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Topic: With a Guy who doesn't know what Year it Is
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bethcarliseh
Knowflake Posts: 365
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 10:03 PM
  
I am with this guy.....I am not dating him, we are just friends but we kiss and stuff. Today......He was trying to format a camera and couldn't do it. He asked me what year it was. He was being serious. He had to go ask someone what year it was. I knew that they were child like in their personality but I did not know that it was to this extent. This person cannot control their thoughts and how it comes out of their mouth. Whatever they think, they say. There is no filter. If he sees a spec or a strand of hair on any part of me, he must get it off of me, To "keep me perfect". I have never met any guy like him. I am kind of scared of him but I am kind of attracted to it. He told me that he thought that if you didn't get a job, you automatically went to jail. He is 21 years old. He is also very sexual. You can Guess what sign. When I left his house. I realized that he could never have a normal relationship with anyone. No one knew how to deal with him, not even his parents. I began crying, Uncontrollably. Strange things happened. I couldn't stop crying because of my realization. I do not know what to do. IP: Logged |
Doreen
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 10, 2011 10:15 PM
I can't guess he sounds totally mixed up to me
Geez OK soAbsent minded
Saying whatever is on their mind
Wants to keep others perfect
Very sexual Sagittarius maybe ? IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
Knowflake Posts: 365
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 10, 2011 10:20 PM
No. Water sign.Also, his parents, his sister/her bf are always home, they distrust me. I am very attractive. Older. They think that I am using him for sex. They cannot understand or fathom why I am with him. Today he got snappy with me. He called me an idiot when I did not understand something. But this didn't hurt me at all. I enjoy just being near him though. I don't even want to do anything sexual with him now. I just want to be near him......I want to give him what no one else has seemed to give him, not even his parents...This is very strange. IP: Logged |
Dinobleue9
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 11, 2011 04:47 AM
I instantly thought PISCES!Man...that is scary..... IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 06:55 AM
With the mention of being sexual and then saying you can guess what sign he is, I'm going to go with Scorpio.Forgetting what year it is and having warped ideas of society, that sounds more like a long-term consequence of soft drug abuse imho. I have met people who were quite similar in a way, and all have done weedfor the largest part of their lives. Anywhooo... I do kind of understand how he can come to the conclusion that not getting a job means you go to jail. It's rediculous, but if you know that not getting a job equals living off the state, and being in jail equals the same thing, I can understand that someone who doesn't pay too much attention to society can come to the conclusion that not getting a job equals going to jail. ------------------
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Lonake
Moderator Posts: 4917
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 07:21 AM
From you I can believe this.
Not from others on here, but you, you're a special case.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 1344
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 07:27 AM
could he be autistic? that's some of the traits of people with autism, including high sex drive. autistic people can function almost perfectly in society, while people may find them weird. a lot of people just go on living without ever being diagnosed. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2758
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 07:31 AM
I've got the funniest sense of deja vu right now.
Anyways, maybe he's got amnesia. T__T
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mir
Knowflake Posts: 591
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 07:36 AM
Immediate first impression; Pisces, with a fast second; Aqua. IP: Logged |
mir
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 07:46 AM
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With the mention of being sexual and then saying you can guess what sign he is, I'm going to go with Scorpio.
Yes, that's what I was also thinking.. but I have to stay honest; a first impression is a first impression and a second a second  IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 620
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 11, 2011 10:31 AM
Sounds like aspergers or something.They are very intelligent, just a little naive and take everything literally. And hell, sometimes I forget what year it is (once I forgot how old I was). I'm guessing Pisces. IP: Logged |
MsCandeh
Knowflake Posts: 894
From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 11, 2011 12:49 PM
Hi beth. What are your charts like?My first guess is scorpio sun for him... I can see a scorpio being afflicted like the way you describe him. And also you mentioned sexual... There has to be a strong Moon connection between you two. IP: Logged |
DayandNight21
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Registered: May 2010
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posted August 11, 2011 01:03 PM
Hi
I kinda feel for this guy he needs to broaden his horizons maybe. Today I checked the date with someone, got it wrong as checked it again in the car,came back and changed it (only a day out but people do pick up on these things).
It is not just with dates, sometimes I have to process what I want to say before it comes out of my mouth. I put it down to progressed mercury opposite neptune as sometimes even the tone of my voice does not match how I want it to come across.
Have matured so it is not immaturity or silliness, it is a processing issue (passed a master's level module 2 years ago so my intelligence is still ok). Also from memory one astrology reading said the way I envisage relating to people can be too future orientated and need to keep it to the here and now (uranus in 5th in libra maybe). Maybe his head was so full of other thoughts that that just came out before he could stop it?
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bethcarliseh
Knowflake Posts: 365
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 11, 2011 05:36 PM
Thanks for your responses. It is giving me more of a broad picture of his possible psychology. Two people here were right. A Pisces. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
Knowflake Posts: 365
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 12, 2011 05:08 AM
is it possible that I get more attractive every day?IP: Logged |
mir
Knowflake Posts: 591
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 12, 2011 08:39 AM
Yes it is. I mean, I had a date two weeks ago with a guy of my own age (only 3 weeks older than me) and this meeting really had a shock effect on me. Why? Because it was like looking in a scary mirror of (I may hope-) the past. It's like *I* had gained all the 'maturity' while he had gotten stuck in puberty or something. And he really wasn't that bad-looking .. but the way he behaved/moved literally made him ugly and ofcourse.. a total let-down to me. I've never felt the relativity of 'looks' to such an extent. IP: Logged |
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