case Venus is unaspected, in the other case Mars. Neither is ideal for a relationship, and might explain why you are not into them. So, in short, I am not really sure. lol IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4999 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 08, 2011 08:51 PM
1.C -always been in love with you his lovesick venus nept opp falls on your asc axis, opp on asc axis are a big deal, they feel like the asc person has all the answers. there's also attraction there like a de facto venus mars conj since your mars is conj nept. -funny cancer, venus on your asc they do this to charm you -optimistic side, suns trine in fire, and your sun fills in a grand trine in his chart. 2.D -your silence for dislike their nept sq your merc in pisces & your saturn opp their sun/merc you rejecting them -close on some level venus trine moon 3.A -cordial surface, their libra stellium opp your sun, libra stays on the surface, they think more about you than they let on -issues about opening up moon sq saturn/mars, sq moons by sign -annoyed that you havent opened up their sun on your merc is encouraging expression but it's sq to uranus which is thrown a bit -jupiter trine jupiter in water the other person is one who'd understand and help out 4.B -this one i chose first just based on the bad merc goin on -moon sq saturn points to rejectionPrize money can be picked up at....? I think you forgot to post that bit J/K! I hope I got at least 1. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 383 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 08, 2011 09:27 PM
I have no reasons. Those were total guesses. lol. How did I didn't do?IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 06:03 AM
WoW Thanks so much for having a go! I loved reading both of your insights!!OK - Lonake you DID get one right! lol Congratulations! quote: 3.A -cordial surface, their libra stellium opp your sun, libra stays on the surface, they think more about you than they let on -issues about opening up moon sq saturn/mars, sq moons by sign -annoyed that you havent opened up their sun on your merc is encouraging expression but it's sq to uranus which is thrown a bit -jupiter trine jupiter in water the other person is one who'd understand and help out
This is all spot on! This person is actually my step sister (not to be confused with my half-sister who also happens to be a Pisces, but much younger - and who I'm closer to!). I think she's very interested in all of the things I am interested in. She likes it when I explain astrological matters. But as I was saying - there's still a distance between us. I don't have a desire to tell her anything that's close to my heart. It's that feeling that you like someone.. but you don't really want to open up or share a part of yourself (not on a deep level). It's also a matter of trust because she has never opened up to me in any way. Maybe we're just tip toeing around each other saying "you go first". DD - You almost got the same one correct! I think in the end you were going with 3-A. You also got: 2-B! quote: You said though that you are sometimes mentally not in synch and here we have his Mercury squaring your Mars/neptune and your mercury is unaspected, that is why I thought this here might be the friendship. Here is also a widish conjunction of his Moon tzo your Venus/NN- which can give a feeling of closeness.
Great Intuition! That's exactly how it plays out. This is a girl btw We are friends but sometimes she does not grasp my Mercury.. The dispositor is Neptune which is receiving all those squares.. but on an emotional level - we are both earth Moons and I have Taurus Venus - she has Taurus Moon... so there are a lot of similarities. Congratulations DD!!! Well Done Brownies and Strawberry Lollypops all around!! Prize Money is not edible.. Since I have a Taurus Venus -- I'll just bake you something nice! Though... I guess I could always bake cookies that look like dollar bills IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 06:17 AM
*ironically*.... Person 4 is chart C! Who would've thunk it? lolDD - This is all correct: quote: Wow, that does not look too smooth. More like very strong intensity and possible issues surrounding powergames
He seems to start powergames with me by being annoying and evasive in behaviour. quote: The Saturn-Moon-square can be painfu
Maybe not painful, at least not from my perspective.. but it's definitely unnerving! Both of you mentioned an attraction! There might be a sexual attraction. He thinks I'm good looking but he seems to have huge problems with my personality and often says negative things about me behind my back. He is the only Leo person I've ever had such problems with. It's quite strange. He was like this since the day he first said "hello".. seemingly no logical reason - But he can't stand me. *shrug* I do have suspicions that he may be gay.. in which case the chart could be more like a girl2girl chart -- and the venus/mars opp can become annoying, rather than 'attractive'. And... last but not least...
The guy who is fun, life of the party and still has a crush on me - is the Gemini guy - (person 1 - chart D!) Lonake quote: -close on some level venus trine moon
He's easy to get close to.. very friendly guy! quote: -your silence for dislike their nept sq your merc in pisces & your saturn opp their sun/merc you rejecting them
I am not silent around him.. but in general Gemini Mercury people are not easy to be quiet around.. because they always say something that makes me want to engage in convo. Also, you can't see the degrees but his Merc is exactly at 12' Gemini - and my Sun is 12 Aries.. so it's a close sextile. But me rejecting him? hmmm In a sense this could be true since I think he is great as a friend.. but I can't say I see it going further. I'm not sure. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4999 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2011 01:45 AM
I am good with the sweets IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:07 AM
OK.... My guess.. I didnt peak promise #4 is chart B dont get along mars conjunct saturn.. #1 is chart C #2 = A #3 = D Thats with just a quick look... Tell me whats correct.. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:13 AM
I dont think you want me to post my relationship synastry's... lol.. LL may go down again! joking... Im game... if you want me too.. I will.. I have some wild ones.. lol IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:21 AM
BETTY!!!!!!!!!!!!Where are you??????? Am I right or wrong?? I didnt read others post.. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:37 AM
Oops! Sorry - I'm back. I had to message someone on FB IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:39 AM
OMG!!! You left me for FB??? LOL
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:44 AM
quote: I dont think you want me to post my relationship synastry's... lol.. LL may go down again!
Oh noes! You're a jinx!
quote: Im game... if you want me too.. I will.. I have some wild ones.. lol
Please do! Because I'd like to guess as well
quote: #4 is chart B dont get along mars conjunct saturn..#1 is chart C #2 = A #3 = D Thats with just a quick look... Tell me whats correct..
Ok - 4-B is not correct. I'm on friendly terms with B mostly! 1-C - well strangely this guy can't stand me. Isn't that weird? His Venus is on my AC even LOL -- So 1 was D. I think this one was difficult to pick though. Everyone guessed him to be my ex who is still in love with me lol If this guy is in love - it must be very subconscious. 2 -A --- Actually this came close.. A is the person I'm neutral towards but we have our friendly moments. So this is your closest guess! 3-D - D is the guy who is still in love! lolll Noone picked up on this. I guess the synastry is crappy Thanks for guessing!! You still get brownies IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1544 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:50 AM
& LOLLL I didn't mean to leave you for FB... I said I "had to" Here, have another brownie!! IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:58 AM
DARN!!! lol.... Ok give me a few I will post mine... O lordy... IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 03:59 AM
I thought I did good... LOL... IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 2961 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 12, 2011 04:00 AM
Dont go anywhere... lol IP: Logged |