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Topic: Virgo - How Do You Know If They Like You?
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JoJo Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 12, 2011 10:27 PM
I have a question for all you who are so much wiser than I am...How long will it take a Virgo Sun/Virgo Venus man to get around to kissing a woman he is interested in? For that matter, how can you tell if he's interested at all? This one is very complimentary and cuddly, but no kisses yet (not even a peck) and we've seen each other twice...I have to admit that it has me puzzled. Thanks! IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 12:54 AM
Virgos I know are usually pretty shy and withdrawn about stuff like that. But Virgos are also open to new things, if a little bit indifferent, so maybe talking it out in a cool calm manner will be within his comfort zone? Yeah...sounds like a Virgo. Affection, but not a lot and nothing incriminating.EDIT! Oh, only seen each other twice? Well I think you should go out a bit more before looking for anything concrete. IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 01:07 AM
i've dated two virgos. they were both very forward actually, but extremely nitpicky with me about all my flaws. it was a feel-good party! but really i have virgo saturn and NN so this stuff is good for me (sorta). i also know that not all virgos fit this stereotype. my best friend ever as a child is a virgo and she was not like that at all and was the biggest hoot. okay i'm rambling now.. i think if they ask you a lot of questions that's their foreplay and it will evolve from there if they're interested. IP: Logged |
crabclaws Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 01:40 AM
Why don't u make the first move I am sure he wont mind.IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 6224 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 02:48 AM
Someone once said that you know a Virgo is into you by how much they nit-pick you, fuss at you, and nag you. I have found this to be extremely true. If they don't like you, they don't bother with you at all.IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 03:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by crabclaws: Why don't u make the first move I am sure he wont mind.
Yes. I second that, >3 IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 04:01 AM
haha, gypsee! that's hilarious to me, but basically accurate i think. strange sort. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 05:18 AM
my Sun is in Virgo..idk, sometimes, i feel more like a leo than anything else but then again i just don't know anymore i have a 'splash' chart, so i have something in every house i can probably be everything in my chart, at the same time so it's unheard of for me to just associate with one though i've been very much capricorn-like these days courtesy of saturn through libra, i'm thoroughly enjoying it's exaltion! what i can say, is that if a virgo is into you, they will talk to you. if they seek you out for conversation, then you know for sure they're interested in getting to know you more. though the 'virgin-ness' is really overrated. there is a sense of purity in the sense that virgo is not one to connect with just anyone. virgo and scorpio used to be the same sign.. til man split them up and created libra to balance the two.. so in reality, libra would i guess be the only 'man-made' sign.. suits since it's the sign of diplomacy but back in the day, virgo would be pictured as the one holding the scales.. if libra (the sign of equality) is between virgo and scorpio, i would think that there is a LOT in common between the two. i know for a fact, that my temple, my mind, and my own personal space is sacred and i'm VERY selective as to who i let in and the people i talk to.. i once got a fortune cookie that said 'not even the ocean's of the entire world could sink a ship unless the ship allowed the water to flow in'. guard your mind as such.
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 06:06 AM
We're pretty reserved with showing that we like someone (due to shyness, fear etc)You'll know a virgo likes you if they ask you alot of questions and seek you out for convo. If you mention sth in passing and they remember it, if they give you sth in relation to an interest you may have without you mentioning it (being observant), if they're willing to help you out and kinda fuss over you (not in a clingy, smothering kind of way lol like cancers) And I think we kind of look at the ppl we like alittle differently. Like a type of subdued gleam? In our eye? I have a libra moon, venus and mercury... But when I like sb, I can still be alittle shy (despite the aries rising lol), but it might be cos my mars is in virgo too. I'm pretty affectionate, expressive and romantic... But I'm pretty hesitant at the start. Virgos are generally pretty cautious. We don't jump in head first, we evaluate the situation first =) IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 06:08 AM
Take a packet of ketchup, spread it on your face. If The Virgo can go the entire date without wiping it off then Virgo is yours.IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 3395 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 08:46 AM
My bfriend in an over Virgo, almost everything in Virgo, you may have a wait on your hands!Where is his Mars? Once I FINALLY got mine to atleast date me, which took MONTHS, knowing his Mars is in Scorp and recognizing the sexual tension, I jumped ontop of him and kissed him first. But I would not recommend this with just any Virgin~ They can not handle drama, so choose your actions wisely. And yes, I am nit-picked, critisized, etc, to death, but I recognize his projections of his own issues onto me. My mother, a Virgo also, the same all of my life...so I suppose if they are into you, or love you or even like you, given enough time, they will pick you apart, just dont forget to put yourself back together!
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bellesoul Knowflake Posts: 435 From: london Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 09:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by GypseeWind: Someone once said that you know a Virgo is into you by how much they nit-pick you, fuss at you, and nag you. I have found this to be extremely true. If they don't like you, they don't bother with you at all.
Hahahahaha i like this answer! My partner has a virgo moon and he does this to me constantly, sometimes gets me down coz it makes me think hes tryna change me and can jus downright get on my nerves. But i know its just 'his way' and hes jus as bad with himself.. well least i know i'm important and loved p.s. his libra sun makes up for it with all the sweet, cuddly and affectionate stuff IP: Logged |
bellesoul Knowflake Posts: 435 From: london Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 09:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by bethcarliseh: Take a packet of ketchup, spread it on your face. If The Virgo can go the entire date without wiping it off then Virgo is yours.
lol i don't think any sign could sit there with someone with ketchup all over there face without wiping it off or saying something and im a sag!! IP: Logged |
Taineberry Knowflake Posts: 855 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 10:01 AM
Yep, there is every possibility Mr Virgo might keep you hanging for a LONG time, before he eventually gets round to letting you know where you stand with him. It took my Virgo about 3 years of dating before he finally said "I love you" - I got such a shock I nearly fell off my chair, as I wasn't sure of his feelings right up till that moment, even though I was crazy about him! But he did mean it, and he did marry me. I think Virgo's just need a long time to analyse everything about you, tick all the boxes and weigh up the pros and cons before they make their move. And... yes ...as others have said - be prepared that any long term relationship with a Virgo will involve a LOT of listening to their gripes about every little thing that is not up to scratch. But on the plus side, they are amazingly resourceful and good at what they do.IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 8924 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 10:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by GypseeWind: Someone once said that you know a Virgo is into you by how much they nit-pick you, fuss at you, and nag you. I have found this to be extremely true. If they don't like you, they don't bother with you at all.
Indeed A Virgo ,not into you, will cast a cool eye at you and move on , wordless but you know they were there . ------------------ Submit to Love without thinking, as the sun rose this morning recklessly, extinguishing our star-candled minds. Rumi IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 10:26 AM
Yeah us virgos are really hard to get emotionally, and it takes somebody special for us to fall in love. And we DO mean the things we say.Like for me, I can't tell sb I love them if I don't. I just can't do it. When I say things I always follow it up with actions. Virgos show they care with actions, they're kind of like an aries in the way that they're more action orientated than just all words (unlike gems haha for example) IP: Logged |
JoJo Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 10:33 AM
Interesting replies everyone - thanks. I'm not one to make the first move unless I know for sure I have a green light so I guess I'll hang back and see what transpires. Usually men are pretty obvious about whether or not they're into me, so it's kinda nice to have one take his time. It intrigues me and gives me time to figure out if I want date him or just be friends. At this point, either one is fine with me. Even though I'm a Pisces, my Capricorn moon makes me grounded, practical, and analytical, so it will be fun to watch how this evolves. IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Knowflake Posts: 1001 From: England Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 10:40 AM
I've known 2 virgos that were very forward one had mars in leo the other in aries, neither of them did any messing about and both made a move within 24 hours of meeting them.IP: Logged |
JoJo Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 10:56 AM
My bad - I just went back and looked at his chart and he's a Virgo sun with Venus and Mars in Libra. How would that mix with my Venus in Aries and Mars in Scorpio? IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 3395 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 11:02 AM
O dear, JoJo, a Fish?me too, hang on for the most frusterating, and the most rewarding time of your life~ IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 11:03 AM
He's still gonna act pretty much what I described, though he might be alil more flirty since his mars is in libra too lolI'm a virgo sun and mars, but like I mentioned, my moon, venus and merc are in libra. I LOVE banter and all that stuff, but at the same time, I still kinda shy back when I like somebody. I think he'll be like me, since he has those libra planets. IP: Logged |
JoJo Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by hippichick: O dear, JoJo, a Fish?me too, hang on for the most frusterating, and the most rewarding time of your life~
Haha. I don't do frustrating very well. It's got to be Aries Venus. IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 3395 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 12:59 PM
Me too, Aries Venus!!! Just fall back on your Pisces soul and your earth moon (I am a bull moon) to deal with this guy...you will SO need your resources!!I dont mean to be negative, it is just So challenging! I love my man to pieces....but it aint easy...nooooo it aint easy! blessins t~~~ IP: Logged |
JoJo Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 13, 2011 04:43 PM
He called me a little bit ago to tell me that he and his ex got back together. He said that they had been talking about it, which is why he didn't make a move on me. We have mutual friends so we will see each other here and there, and he didn't want to be a jerk.I totally respect and appreciate him being up front with me like he was. I also appreciate him not making a move. We laughed about our obvious chemistry - so at least I know I'm not losing my touch. LOL Haha... wow... I'm 0-3 in this department. I've dated three guys in the last 8 months and ALL 3 have gotten back with their ex girlfriends. At this point I just have to laugh because I'm pretty sure I saw a movie with a similar theme. I'm just thankful all three guys got back with their exes before we got too involved, if you know what I mean. IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 3395 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2011 09:05 AM
In the old days, there was a waiting period before one dated again.Wow, 3 guys that all went back to their x's. FIckel is as fickel dose, probably to your benefit you didnt get involved with any of them. blessins! IP: Logged |