posted August 10, 2011 11:36 AM            

While Astrology can point out ways in which things could happen this is much more up to the free will of the individual than you think.
I personally prefer to do Synastry Charts after a couple has been together for a while (even my own) and have some understanding of there connections and how they manifest.

I can tell you now with his Sun conjunct your Vertex give or take with the birth time he definitely is someone you are fated to meet. When I see this, it is best to let go of all fears so that you do not create a worst reality than it needs to be.
There are lessons to be learned here.
Pay close attention to how this person feels always be OVER THERE......only allow yourself to feel as much as they feel. This sets up boundaries and keeps you from A. Assuming things B. Taking things personal.
This makes the relationship as smooth as it can be and the transformation as gentle as possible.
And most importantly you can learn the lessons of why this person is in your life and you wont get stuck in a lower level relationship where you feel.."stuck".
Many soulmate relationships are not forever...especially when we first begin to date....they are simply to open us up to a higher dimension of Energy and Consciousness.
So that we can handle the ultimate connection that we are being refined for.
I can tell you that all the planets and aspects he has pouring into your 5th and 7th house to me say this man is here to teach you alot about relationships in general, committed or otherwise. This connection will expand your heart chakra as long as you are strong enough to maintain it and it is self benefiting.

His Karma and Neptune is on your MC this well help open up any blockages you have had in your Solar plexus, fears that could be holding you back will be exposed by him. You will have a tendency to get defensive when he exposes these...watch that as it could hinder your growth.

Saturn and Venus Aspects...Square and Conjunct are interesting. Because though it shows love it shows love in a teacher student type way which creates a mutual dependence often times this indicates a highly significant relationship. But be careful that you do not fear when he withdraws from you. it is easy with these placements for you to beocome criitical or demanding of him...you will see him soon if you do not already as somewhat childish and undisciplined...avoid getting into this lower level Energy...to do this make sure you maintain an adequate social life...because you can easily become cut off from others with this aspect. What you are learning about here is Commitment and Loyalty...remember that and pay attention to the details.
Allow your Heart to undergo the training as long as you dont see it being delivered from a bad intent on his part, based on his own Consciousness evolution he could be manifesting his Energies in lower levels at any given moment. In this Energy connection this must be noted and monitered. It would be best to avoid it than deal with a man who is completely unaware at this point as this Energy connection is quite powerful.

The great thing is that no matter what you go through his Jupiter, Pluto and Mercury and your Venus show that you will always have a sweet spot for this man and how you feel about him. And there will be a certain charmed Energy around your connection...a feeling of it was meant to be. And conversation will always be easy and that is oftentimes the very key to working out the harder aspects as they present and can even keep them from presenting as really....who says you must be bound to this chart?

The mutual Pluto and Venus Conjunctions though a little wide show that its not an intense Energy like it could be with closer orbs so this is nice as it gives the effects with less of the impact..lol and more importantly it is balanced, meaning both of you have the power to transform each other...so for you Moonfish this will teach you alot about yourself. Because if you give in to the lower levels of these manifestations then he will no doubt follow you. You must go deep and allow this activation of your Pluto to search the inner chambers of your Energy and know YOUrself.

The Saturn and Venus ties explain why you asked this question. As Saturn adds a certain seriousness here and often times this is due to the binding effect it has.
If you let him and he does it in a loving way, he can help you stabilize your emotions which is quite at talent for a human at a young age such as yours. Allow him to flirt if it is in his nature his Venus in Scorpio give him a certain magnetizing effect..so Im sure you will always find girls attracted to him.
But consider that you cannot be in a relationship with a really attractive person and be jeolous of them flirting. This will pull your relationship down into duality very quickly with those strong Pluto and Venus connections, as I have this too, conjunct and opposed in my current relationship. And it is imperative that I keep my mouth shut though I do growl at him at times but I understand that it is part of his Power and my jeolousy of that is directly linked to the denial of that Energy in MYself. And as a result I no longer see the negative in him flirting because I no longer see it in myself.
Such is the transformative power of Venus/Saturn and Venus/Pluto connections.
You get the most cleansing from learning how to manage pluto Venus connections to these outer planets. Your love is at once caught up and refined through inner alchemy and you can learn unconditional love and how to grow it and tend to it and give it away.
His Sun does trine your NN this gives the relationship some staying power as far as growth as well...he feels "good" for you. But I would have to know his time of birth to see more.

His Sun on your DC is another sign that this was fated. So really Moonfish...let go and let god...your inner god...guide you and be aware of every moment you have to show this man unconditional love. Your own inner voice will tell you what to do, listen to it.

After you've been together for a bit and you get to see how you and him relate to each other and the world or should problems present then that is a good time to go to the Synastry and see how best to deal with it as the object here is to let go of control and just BE...by wanting to know who things are going to play out in the future we are actually seeking to control it.

posted August 10, 2011 11:53 AM            

Definitely.

Go for it.

posted August 10, 2011 06:26 PM            

if it's of any comfort, i'm a petite Asian and although i'm 33, i could look like i could be 13 or something, depending on what i'm wearing etc. my guy is 48 next month, and due to some quite unfortunate distressing life circumstances in the recent years he looks much older than that (temporarily, i hope, he used to look early 30s several years ago). HE is extremely insecure because he thinks people stare at him and wonder from which "catalogue" he ordered this "Asian bride".

posted August 10, 2011 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I see your point & i guess I'm just over-reacting x.x How long have you been together?

but where my insecurities really take course is that his friends somtimes questions why hes with me. One of his friends in particular once tried to hook him up with another girl while we're dating. There nice to my face, but talk about me from behind my back (not him but his friends)

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you should be able to be open with him. that is nasty behaviour on the friend's part, and you may be able to impress him that you are not to be taken lightly for just because you are young, if you show your firm side. but not to be like confrontational and emotional. just let him know that there are things that are not cool, and it makes you feel unnecessarily uncomfortable. if he can't take it, think you better be looking for a new guy!

i can understand though, when you are very young the age difference tend to matter. it can lead to insecurities. but the important thing is open communication and taking care of things before it gets complicated. if this one doesn't work, honestly you're young and will have many more opportunities to find fine partners.

posted August 10, 2011 07:29 PM            

So I don't think the age is a problem in itself - here.

About the synastry - It looks *good*.. Nothing strikes me as horrible or scary. I doubt that he will betray you or leave you for shallow reasons... It does not strike me as that 'kind' of relationship. However, I do think you will drift away from each other. I don't think it's a relationship that will last more than a couple - maybe a few years.
I'm thinking under a decade.
I'm saying this because you do not have NN conjunctions at all.. and you actually have Saturn conjunct his SN (a past life connection - which might feel familiar/comfortable - but not something that he will want around forever). He needs to move in the opposite direction.
And you have NN in Cappy conj Neptune - which is not exactly in sync with his life goals. There isn't enough chemistry here - in terms of having a 'life path' together.

posted August 10, 2011 09:58 PM            

so say gemini and lbra are generally a good pair ..
if you take chinese astrology into account it may or may not be depending on the year they were born in...
so with libras a certain age, you'd get along better than libras in another age group...

blah
you probably already knew this
but i'm just wondering what sign you guys are and what your elements are....
here's a site where you can quickly find out
http://www.lisashea.com/lisabase/astrology/art19074.html