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Topic: Advice please! Does he need his space?
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Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 12, 2011 04:43 PM
  
Hello, I need a bit of Advice.... My male Pisces sun/Taurus moon/Aqua Venus/Gem Mars friend and I have been in contact with each other every day at the very least via email since the end of April. He's crap at replying, says he always has been, even his parents have trouble getting in contact with him and he adores them!
He does write, and it probably is a lot, just not as much as I do or would like him to lol..
I'm abroad and we've been writing to each other a lot in the past two weeks.
I did leave it a whole day without writing to him last week, and after 27 hours, I received a message:
"I'm thinking about you.. you've got me used to receiving messages from you...the whole day - silence.... are you ok treasure?" I replied, and again we were writing to each other like 8 times a day. But since Tuesday night,I haven't written to him, and it's now Friday night. That for us is a long time! But he hasn't written either....
Half of me wants to hold out to see if he will write, and to try to make him 'miss' me a little... The other half is itching to write something, even just hi how are you?!...Does he need this space? Do you think he's waiting for me to write? Shall I write? I don't want to invade his space if he needs it... but then I/ don't want him to feel insecure or like I've forgotton about him...HELP! 
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Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 12, 2011 05:08 PM
hello? Is anyone there? IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 13, 2011 12:02 AM
bump!! it's been over 72 hours....... this isn't healthy IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
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From: canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 12:28 AM
my best friend has aqua venus and she texts me everyday for about two weeks straight then she will stop then we wll give eachother a break for like 3 weeks,it could be the aqua placements they tend to need their own space all the time. i should know aqua moon. eventually he will message you when that will be i dont know. but if you really want to talk to him message him maybe hes waiting for you too. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
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posted August 13, 2011 12:31 AM
but with that gemini mars he should be at least very fast and quick witted they usually always get right back to you within the 5 seconds.thats very strange. but sun in pisces i find they take a while to answer they kinda go with the flow and let life happen maybe hes just lingering on taking his time. taurus moons are very reserved they dont say much unless asked a question first. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 05:15 AM
Thanks for replying. He is very quick when he wants to be; sometimes when he is taking his time replying i write something to intrigue him to test if he is actually busy or just keeping me waiting and 9 times out of 10 he'll reply within 2 seconds lol I could try that now, but half of me wants to see how long it will take him to write and what he will say... IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 13, 2011 05:23 AM
fudging pisces, yo...
what are the rest of the placements?
and what is that mars being aspected by?
do either of you have uranus and saturn in sagittarius?the only person that i haven't blown off for being so flighty, is tiger woods and it's only because i've read of him or heard of him on tv or on the internet.. otherwise, i'd probably blow him off too.. he has mars in gemini... i once made a blog called 'sexting tiger'.. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 05:30 AM
Tux, dont have access to that info at the moment but his dob is 7 march 1976 born in krakow @ 10:40am... I have a feeling I have those two in sag... June 1982?IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 13, 2011 05:37 AM
girrrrrrrrrrrrl, your friend is drunk!sorry to break it to u like this,
but with sun squaring neptune and transiting neptune moving very close to that mercury and venus of his, oh yeah, he's drunk. IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 13, 2011 05:42 AM
For 3 and a half days?? Anyway that doesnt explain it, i get more messages when he's drunk IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 13, 2011 05:47 AM
for 3 days? sure, could be a possibility..yeah, with neptune,
no doubt about it,
he's pretty wasted.. probably hung over.. it's not so much that he needs 'space' but he has no idea wtf to do! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 05:49 AM
Lol so should I write to him then, or is there not much point? IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted August 13, 2011 05:56 AM
do it!
why restrain yourself!?IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
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posted August 13, 2011 06:05 AM
YesIP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 13, 2011 07:01 AM
Ok, ive done it! IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 13, 2011 02:19 PM
Guess what? He was drinking IP: Logged |
Jounia
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posted August 13, 2011 02:20 PM
Guess what? He was drinking IP: Logged |
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