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Topic: Are ya self-conscious? Or maybe yer confident?
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RedScorp
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From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 20, 2011 01:49 AM
  
Where would you consider yerself? Perhaps under...VANITY?! No, but really...where do you think low self-esteem comes from? Or pride? Or just the right amount of confidence? This is a Venus-y area, I believe.And I mean looks-wise, yo'. Also, be honest, but do you find yourself attractive? Do you think yer attractive? This is my prognosis: I love the way I look and I, shamelessly admit that, I am attracted to myself. If I saw myself walking down the the street...mmfph. BUUUT, I don't think everyone is attracted to me. I mean sure, I'm not ugly, but I'm not the best-looker around. Venus is my strongest planet. Am I vain? How about you? Lol, Tuxy baby, sorry for quoting you on this, but I love what you said: I just wanna be beautiful. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 20, 2011 05:10 AM
Self esteem, pride, confidence relates to the Sun.
Vanity is related to Venus.And I'm the same way, if I saw me I would want me. It's also common for people to be attracted to others who look like them. Just look over those wedding announcements and you'll see just how many look like they could be brother/sister pairings, even if they're from diff age groups and diff races, many couples do look alike.
Also it's been scientifically shown in some studies that women are attracted to men who resemble them since it gives woman a feeling of comfort. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/6028972/Women-are-most-attracted-to-men-who-look-like-a-masculine-version-of-themselves.html http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/attraction.shtml
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Perrett has taken images of students' own faces and morphed them into the opposite sex. Of all the faces on offer, this seems to be the face that subject will always prefer. They can't recognize it as their own, they just know they like it.
The man I've found most attractive for the past 11 years looks v. much like me. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 9926
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 20, 2011 05:23 AM
Self-conscious.Chiron square Ascendant
Sun square Saturn IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted August 20, 2011 05:46 AM
self conscious =/Asc square saturn? (orb ain't tight though)
virgo sun + mars
chiron square moon + venus IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 20, 2011 07:28 AM
hmm... i honestly think i'm too old for low self esteem. seal and heidi klum abit yeah i can see similar features. tomkat no for me. johnny and vanessa are also a no.
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Swift Freeze
Moderator Posts: 736
From: Dreams
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 20, 2011 08:26 AM
I sometimes have a lack of self value.
I know i'm good looking, got a great body and offer a huge amount of great qualities although there are certainly flaws, my problem is that I sometimes struggle to feel this way rather than just think. I've read that Sun semi-square Venus is partly responsible for this lack of awareness and self love. I'm sure a heavy dose of libra doesn't help perhaps needing reassurance from others.
Sun Semi-Square Venus
Sun Semi-Square Pluto
Sun Square Moon
Moon Square Mercury
Moon Square Mars
Moon Opposite Uranus
Moon Opposite Saturn
Moon Opposite Neptune
Moon Sesquiquadrate Venus
Moon Sesquiquadrate Pluto ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2791
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 20, 2011 08:51 AM
Self conscious.I hate being photographed by others, I wish for perfection I'll probably never reach, make-up is a waste of time for me, and I just look in the mirror for more flaws. More gripping: the rest of my family is good looking. I must have really bad karma.
Capricorn Asc
Saturn in the 12th
Sun opposite Asc.
Sun Quincunx Saturn
Virgo Moon/8th
Chiron in the 6th
Unaspected Venus/5th
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 10270
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posted August 20, 2011 09:20 AM
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 20, 2011 12:30 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
hmm... i honestly think i'm too old for low self esteem.
Lmfao, how mature, I guess? xD quote:
Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
...I sometimes struggle to feel this way rather than just think.
OH yeah, feeling it can definitely be harder than just knowing it. Aw, Benedict Moooooooooon. I doubt it's that bad. C: IP: Logged |
crabclaws
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 20, 2011 10:03 PM
I don't if its low self esteem. Or my sun in cancer but I can't bear being around crowds of people especially strangers.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 20, 2011 10:46 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
I so have that movie, lol. Love it (!)
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2011 02:32 AM
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Originally posted by crabclaws:
I don't if its low self esteem. Or my sun in cancer but I can't bear being around crowds of people especially strangers.
I think that's the Sun in Cancer. I know am Aquarius with a Cancer Ascendant and she has a phobia of people she doesn't know. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2011 02:32 AM
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Voix_de_la_Mer
Moderator Posts: 2692
From: Sound
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 21, 2011 06:38 AM
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 10270
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posted August 21, 2011 08:32 AM
doesn't everyone have an awkward stage anyway?  IP: Logged |
MyLibraWorld
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posted August 21, 2011 09:43 AM
Self conscious but I'm slowly changing cuz I stand in my own way and that's too destructiveIP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 2791
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 21, 2011 10:18 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I think that's the Sun in Cancer. I know am Aquarius with a Cancer Ascendant and she has a phobia of people she doesn't know.
I've hated crowds for as long as I can remember. I know my Cancer Sun had its part there, but I thought it was primarily my 12th house stellium..haha.
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2011 05:59 PM
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Femininity was always a sticking point with me too... I still feel like a genderless child a lot of time, even though I have the body, mannerisms, and life of a woman.
Don't worry, when I was young, I was often put down for my rather androgynous appearance. But I kin of like it, I mean, I don't look like a woman, but pull my hair the right way, give me girl clothes, etc, and I could pass for one. Not that I want to! Just sayin' IP: Logged |
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