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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I could sure use some guidance - am so betwixt and between. I don't what information you need - just let me know and I'd be open to learn just about anything.

So grateful to have y'all in my corner. I wish I knew more about this stuff. Learning a bite at a time (PS His time is guestimated)

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seeleah
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posted August 09, 2011 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would love to answer some questions but can you give me alittle background on what the question is that you have...however, I am going to look at this and just point out somethings. I hate to do the whole chart because I want to give others a chance to jump in

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seeleah
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posted August 09, 2011 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay I am commenting on the composite chart only right now....

what I like

*those 5th house planets, sun being in there too and mercury if memory sets me straight. that is all about romance and possible children, the two of you can CREATE a world together I had alot of 5th house planets with my ex, and yeap..we had babies too!

*4th house venus, sweet..your love makes you feel like HOME! it gets to your core of who you both are.

*Moon on MC: I have this with my current sweetie. It means you can do well going into business together or you can help each other out. Your feelings are very much public for all to see.

Things that make me go hummm:

*12th house mars, your mover and shaker is in the house of hard to access. It could be hard for you guys to GO anywhere..or there could a difficulty in regards to sex, aggression, things of mars nature that is kinda subconscous in nature.

*pluto square mercury and sun. I had this with someone once that I had a brief relationship with and it scared the living **** out of me. Feelings of possessiveness could be harmful...potientially dangerous, so trust your gut. I am not saying it HAS to be this way..just saying it could have that spin..

Okay I saw more but I want to give some others a chance

okay looking at the davison now.

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seeleah
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posted August 09, 2011 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hehehehe..I think in many ways I like that davison chart better *snickers*

Okay what I like:

*I LOVE that mars in the 8th house..intimate sex baby have fun with that. I have that aspect with my current sweetie, nice..very nice

*you still have moon on the MC so refer to what I said before in the other post.

*what you kinda had in the 5th is now in the 12th in the davison. Now, I know some pple might be uncomfortable with those planets there, and I might be too..it really depends on both of your natals. Ex. I have a 12th house sun and some strong piscean tendences..so 12th house hits aren't quite as hard on me as some others...it is a mixed bag honestly. BUT I LOVE that you have neptune conjunct sun, and with it being in the 12th, that COULD mean a really really really intuitive connection with one another. Again, I could have to look at the individual synastry.

What concerned me:

Saturn opposed mars. eegats. The father of structure, limits and karma..opposing the god of war. ouch! could mean that money is an issue for the two of you..or better yet, resources could be limited and it could cause some fighting. BOY you two can have some hell of a fight!!!!!!

anyone else's thoughts?

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Seeleah, sure I am in an emotional pickle. I'd like to know if our "unabashed connection" (his words) will survive this silence. How do we step over this time? When we are together it's like time stopping, amazing, incredible mind-body-soul exchange Key words we both keep saying over and over Peace - Contentment - Happiest Ever. Passionate beyond any words. Day to day is easy, never argue, give freedom.

He and I have past history - and re-found each other about 9-10 months ago. This time around it has been off the charts fireworks. (btw,I broke it off last time). Then "snap" a few weeks ago he says he needs to take a time out to deal with some "emotional stuff." Both of our hearts ache (after 5 days he said he was fighting to not call - I had to call bc my dog of 14yrs was dying - he's known him a long time too), and all of his stresses are valid, except I'm not used to being without him, his calls, his touch. I didn't always reciprocate due to my circs - but he pursued me like never before. We had uncanny encounters, timing even when I was on the other side of the world for work. We both like independence w/in r'ship (for me w/ work especially) that perhaps I haven't been reassuring enough. I was hesitant a little - given my d wasn't done yet. It is now. Funny timing...huh!?

Is this a case where he really needs the space to work towards us, and I wait it out - or - does he really need me to show my appreciation/reassurance (now that I am free to do so). Or, has he fallen back to his ex who is so toxic (emotionally abusive, borderline bipolar, narcissist)?

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's his natal

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's the synastry w/

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by seeleah:
hehehehe..I think in many ways I like that davison chart better *snickers*

Okay what I like:

*I LOVE that mars in the 8th house..intimate sex baby have fun with that. I have that aspect with my current sweetie, nice..very nice

*you still have moon on the MC so refer to what I said before in the other post.

*what you kinda had in the 5th is now in the 12th in the davison. Now, I know some pple might be uncomfortable with those planets there, and I might be too..it really depends on both of your natals. Ex. I have a 12th house sun and some strong piscean tendences..so 12th house hits aren't quite as hard on me as some others...it is a mixed bag honestly. BUT I LOVE that you have neptune conjunct sun, and with it being in the 12th, that COULD mean a really really really intuitive connection with one another. Again, I could have to look at the individual synastry.

What concerned me:

Saturn opposed mars. eegats. The father of structure, limits and karma..opposing the god of war. ouch! could mean that money is an issue for the two of you..or better yet, resources could be limited and it could cause some fighting. BOY you two can have some hell of a fight!!!!!!

anyone else's thoughts?


Yes, very nice indeed (it's OBE for both of us)

Yes, very intuitive connection (except for right now - feels like half of me has been ripped away - and I am stuck with the why)

He never has lied to me, never ever. Would he now?

Resources/finances are a-ok for me. He's stopped working a few years ago to look after his declining elderly father (I totally support this - and just wish he'd hire home care so he can get his life back) He has one sister who isn't supportive of that since he does "such a good job" Well of course he does.

The ex-gf is what concerns me. TW (Toxic Woman as he describes) is directly next door and they had unfinished bz. (20mos ago) He said after being so close with me he felt safe enough to face her and put her in a friend box and "move on" - and they are talking thru what went wrong. But she is toxic, and manipulative, so I worry for him being sucked back in. Since he's taking a break to resolve all his stuff (elder care, home, ex, etc) I'm not speaking to him, no text, no contact - and it's gut-wrenching heartache during this time.

On day 5 of this our hopefully only time out, my dog of nearly 14y was dying in my arms, and on weak moment, I called. He was nearly in tears, saying he had been fighting calling me for days. But why is he fighting it? I didn't get the answer. My phone died, and he left vm saying he'd call back. So I waited since he's in a "break zone". And he hasn't. Or did he when my phone wasn't working for nearly 1 hour (the planets doing?)

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by seeleah:
*4th house venus, sweet..your love makes you feel like HOME! it gets to your core of who you both are.

Things that make me go hummm:

*12th house mars, your mover and shaker is in the house of hard to access. It could be hard for you guys to GO anywhere..or there could a difficulty in regards to sex, aggression, things of mars nature that is kinda subconscous in nature.

Okay I saw more but I want to give some others a chance

okay looking at the davison now.


THANKS!!! Seeleah I could reach through this screen and give you a squeezy hug.

Your spot on hon.

What is a "mover and shaker in the house of hard to access". Won't go anywhere - meaning r'ship won't go or we actually won't travel. Or we have to crack the hard candy shell to get to the gooey candy center? That's my sweet-tooth-ese btw.

(((shucks the above sounds stupid but I'm a super novice and feel like a big sponge trying to learn)))

More please...more...I am eager to know more.

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MsVenus
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posted August 09, 2011 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My natal

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MsVenus
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posted August 10, 2011 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Seeleah, your insight is very helpful to me at this time. I'm finally able to get some frame of reference - more please

I posted responses & the other charts that you requested.

Am eager and wide open to hear just about anything else.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 10, 2011 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Seelah
I am learning too
Thank you!

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MsVenus
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posted August 10, 2011 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bumpity bump bump -- any other interpretations. inquiring minds here in the peanut gallery.

life as guided is so fantastic.

I just wish I had "look around the corner" glasses...the planets hopefully shed some view

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