posted August 27, 2011 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The player must have a tenderness aspect such as cancer ASC . Otherwise they would be ugly and cardboard, plastic. A woman does not want plastic or cardboard.
A Cancer moon or ASC is often there

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posted August 27, 2011 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:

Okay, that makes sense.
There is a tenderness about him. I guess it's like a bait.

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posted August 29, 2011 04:47 AM            

Main one to point out was
uranus square moon (switch on and off)
chiron square moon (mommy issues taken out on girlfriends)
triple scorpio for deception
cancer moon for bait
uranus conjunct mars for fast moves
venus cazimi for smooth operator/charmer
house positions not known, 5th house would not be a surprise

posted August 29, 2011 04:58 AM            

^what's a cazimi?

triple scorpio for deception

posted August 29, 2011 05:28 AM            

Teen

Middle-aged

posted August 29, 2011 10:46 AM            

A triple scorp is sun venus and mars in scorpio.

posted August 29, 2011 11:31 AM            

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posted August 29, 2011 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Soothsayer:
Yes Ami, all the times are correct.

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The one with 5th house planets I will check out and get back to you later for the story .The others I will have to throw in the circular file

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posted August 29, 2011 03:03 PM            

But someone can cheat for a variety of reasons, never been completely sexually faithful to any of their partners excluding the length of any relationship they had, and not really have the "player mentality". (but because they are messed up mentally somehow or have an addiction problem ect they end up being sexually unfaithful down the road somehow)

For this study I'll submit one guy:
Regarding cheaters and players...this guy walks that line that borders on both. He was my first love, and my biggest mistake. He want to be a good person, or at least be seen as one. I won't call him evil... but he's definitely selfish and a narcissist. He HAS to have a relationship at all times. His greatest fear I think it to be alone. As soon as one ends, he is desperately searching for the next one. He is also a pathological liar, but uses his sob stories to disarm you so you feel pity for him. He is funny, extremely charming, always helping people, and comes off such a "nice guy". But he shows as much emotion as a brick wall when caught in a lie or want him to explain his intentions.

But, as I learned with him, there's another side to him...a dark side. He has a VERY promiscuous past.

He's back now with the love of his life,(he was with him for four years and never got over him, and now two years later after moving in with him...)

I just saw him post this profile on a website:

gay man seeks p*nis

28, 5'9", 178lb, 33w, Average, Black Hair, Buzzed Body, White, Looking for Friendship.

How about you come over to my house, sit on my couch, and we both jack off together. Or better yet come to my work and play with me in the restroom or out in the parking lot.

not interested in Sex.
not interesting in being someone's boyfriend.

Be clean, be cute, and age doesn't matter.

Notice the "double talk"? lol. Sad part is I know from experience this is not a joke and he means it. When you'd catch him in a lie or when he would say something that would be a red flag he would laugh it off as a joke. He was always "just joking". :|

Here is his chart:

posted August 29, 2011 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

The one with 5th house planets I will check out and get back to you later for the story .The others I will have to throw in the circular file

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posted August 29, 2011 07:35 PM            

Zank
I rule out a player if the 5th house is not full.
I agree that a player is calculating .A cheater may not be.
The player category stands alone amongst other categories.

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posted August 29, 2011 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Here are the natal aspects I associate with being a player:

Mars square Venus
Mars --- hatred/anger directed at --- Venus/women.
In the more positive manifestations it gives rise to a desire to tease women (playfully)..
In the more negative manifestations it can show a desire to go out there and actually abuse women (rape, psychological or physical etc).
Although I guess there is a third type who avoids relationships with women completely.

Venus in Aries
Childish – Unable to understand the consequences of their actions.. -Me first- attitude in romance. They can become a player simply because they are having fun – and they don’t really feel what the other person is going through as a result of their immaturity.

(Sometimes Mars in Libra – if badly aspected… can end up a player also… But the ones I know have changed their ways later in life)

Venus Retrograde
Unless you improve their social image in some way, they won’t ‘feel’ much for you.
Depending on how well-placed Mars is they can have a high sex drive – but no ability to form a loving connection due to this retro, hence – player-like behaviour.

Mars square Moon
Similar to the above V/M… It shows a hatred towards women… This is an even stronger aspect than Venus square Mars. Their mommy didn’t love them and they intend to take it out on anyone who has a vagina.

Moon in Aries
There is some anger towards female figures here also…. not wanting to submit to Love!
They see having a relationship as a ‘submission’ of their freedom.

Moon square Venus
Not quite as bad as the other aspects… but a man who has this might try to instigate arguments and drama. He is not happy in a smooth/caring relationship. He is also unclear on what he wants in a woman (and critical to no end).

Pisces Sun -- if mixed with any of the above aspects ^ will be a player to a point that would disgust most people. Everything I said for that particular aspect -- applies only it’s 200 times worse – and it will affect more women. The misogynistic Piscean is truly unstoppable & relentless. Quite the social-menace.

(Actually I'll throw in any mix of Aries/Pisces in a man (personal planets only!) -- come to think of it)

Other nasties… include Mars square or opposition Pluto – and - Mars square or opposition Saturn! These are more so bully-aspects.. not necessarily player aspects. However if a guy has one or a few of these aspects, he may try to bully you – BY – being a player… It may be a ‘preferred’ style of harming you psychologically at whichever point in time (usually after they get it into their heads that you flirted with another guy or what not)… But they do have many other tactics to harm people – so it will not be confined to being a ‘player’.

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Hi Betty,

The guy that I am into has moon in aries with the following aspects:

Moon Conjunction Mars 0°35
Moon Trine Saturn 0°01
Moon Trine Uranus 6°39

posted August 30, 2011 06:27 AM            

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Originally posted by zanarkand112:
There a fine line between a cheater and a player. I think of a player as someone who cannot commit, charms his way into someones heart for the good times, is completely conscious of how they are manipulating the person to get whatever they want, and as soon as things get the slightest bit too serious -- poof -- they disappear. And then usually reappear after a period of time and start the cycle all over again. They can single out a single person or do this to multiple people at the same time.

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thats just what happened to me and courtesy of this guy who effed me up royally...

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posted August 30, 2011 10:21 AM            

Mars in Libra- i agree

Venus in Virgo- search for perfection.

Venus in Libra-Can't get enough of that loving feeling.

Venus in Gemini-I need more than one person to stimulate me.I need a little sugar on the side.

Venus-Mercury trine/sextile-Smooth operator.

Venus-Neptune aspects. Idealistic love that doesn't exist.

Venus in Sagittarius/Pisces. I get around or I like to spread my love far and wide.

Venus square moon-yes. Don't be too soft on me.Love(Venus) is hard(square) on me(moon).

Uranus Venus square- yes. Lets get other people in on this love we have. Orgies.

Uranus-moon square-yes.Resists mundaness associated with stable relationships

Saturn-Venus square-yes. can keep a cool distance from getting too attached. I may be committed (Saturn) but we are not in love(Venus).

Juno-Neptune square Its hard to recognise(neptune) my commitment to another(Juno)

Juno-Jupiter square. My marriage/ commitments are just a part of my growth.

Juno in Aries/ Gemini- I rushed into this commitment(Juno) but am not so sure now

Moon-square Saturn-Yes.Emotioons can be turned on and off.

Jupiter-opposition/square- venus. Too much love to give."Big love"

Jupiter-square -mars. "I want to try them all for size."

Sun-Neptune. Search for the supreme(Neptune) soul(Sun).

Moon-Neptune. I a not sure how I feel about all this.

Venus in Aries- I like the beginning stages of love. I love the butterflies.More likely to be periodically infatuated.

posted August 31, 2011 04:06 AM            

What would a female player's chart look like? What kind of aspects would one find? and what would constitute a female player, someone who is a gold digger or someone who uses men for sex? both?