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Topic: What are your deal-breaker aspects in synastry?
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featherlightly Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 22, 2011 08:24 PM
What aspects have you had that you'll avoid like the plague from now on?For me, I REALLY hated: -Mars square Saturn (stubborn clash of wills) -Mercury square/opposition Mars or Saturn (constant bickering, getting on each other's nerves all the time) -Moon square moon (hard getting close to the other person/letting them in, even when you're really compatible) -Saturn conjunct ascendant (feels like the Saturn person always has the upper hand and is 'wiser' than you or intimidating) What about you? IP: Logged |
northernlad Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted August 22, 2011 08:43 PM
Anything in Libra IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 22, 2011 08:59 PM
Well for aspects I haven't had any that were horrible, but I would expect a tight mercury square mars, or Mercury square moon to be quite annoying.Anything involving a square to mercury, moon etc will probably get irritating very quickly. Saturn conjunct Desc or Asc? Mars square uranus (tight?)
I don't want a guy with cancer planets, gem planets lol or Pisces. Mars square mars (tight?)-- probably good for attraction, but I hate conflict so yeah.
^ and HEY lol. I've got a Libra stellium. What's wrong with libra planets? o_O I'm a virgo sun, but I got a stellium in libra and an aries rising, so I've found that Cappies aren't for me. =/ IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5157 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2011 08:59 PM
Beyonce & Jay-Z have Mars square Saturn (1 deg) along w/ Moon square Mars (1 deg) and they make a great couple :]
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67216 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 22, 2011 09:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by northernlad: Anything in Libra
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featherlightly Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 22, 2011 09:06 PM
Mintgirl, I love Libra stellium people I got my ascendant there and my south node. My first three boyfriends were all Libras.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67216 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 22, 2011 09:08 PM
For me Virgo Venus Venus in Aries Most Virgo placements Most Libra Placements Aqua Sun Aqua moon Libra moon Scorpio Moon
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featherlightly Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 22, 2011 09:09 PM
Moonfish, that's interesting about Beyonce and Jay-Z. Do you know if their synastry chart is posted anywhere? I actually think (from looking at probably close to 1000 charts in the past 12 years) that hard Mars/Saturn aspects are the most common thing in long term relationships. That or Saturn/Sun. And always the hard aspects -- square in particular. It must create some sort of combination of glue-like energy to keep the relationship going.I have trouble with hard aspects to my Mars because it's opposition to my Saturn and Uranus in my natal chart... so any hard Mars aspects are also triggering those planets. Yuck. IP: Logged |
northernlad Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted August 22, 2011 09:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ and HEY lol. I've got a Libra stellium. What's wrong with libra planets? o_O
And I've got a Cancer stellium. Nyah. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5157 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2011 09:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by featherlightly: Moonfish, that's interesting about Beyonce and Jay-Z. Do you know if their synastry chart is posted anywhere? I actually think (from looking at probably close to 1000 charts in the past 12 years) that hard Mars/Saturn aspects are the most common thing in long term relationships. That or Saturn/Sun. And always the hard aspects -- square in particular. It must create some sort of combination of glue-like energy to keep the relationship going.I have trouble with hard aspects to my Mars because it's opposition to my Saturn and Uranus in my natal chart... so any hard Mars aspects are also triggering those planets. Yuck.
Yea I noticed that too & no I looked it up myself, here's there chart: (jay-z birthtime unknown, & beyonce's birthtime is 12 pm. His Mars squares her Moon - not shown in the chart.) http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=4&d1 month=12&d1year=1969&d2day=4&d2month=9&d2year=1981 In my current relationship my Saturn squares his Venus & opposites his NN. His Saturn semi-square my Sun, inconjunct my Moon, & square my NN IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2578 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 22, 2011 09:56 PM
Born on the 1st, 10th, or 19. There will be power struggles. Born on the 16th. 7 lifepath. Born on the 5th, or 14th. Not a deal breaker, but I could never get close to them. I find they don't trust me, oddly. Sun in Aquarius - instantly puts me on guard. Sun & Mars in Capricorn Their Mars conjunct my Moon. Moon in Gemini opp my Moon in Sagittarius. Venus conjunct Mars. This is not a romantic aspect, it's a sexual one. I will not pursue a relationship where this was the only/major aspect because I know things will descent in to warfare.
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 22, 2011 10:16 PM
Mars square Mercury Mercury conj Saturn There are others."Saturn conjunct ascendant (feels like the Saturn person always has the upper hand and is 'wiser' than you or intimidating)" ---Or more like you throw the Saturn person off balance and they do all they can to retain a feeling of being in control. I've had it & I have it with 2 of my family members now, I'm the Asc in both. "Mars square Saturn (stubborn clash of wills)" ---Had this. Yes. "Mercury square/opposition Mars or Saturn (constant bickering, getting on each other's nerves all the time)" ---I have a DW Mars/Saturn to Mercury with someone. My Mercury opposes their Mars/Saturn. Their Mercury squares my Mars/Saturn. Just give me a break (!) Gtf off and let me breathe (!) "Mercury square moon to be quite annoying." ---Had this. No kidding. Mercury always said the wrong thing at the wrong time. "Saturn conjunct Desc" ---Had this. Again, let a poor woman breathe. "Mars square uranus (tight?)" ---Had this. Arguments took a while to get to that place but once they did Mars spared no expense in trying to ignite Uranus (me) into something that Mars couldn't handle (!) Oh, and the Mars person had natal Mars conj Merc (also sq my Uranus), did not help matters. "Beyonce & Jay-Z have Mars square Saturn (1 deg) along w/ Moon square Mars (1 deg) and they make a great couple :]" ---Do they air their dirty laundry? Moon/Mars is nice for sex. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 22, 2011 10:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by northernlad: And I've got a Cancer stellium. Nyah.
LOL guessing you're moody and clingy ahahha and manipulative (had an ex with cancer sun, scorpy moon + gem merc and venus -_-) I like my libra planets. Makes me understanding, creative, romantic and I'm a great listener. I guess my virgo sun and mars helps with stabilising any flighty tendencies haha. IP: Logged |
northernlad Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted August 22, 2011 10:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: LOL guessing you're moody and clingy ahahha and manipulative (had an ex with cancer sun, scorpy moon + gem merc and venus -_-) I like my libra planets. Makes me understanding, creative, romantic and I'm a great listener. I guess my virgo sun and mars helps with stabilising any flighty tendencies haha.
Moody, yes, but they come as fast as they go. Clingy? Not so much. I need my space and generally freak out when people are clingy with me. Manipulative? Not as bad as most Cancers get a rap for. I've got Sun, Merc and mars in cancer, Venus in Taurus and Virgo Moon. Libras are way too flaky for me. I went on a date a month ago with a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Pluto. He invited his friends to our date. WHO DOES THAT? WE'RE ON A BLOODY DATE. Then he invited me to go do something a week later and when the day came I never heard from him so I dropped him like a bad habit. I also had a little relationship with another Libra years ago and it was just a pain in the ass. I've sworn them off. Love them as friends, though. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 22, 2011 11:19 PM
Maybe he didn't think you were on a date? Lol? I have my pluto in scorpy, but lol my moon, venus and mercury are in libra (along with juno, vertex + many other asteriods). Maybe libra moon girls aren't as flighty.But yeah, wouldn't have worked out anyway, you guys have too many squares by sign. Stick with water and earth signs <3
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northernlad Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted August 22, 2011 11:28 PM
Oh no, he was well aware, because his co-worker lives in my neighborhood and has been spreading news of this "date" like wildfire. So, he was clearly interested, and yet flaked out. No thank you ma'am.IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2011 06:58 AM
-personal planets in hard aspect to neptune -too much pluto - veeery obsessive -and if its long term, then lack of strong contact between saturn and personal planets/axis
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allouette Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 23, 2011 07:11 AM
do you find Saturn cj DC that bad? Do you have any examples when it did work?I have it with someone I really like, I am Saturn IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted August 23, 2011 07:34 AM
I have a Sagittarius stellium: Sun,Neptune,Jupiter, Uranus and South Node.So far I don't have a particular aspect that I am "against". However, since I already have a T-square Moon, Mercury, Mars aspect, I reckon it wouldn't be a good idea to agrivate it by dating someone with close aspects to it i.e Libra, Capricorn , Cancer or Aries. But hey, what the use of living if you can't feel alive? The results, in my personality, are mixed IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 23, 2011 08:11 AM
hehehehehehe northern Ok, My deal breaker aspects:
When their Mars is conj. my Venus/NN and opposite my Pluto. They get on my nerves. I find them superficial and rebellious for the sake of being rebellious (with no actual/logical reason) Having *zero* Mercury aspects is sooooo mind numbingly boring. Having crappy Mercury aspects - less boring but still annoying. Venus retrograde generally isn't my 'type', because I don't find them sincere.. but there are exceptions. Mercury in Aries (when square my Cap Moon) can upset me. I feel like a mom who has to deal with a screaming/bratty kid in the middle of a crowded supermarket on a Saturday morning - (grocery shopping). While it may look funny to onlookers who find Mr Aries Mercury's antics "cute" -- it's not so much fun for me, since I have to put up with it ad nauseum. IP: Logged |
DayandNight21 Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Registered: May 2010
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posted August 23, 2011 03:42 PM
saturn square pluto either way a big no-no pluto opp sun - not nice after 3 months agree on the mercury - need aspects preferably positive ones sat square sun = bit fat dampener no thanks
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carl Knowflake Posts: 1126 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2011 06:26 PM
Wow, I don't think a single thing has been mentioned that is in my chart.IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 1238 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 23, 2011 07:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: hehehehehehe northern
Perfect picture for Cancer IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 1031 From: not here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 28, 2016 04:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Beyonce & Jay-Z have Mars square Saturn (1 deg) along w/ Moon square Mars (1 deg) and they make a great couple :]
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 64585 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 28, 2016 09:16 AM
Moving to IA.IP: Logged |