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violet7887
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posted August 26, 2011 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, I found this to be pretty much the closest explanation of what this might be or feel like:

Synastry Venus Square Saturn
Something keeps you away from being with each other or allowing love to develop.
Marriage, divorce, separation, children, relationship, busy career, unaccepted different culture or ethnic group, unaccepted different religion or sexual preference, greatly differing values, going to different schools or living a great distance (different countries) from each other are some reasons why the relationship will not thrive.
Untouchable…. she or he is so high “above” or “below” me.
Wanting the one who plays in the relationship, to work.
Wanting the one who works in the relationship, to play.
Feeling like a parent or a child.
Having your love bubble burst or alternatively, feeling a love burden.
Thinking one of you is not seeing the reality of the relationship.
Thinking one of you is not open to love in the relationship.
Getting the feeling that you could almost be together in-love but something always stops one or both of you.
Longevity of love: Over a long period of time, somehow running back into each other but not taking it all the way to something of substance.
Continuing to maintain the look and feel of a connection when no serious attempt will be made to make it physical.
Having a long distance relationship. Being always away from each other.
Having a sizable age difference i.e. 7-14 years — if not by chronology than by maturity or experience.
Testing each others patience in love.

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posted August 26, 2011 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 01, 2011 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you do not mind me asking moonfish, were either of you going through anything emotionally troubling when you met each other? I've been reading more into it and and am just trying to rule out if that was just a coinsidence for a common theme with my friend and I.

Now that I have read more into it, Saturn aspects seem to be more evident in committed, long lasting kind of unions. Like fated relationships that are meant to be "real." They are put to the test. Saturn stands for Karma in some way, so maybe saturn aspects with someone would suggest the two of you help work out each others karma?

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posted September 01, 2011 09:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
John Lennon's Saturn squared and Yoko Ono's Venus exactly. As most people know, it was very difficult for them to get together in the beginning.

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posted September 01, 2011 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 05, 2011 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 05, 2011 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for defeat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
without fail, this aspect has led to repulsion for me
when it's my venus i'm repulsed by them
and when it's their venus, i cna tell their repulsed by me

100%, evertime!!!

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posted December 05, 2011 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 05, 2011 05:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for defeat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i guess it could be the other things
also saturn tends to be attracted the venus person,
so if you have it both ways, maybe it's your saturn that's attracted to his vensu, not your venus to his saturn.

i'm not commenting on the aspect in general, just my experiences with it.
althugh it could be a coincidence where we had other bad aspects

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posted December 05, 2011 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this once with a man back in the 1990s. I really liked him and he was a very open and honest Virgo. He had plans for his life and was going to move away from the city. My heart was a bit broken, but I focused on somebody else and moved on. He was Saturn and I was Venus.

On another front I have this aspect with my stepfather and half sister. I live apart from their lives and I am not allowed or invited into family activities. My Stepfather is not civil and hides a deep grudge. He manipulates his relationship with my mom and refuses to have my mom spend much time with me. I am not close to my sister at all and I don't think it will ever be close. She is like a stranger to me.

I know a local comic here who has Saturn Square my Venus and he condemns me - looks down at me cause I believe differently than him. I mentioned something about astrology and he became very offended and started bashing the subject. I blocked him on FB.

Now, the other way around with my Saturn square another's venus, I'm not too sure what that looks like to me. I'm not sure if I had any synastry like that.

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posted December 05, 2011 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus square saturn and marriage to younger woman?

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posted December 05, 2011 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The man I consider the love of my life has his Venus in Virgo square my Saturn in Sagittarius. There is a 19 yr age gap (he's older) but it feels & looks more like 10 yrs. If you saw us together you wouldn't pick it.

But the Venus/Saturn aspect has a 4 deg orb.
We have much closer Saturn aspects: My Sun on his Saturn at 12 Aries. My Saturn - 9' Sag trine his Sun 9' Leo.. and many others in composite.

I can sort of relate to the initial interpretation you posted. Even though there is a lot of mutual love between us, I am pretty sure it will never materialize due to circumstances.
When we met he was still married but separated and she was living in a different country (so they were well and truly separated)... The divorce was finalized a few months into us knowing each other. But there are other problems... It wasn't just his relationship. It could affect his career adversely -- and his reputation.. if we were officially together. I don't want this to happen. I know he doesn't either.. so we've basically agreed to be friends. I know I can count on him no matter what - but I don't think we'll be together romantically.
It hurts like crap!
It's weird.. As much as it feels good to know he *cares* and to know he will always be there for me.. I also know that he's untouchable and we cannot *actually* be together.
It's so much like the interpretation. We are so close but so far.

Someone mentioned attraction... He was very attracted to me and made it obvious from the very beginning and he is the Venus here. But we also have Mars/Pluto conjunct (he's Mars) - so maybe that's where the attraction is coming from?

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posted December 06, 2011 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
why was it difficult for them to get together at first?

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posted December 06, 2011 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 06, 2011 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with the ex husband.. We were together for 13 years.
His late Pisces Saturn sq my early cancer Venus
(out of sign square)

We did have a 6 year age difference.

I think we stayed together way to long.. We were still together years and years after it all died...
I think we both started to have resentment with each other, yet we were so use to each other, we just couldnt say its over..

Fate stepped in after 13 years and ended it all for us... Neither of us said ok its over lets go our separate ways.
We were separated by circumstances, that ultimately ended the marriage..

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posted December 06, 2011 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 06, 2011 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex husband chased me for a year... IDK he gave me the fairy tale story... So even though I never felt the deep connection or the ultimate love.. I went ahead and married him, because imo.. it was the right thing to do, I felt as if I had to...

Hey he fit my H7 so what else can I say for myself.

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posted December 06, 2011 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
were you saturn?

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posted December 06, 2011 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by curiouswoman:
were you saturn?

No I was Venus..

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posted December 06, 2011 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
please forgive me to ask you this private question but why didn't the marriage work out. you don't have to respond if you feel uncomfortable

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posted December 06, 2011 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by curiouswoman:
please forgive me to ask you this private question but why didn't the marriage work out. you don't have to respond if you feel uncomfortable

You mean why did the marriage actually end?? OR why we just fell out of love..

Yes the answers are totally different..

I dont mind answering either way, I just dont want to answer publicly..

I can do email or something else, if its something you really want to know.

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posted December 06, 2011 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 06, 2011 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But i want everybody to remember that aspects and synastry are just a heads up from experiences, they dont define any relationship. If its meant to be, it will be.

If love is there, nothing else stands a chance.

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posted December 06, 2011 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by defeat:
without fail, this aspect has led to repulsion for me
when it's my venus i'm repulsed by them
and when it's their venus, i cna tell their repulsed by me

100%, evertime!!!

my 2 cents


I think I have this aspect in synastry with an ex of mine. Neither of us was repulsed by the other at first, in fact it was the exact opposite, but now it's definitely the case. I would be quite happy if I never encountered him again in my life as long as I live, and I'm sure the feeling is mutual.

I just think he's an awful, vile, disgusting person and a great disappointment as a human being and as a romantic partner. He's actually my twin soul but I'm highly annoyed by that and feel like the universe saddled me with one of the weak links in the humanity chain.

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posted October 24, 2012 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alove4edd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this aspect with my current gf. She currently lives in another state, just joined the air force. We have a four yr age difference. Plus both of us are female so this aspect makes sense.

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