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posted August 22, 2011 07:42 PM            

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How would you describe a relationship that has Pluto opposite Mars, Pluto opposite Mercury, and Pluto opposite Venus all in the same composite?

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posted August 23, 2011 07:07 AM            

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My guess : controlling.
It may be intense, deep and passionate, but issues about control are likely. There may be a strong fear of losing each other which leads to emotional games/manipulation.

Here's what cafeastrology says about one of the aspects:

" When composite Venus is square or in opposition to composite Pluto:

This relationship can never be taken lightly, as it exists to transform your values and change your attitude towards love and relationship. It demands a lot from you both. This relationship starts off intensely and you are likely to become very close quickly. However, attempts to maintain this high level of intimacy and emotional involvement or dependency can eventually break down the relationship. One or both of you might resort to tricks and manipulative behavior in an attempt to keep the partner dependent, loyal, and intensely involved. Fear of betrayal or loss can be a self-fulfilling prophecy in this case. You are likely to come face to face with your own emotional baggage or "slush"--the darker side of yourself when it comes to attachments--through one another. Be careful not to demand more from your partner than he/she is capable of. It can be hard to let go of one another. If this relationship dissolves, it can easily turn into an angry battle over division of property, possessions, or offspring; or it can leave one or both parties feeling bitter, resentful, and angry for some time. As hard as it is to let go of the relationship, it can be equally hard to let go of angry feelings after a break-up." http://www.cafeastrology.com/composite/venus_pluto.html

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posted August 23, 2011 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
My guess : controlling.
It may be intense, deep and passionate, but issues about control are likely. There may be a strong fear of losing each other which leads to emotional games/manipulation.

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Thank you. I thought it would be something like this based on what I read online, and I'm afraid all the manipulation might lead to direct abuse.

Especially with Mars/Pluto and Mercury/Pluto, with the first one bringing physical violence and the second one - verbal abuse.

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posted August 23, 2011 02:15 PM            

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Sigh, yes.
But awareness is key!

If you know the risks, you can try your best to avoid falling into the trap of abuse.

I hope everything is going to be okay for you.

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posted August 23, 2011 09:49 PM            

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Thank you very much! You're right about awareness, I will be careful.

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posted August 23, 2011 10:34 PM            

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Hello Fuzzy! Welcome to LL

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posted August 24, 2011 11:06 PM            

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Thank you very much!

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