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Topic: Over-sensitivity and transits
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2011 04:52 PM
I've been feeling like a wreck all week - except for last night. Wednesday and Thursday nights, I felt absolutely gutted over the past month, things that have happened over the past two years, and other feelings and memories were stirred. I look at my transits on astro.com today, and see Chiron all over the place:Chron conjunct Mars Chiron trine ascendant Chiron square Venus Which also means that Chiron is square my Moon and my Nodes, and trine my Uranus. It's back *again*, and has been the biggest bugaboo in the past eighteen months - along with Saturn, Pluto and Neptune. I was just wondering what other people had experienced in the same way. If Chiron had you feeling like there was just no point, and crying like there was no tomorrow (and taking - I've experienced more death in the past fifteen months, than I have since I was a child/teenager. Saturn in Libra has been digging up things from his last go-around there, only this time, I'm noticing the good, rather than hiding. And I mean the good in people, not in the experiences (the only good thing I took from it as a kid, was that I was more understanding and compassionate of the other side of things, having developed sevee social anxiety - I'd already been kind, but now I'd actually experienced it for myself - I also met good people who were/are dealing with that). I'm working on relationships, though, rather than just letting people go, out of fear Pluto in my third house, starting with an inconjunct to my Moon/venus/south node, and then sextiling Mars, uranus/asc = I've been more likely to put up a fight. I've also been more depressive and again with the death. third house = both the communication issues and literal deaths in my vicinity. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2011 05:05 PM
And I feel different. I don't like things to get ugly - and once joked, when my family was fighting - that we should just hose down the mud in the garden and mud wrestle. really give the neighbours a show!I feel like Pluto is shoving my face right in it - with sensitivities that I've carried around for years. maybe the positive side would be that if I speak up, then my feelings are either confirmed or assuaged right away. I don't know. I do know that someone I was once close to, told me that their actions hadn't been any reflection on me, but they were too late, because their actions had confirmed some of my worst fears, and I was a goner. I'd already spiralled. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2011 05:38 PM
Chiron is brutal. IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic Moderator Posts: 806 From: England Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 19, 2011 06:54 PM
Teasel I'm sorry I meant to come and answer you today and I forgot. It's nearly midnight and I'm out of time for the day but will you please bump this again if I don't get back to it tomorrow? I've got a fair bit of experience with chiron transits and yes they are brutal. They can be painful and feel relentless. Can you post your chart or your birth info? Or list all natal aspects to natal chiron and house positions? IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted September 20, 2011 10:16 AM
teasel... I miss you <3IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 28, 2011 09:46 AM
I'm sorry, dysfunctionalmystic, I didn't see responses. If you're still out there, I'd love to hear from you. Hi racole! I missed you, too. IP: Logged |
fenia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: athens greece Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 28, 2011 08:33 PM
teasel, I'm sorry you're going through this kind of pain. I was intrigued by your post, cause I feel a lot of hurt lately. It always happens to me when for some reason I get rejection and I am alone, I do not belong. My chiron in my natal chart conjuncts exactly my IC and squares my moon and opposes my venus. Go figure... I will never feel I'm home..Haha,and I just saw Chiron transit opposes my moon and squares my venus exact! nice IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 28, 2011 09:02 PM
I've been a mess of varying degrees, since it was in applying aspect to my Moon. I was a little concerned, but didn't think too much about it, because I'd worried about Uranus, and I ended up having more a good time when it hit everything (although not nearly as good of a time as I could have, had I been getting out more). I'm sorry you can relate - it's rough! I'm just floored by certain events, and my attitude has been terrible. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 5689 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 28, 2011 11:25 PM
Yea Chiron has been on my Sun, an Aunt of mine that I loved a lot has been on my mind since she died 2 wks ago. My memories of her just hit at crazy moments and the tears just spill out. The funeral was a nightmare, and of course my own mortality is being called to the forefront *again* as a result of this transit. Her poor husband had t.Saturn over his Venus when she died, and her son had t.Saturn over his Sun at the same time. She took care of them so well they hardly needed to look after themselves. And her mom is still alive, and was sobbing at the get together afterwards. They were so close, the poor thing always puts on a strong front and to me she said that she doesn't want to be the strong one right now with her daughter dead. I was under t.Saturn on my Sun when my mom died. I'm under a Saturn return at the moment and Saturn is conj my IC. Lots of people in my family have Libra.This isn't the only thing I've encountered with Pisces Chiron. I'm really ready for it to move past my Sun. Far away (!) IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 29, 2011 11:09 AM
- my descendant at 3'52 Pisces - my Neptune at 0'40 Sag. - my Saturn at 4'24 Gem.My mom died on the 29th of last month (sept.) when T.Chiron was at 1'29 R Pisces. Apart from that a lot of sextiles/trines from transiting planets to my natal AND T.Mars (6*30) entering my 12th and on my (12th-ruler) Sun (7*25). No idea if you can call that significant transits for a day your mom dies.. (in fact a day that I became an orphan as my dad already died). The funeral speech I wrote was too rebellious for the church and so I had one big fight with my sis while the pastor forced me to make the words a bit softer. So that's what I did, a bit more poetry and everybody was happy. Behind the words the heavy smell of a cruel reality... loved it! Guess what also; at the day of this very nice funeral T. Sun was exactly conjunct my natal Uranus (I have a Sun/Uranus in natal). Regarding the long influence of Chiron; In May hospital/surgery (still recovering) and in June we broke up (me/pisces) so... wow... yes, an OVER-SENSITIVE time... pffft ; ) All at the same time.. and in hospital I became hysterical in front of pisces like a volcano that had to erupt.. well, all-the-way-long I instinctively knew he wanted something I couldn't give to make something out of his life..
Coffee, if you read this I'm not ready now to post my mom's transits like I promised, but I WILL one day.. when I feel I'm ready for it. Thanks! IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 3255 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 29, 2011 11:21 AM
Wow. I feel lucky to still have my parents, but I've feared losing them.My cousin died on August 9th - a year to the day that we buried my grandmother. She was either right at the end of Sadge or the beginning of Capricorn, aged 40 (December 21st, 1970 - I think, I'm really bad with some birthdays, remembering them incorrectly, even though I've been reminded). I wanted to look at her chart last December, but then felt too scared to. Chiron and Neptune would have been sextile her Sun - Chiron when she was diagnosed last year, and Neptune moving in there this year. Uranus, too - squaring her Sun, and Pluto having moved over it a few years ago. Last year, I had a relationship of sorts, severely damaged, and then taken to the irreparable stage. It might have been saved, had the other person not been blind to their own shortcomings. * Cat died, and then my grandmother died. *Dog died in January, when I was sick and bedbound with a back problem. * Cousin died in August. * Two cats died in August, and two in September, from some unexpected virus hitting, most likely brought home from the one who went missing for a night. We're all worn out. I've had self-esteem challenges. I think I was almost manic last year, and this year I'm just more sad and angry, with the odd good days. But I think I already said this above. I started out the year feeling hopeful and determined, but the feeling left me in late Spring, and hasn't come back for long. I've felt like I'm trying to outrun something that's going to run me over - and that would be my own mortality and that of those close to me. I told my aunt in August, before we lost any of the cats, that I felt like I was seeing death all around me. Just death, everywhere - or deception (like another male family member in my extended family, cheating on his wife). IP: Logged |
fenia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: athens greece Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 29, 2011 01:47 PM
mir, my condolences for your mother. It's an awful thing we have to face in this life. I wish you mental and emotional strength
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 29, 2011 02:11 PM
I want to know the same. Two weeks ago I was a mess. Now I am fine..IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 632 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2011 08:36 AM
Wow Teasel,.. that's a LOT...and thanks fenia! IP: Logged | |