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Topic: Love Interests with the SAME birth date
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Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 1562
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2011 10:13 AM
  
I'm freaking out right now!!Years ago, I posted about a guy who fell in love with me. We were friends and I was dating someone else at the time. He was very obsessively into me, tried to break me & my bf up and even threatened suicide. I cared (and still care) about him a lot, despite the drama he brought into my life - but it's more brotherly/sisterly from my perspective. We have not been in touch much for the past couple of years because he moved to Europe. OK - Now... here's what's WEIRD. Two weeks ago I met a guy (friend of a friend). We got along really well from the start. It's not a romantic thing, but he was easy to talk to and nice. I found out his d.o.b. tonight and it's the EXACT same DAY as the the guy above ^
I mean what are the odds?
Am I meant to be learning something here? Why is a person with the same chart in my life - once again? I was wondering if other people have had this happen.. IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Scotland
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 10:35 AM
I haven't had this exact thing happen to me, but I did date someone born on the same day as me, and I couldn't believe just how different and incompatible we were! I guess it just proves there's a point to all them other planets and positions.I'm no expert, but if I take this out of the realm of astrology, I'd say that you may be attracting a similar type of person because there are aspects of them that will help you grow, or recognise what you need to within yourself. Perhaps there was a lesson from the past relationship that you hadn't fully realised, and a part of you is still seeking that resolution or learning. Or, consequently, this may be a lesson in just how different two things can be that first appear similar. It's interesting whatever turn it takes though  I have found that who I receive into my life very much depends on what I'm throwing 'out there' IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: Scotland
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 10:36 AM
Double post deleted. Apologies, it never appears the first time, and I thought it was munched by cyber space.IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 200
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2011 01:02 PM
Yeah, this has happened to me too. The Sag dude I posted about is born a day after my first boyfriend, just a couple of hours away, actually (one born in the evening, the other one during the night, technically the next day). The Moon travelled like 5 degrees or so. They're pretty different people.
But since both their Suns are on my SN, I suppose they are meant to teach me something. Time will tell what that is. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
Knowflake Posts: 272
From: here and there
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2011 02:53 PM
Years ago, I had a boyfriend born Dec 2nd, then another boyfriend born Dec 4th. Different years, though. I do seem to have a real thing for Sagittarius, or guys with Sag in their charts. Weirdly, I have been very attracted to men born in 1958. I'm born in 1964. What the 1958 thing is, I have no clue. There are three guys, all born in 1958, that I find WAY attractive. Two in April, and one in December.IP: Logged |
Numblebum
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 03:14 PM
I haven't had the same thing but have just recently discovered my boyfriend of 13 years time of birth so was able to see his chart with mine. We are just 12 days apart (he's my toyboy!) but our charts are so weirdly exact to eachother its like seeing my reflection - things like his mars exact conjunct mine, his venus exact conjunct mine, his mercury exact conjunct mine, his sun just a couple of degrees from mine, his saturn conjunct mine, his pluto, neptune, etc, etc - pretty much only things different are our moons - his in libra, mine in taurus and our ascendants - his in aries, mine in gemini. I love it!! Although I do wonder if we might come across a bit too much like a tweedle-dum and tweedle-dee couple lol! Not so sure I like that idea - I'm guessing not though as we're both aries and too independent to want to be the same lol!IP: Logged |
Numblebum
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 03:17 PM
It definitely sounds like learning thing for you. These meetings happen far too infrequently for it to be anything other than fateful I reckon. Would be interested to see how things turn out - ie how similar he turns out to be in the longer run for you.IP: Logged |
Numblebum
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I haven't had this exact thing happen to me, but I did date someone born on the same day as me, and I couldn't believe just how different and incompatible we were! I guess it just proves there's a point to all them other planets and positions.I'm no expert, but if I take this out of the realm of astrology, I'd say that you may be attracting a similar type of person because there are aspects of them that will help you grow, or recognise what you need to within yourself. Perhaps there was a lesson from the past relationship that you hadn't fully realised, and a part of you is still seeking that resolution or learning. Or, consequently, this may be a lesson in just how different two things can be that first appear similar. It's interesting whatever turn it takes though I have found that who I receive into my life very much depends on what I'm throwing 'out there'
Couldn't agree more!
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 5471
From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 17, 2011 04:41 PM
I've always wondered about this..My brother was born on Sept. 7th.
When I was around 20, I met this guy who was born on Sept. 7th. We ended up just friends, and he went on to father a child with a friend of mine, and the child is my Godchild. So, this man is permanent in my life, as in, I still see him a couple times a year.
Then, when I was about 21, I met a guy, also born on Sept. 7th.
I fell for him pretty hard, and we had an on/off thing for a long time.
Whenever my regular r/ship would be disrupted for whatever reason, he would be the first person I would seek out, and vice-versa.
Flash forward 15 years, and somehow, what are the odds, he has a son, the same age as my son, and the mother to his son moved to the same random town I moved to, and OUR sons play on the same ball team and have now for years. So, I see THIS Sept.7th person all the time too, plus we are always chatting on FB. This is just one incident. I have it happen to me all the time.
I think it's more than astrology though, but I'm not completely sure what it is.
Some sort of lesson, perhaps. IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 634
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 17, 2011 05:11 PM
This happens with my roommate (who I'm very close with and immediately got along with). His ex girlfriend, current girlfriend and I, all have the Venus at 29 Pisces-0 Aries. His ex girlfriend also had a Libra Moon like me (and potentially the same degree, I don't know her birth time). His current girlfriend is actually born a day after me (same year). She has a Scorpio Moon, like him. MY Moon (and his ex's), on the other hand, is conjunct his Sun. His Mars is at 1 Aries, which conjuncts all of our Venuses. His Sun trines his girlfriend's and my Suns within 1 degree. Speaking of my roommate... My friend used to date him and in the end he chose his current girlfriend over her. It's interesting, though, that he has the same rising degree (17 Scorpio) as her ex/one of the only guys to ever "tame" her (so to speak). She's not really one for relationships, but for some reason, she wanted to be with this guy. NOW, THIS GUY is my vertex boy. Astrology is f*cked up. IP: Logged |
wal2
Knowflake Posts: 58
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 19, 2011 05:27 PM
I'm not sure if you mean the same birth date as in exact y/m/d or just m/d, but I had an experience in line with this. I went through roughly a year where I had three romantic interests, all born within the same week of the same year. Two of them had the same moon in Virgo and one was a Cancer moon, and they all had different ACs. The remainder of their charts were nearly identical to each other. Now, they were all TOTALLY different people. At first I didn't really consider the idea that they were all bringing me some shared karmic touch because my relationships with all three of them were a total mixed bag, but looking back I think it reflected more on my karmic touch at the time, something I was actively seeking or connecting to, rather than something being brought to me. I can say that I impacted them more than they did me in the long term in all cases.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
Knowflake Posts: 393
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 19, 2011 05:44 PM
well, that's interesting.. they may have the same birthdate but what are the odds that they'll have the same birth time? after i had a small dosage of this huge stellium that transited my twelfth house, i'll tell you that i will not judge nor really look at myself as any better than anything or disregard the experience and go on to something else.. even if the person i'm dealing with has their screw up's, there's common ground otherwise neither would be engaging with the other so find out what you guys have in common and neutralize the connection because that's how you'd be able to move on from that. what you resist, persists! look into his chart, study it, if you see something there, try opening your heart to maybe helping them resolving it if they even are open to it but nonetheless, you may find something there that resonates a lot with your rejected self.. accept it, embrace it and grow from it, you'll see how much more liberating it feels than to keep things down only running into it in somebody else. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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Registered: May 2011
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posted August 19, 2011 05:48 PM
btw, even if the other person is not open to astrology or hearing what you have to say, you may go through your own personal inner growth; not imposing your view on them.IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
Knowflake Posts: 1093
From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 19, 2011 06:00 PM
Funny... That reminds me of my brother's high school years. He had a best friend throughout his high school years and one day, when I discussed Astrology with him he noted that he and his friend had a whole lot in common, that being the main reason why they were best friends. It turned out they had the same birthdate. They really looked alike, the only difference was that my brother was skinny in those days and his best mate was quite bulky. So I suspect a different rising.The funny thing is that it actually won my ever sceptical (and stubborn) brother over to the Astrology side a bit. That was until he noted how little I acted like my sun sign and how much our mother did... All that work convincing him for nothing! LOL ------------------
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Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 20, 2011 02:05 AM
I havent met anyone with the same b-days.. (shocker I know.. lol) What I have noticed is I met the "same aspects" until I "get it" then that aspect goes away.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 5018
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 20, 2011 04:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Am I meant to be learning something here? Why is a person with the same chart in my life - once again?
Is a placement in his chart conj one of your angles? If so, definitely yes. Is your NN involved here, if so definitely yes., etc. Also look at your p. angles, see if his chart is touching those, and at your p.personal planets and look for contacts to his chart, esp. from your Sun and Moon, esp the conj.
All those things point to 'you need to be learning something here'IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 954
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 20, 2011 12:43 PM
Lol I clicked on this because I recently met someone who has the same exact birthdate as my best friend from elementary who I was really close to and still miss. But this person has sag moon while the girl from elementary has scorpio moon. Still it doesnt seem to matter at all, except that the sag mooner is much more lighthearted, but they are still both pretty similar in personality being that they both are extremely shy and quiet but dont seem shy at all. This is the same person i'm talking about in the "is it okay if i wait 2 weeks" thread. Mainly i'd say the reason why we clicked so well is because teu both have a sun-venus-mercury stellium with me in the composite and mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry which grupovenus.com says means we develop strong feelings about each other right from the start. . So far i wish i could just go on facebook and introduce myself to all the people born on that birthdate lol IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 954
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 20, 2011 12:50 PM
Lol I clicked on this because I recently met someone who has the same exact birthdate as my best friend from elementary who I was really close to and still miss. But this person has sag moon while the girl from elementary has scorpio moon. Still it doesnt seem to matter at all, except that the sag mooner is much more lighthearted, but they are still both pretty similar in personality being that they both are extremely shy and quiet but dont seem shy at all. This is the same person i'm talking about in the "is it okay if i wait 2 weeks" thread. Mainly i'd say the reason why we clicked so well is because teu both have a sun-venus-mercury stellium with me in the composite and mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry which grupovenus.com says means we develop strong feelings about each other right from the start. . So far i wish i could just go on facebook and introduce myself to all the people born on that birthdate lol IP: Logged | |
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