posted September 21, 2011 05:26 AM            

I used to think Leo men were too sleazy for my liking.. but I met one who wasn't and fell in love.

I used to think I have issues in communication and in terms of our overall perspectives on life - with Virgo Mercury people... However - I recently realized this only happens when their Mercury is early in the sign and opposite my Jupiter... If it is later in Virgo, it opposes my Mercury and trines my Capricorn Moon. I actually like these people. They're nice to talk to.

I used to think Venus/Mars conjunctions were the shi*t in synastry... but I realized that it all goes horribly wrong in time.

posted September 21, 2011 05:52 AM            

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They have just as much power for good as they do evil.

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Interesting.. The only sign I feel this way about is Pisces.

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I'm finding out that a lot of Libra guys are perverts; some have made inappropriate comments and advances toward me

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posted September 21, 2011 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Just curious: have you ever had an opinion about either a sign or a planet-in-a-sign, and then changed your mind about it?

Me, I used to honestly not like Leo men for a time. I have been hurt pretty badly by a few. However, I'm kind of realizing that perhaps Leo men have had important lessons to teach me, or else maybe I'm meant to learn from. Men that sign keep showing up in my life (in numerous ways; I'm not talking about romantic relationships), so I'm thinking that there is a reason--something that I am supposed to learn that only the sign of Leo can help me with. Leo women have been great to me for the most part.

I've also changed my mind about Scorpio women/women with prominent Scorpio in the chart even if they aren't sun sign Scorps. I used to just really hate them for the same reason that I hated Leo guys: some of them really hurt me. While I still struggle with this sign at times, I've come to appreciate the *good* Scorpios. I know about three really good female sun sign Scorpios and one moon sign Scorpion. I've also read the writings of another one who is mostly good, from what I consider 'good'. Having Venus in Scorpio, I think, has helped me to appreciate and understand this sign a little more. They have just as much power for good as they do evil. While there also a large number of Scorpio women who have done me harm (one case was pretty serious), I have also experienced the good side of the sign, so I don't have a black-and-white image of them any more.

My opinion of Libra men has also changed, but not for the better. I really like being a Libra and I get along well with Libra women. However, I'm finding out that a lot of Libra guys are perverts; some have made inappropriate comments and advances toward me that have really been upsetting. Not all--I've known some that aren't like that--but more and more, I'm uncovering this in the Libra men that I know. It's a bit disturbing. So, just as I don't think of Scorpio as black-and-white anymore, I don't think of Libra as black-and-white either. Libra still remains among my favorite signs, but I'm more cautious with some of them now.

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posted September 21, 2011 10:00 AM            

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I have recently only met new people with either their sun or moon in Virgo. I posted a 'problem' on here earlier called 'Aries moon/Virgo venus' ( to which no one has responded, lol) complaining about my ex partners passivity. Since then everyone who has come into my life has some sort of Virgo influence. Having an extremely impatient Leo moon I think I may be being forced a little patience maybe? Maybe I need more Virgos in more life to teach me this. I don't know.

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My friend is A virgo sun, with Aries moon and Virgo in Venus. I don't know how she is between the sheets but she doesn't strike me as the dominant take the lead kind. She can however be prone to emotional passionate outbursts/ arguments. She has a sexual, mysterious aura about her (Scorpio asc) but she doesn't express or when discusssing seem very sexually interested, like interested in sex for the pure experience.

posted September 21, 2011 12:45 PM            

Is it really that bad? Or am I looking for a reason to flake out?

posted September 21, 2011 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
It sucks because I met someone magical, ideal. But now I'm torn between my beliefs & love. Instantly/intensely I blew hot! hot! hot! In typical Gemini style, I'm about to blow cold.

Is it really that bad? Or am I looking for a reason to flake out?

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posted September 21, 2011 07:14 PM            

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My friend is A virgo sun, with Aries moon and Virgo in Venus. I don't know how she is between the sheets but she doesn't strike me as the dominant take the lead kind. She can however be prone to emotional passionate outbursts/ arguments. She has a sexual, mysterious aura about her (Scorpio asc) but she doesn't express or when discusssing seem very sexually interested, like interested in sex for the pure experience.

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That's a really good interpretation. I'm fairly impressed. I have those exact placements (Virgo Sun/Venus, Aries Moon, Scorpio rising), and that is a pretty good description I would think... However, I would add: don't look too much at the surface, as the Scorpio rising tends to pull back to see how the other person really is. I tend to be very cool and detached upon meeting me, but I get very fired up/exuberant about things once I know the people I'm around and feel like I can be myself. Also, I have a lot of other fire in my chart, so I can very much be 'take charge' when need be. I just usually wait a little while to see how the person I'm interacting with handles things before I try to take a more dominant role. Overall, it just kind of depends on who I'm with.

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As for signs I've changed my mind about- I've had a lot of hard times with Gemini suns... But then a whole slew of them came into my life. It is still kind of 50/50, but now I appreciate and like them a lot more.

Initially I did not like Scorpios, but when I got hit with a whole slew of them in college, I now feel very much the opposite about most of them.

Pisces- I didn't really DISLIKE them, I just never really understood them. However, recently I've been hanging out with a lot of them and I understand them much better.

posted September 21, 2011 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I used to honestly not like Leo men for a time. I have been hurt pretty badly by a few. However, I'm kind of realizing that perhaps Leo men have had important lessons to teach me, or else maybe I'm meant to learn from.

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I totally agree. I've had a thing for Leo men as well, my one good friend is the most amazing Leo I know.

But I've also been really hurt by Leo men, because they have taken advantage of my mellowness (Leo Sun myself) and confused it with not being interested in them.

posted September 21, 2011 11:11 PM            

i've had recurring issues with same signs, but i don't hold it against anyone else with the same sign. had some issues with people born on sep. 15. for some reason.. i met 3 people born on that day and i didn't get along? i think it was because they just came across soo rude, and made up the WIIIIERDESt lies.. you would think thats a pisces or neptune trait but i guess since virgo is opposite sign it would show that similarity, one of them i dated and he was so manipulative, and such a liar ugh... i think he a lot quit a bit of leo placements though. but my dad and grandpa is a virgo and i get a long with them just fine.

i use to be really curious about aries because its my opposite sign, i like em. i don't have very many aries friends though.

posted September 22, 2011 02:06 AM            

i had a thing against scorpios, i hate all that mystery, all that double edgd talk, probably because im mostly an open book.. i respect scopios now though mostly because i found out i am scorpio dominant -_-'

posted September 22, 2011 04:10 AM            

Lol yeah she is like that too; she reacts off of other people. If shes uncomfortable/ wary or whatever she will hold back or just leave to get back into her comfort zone. I know her pretty well and deeply and she talks to me about pretty much most stuff and she does just genuinely doesn't seem very sexually interested, she has a sex drive but its quite low. I think she would rather just have the unison of two people on an emotional level and to possess her partner completely(scorpio asc), that when she doesn't and things go awry she has a (aries) temper and then once calmed down will go into deep depression, worry, anxiety, ocd (Virgo-out of balance) I think for her she has to find her strength herself and not look to another to find herself in, coz she is a very strong girl.