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Topic: Is there hope for this one?
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featherlightly
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posted September 26, 2011 12:08 AM
  
First guy in years who literally made my heart stop. I was starting to think I was never going to have strong feelings for anyone again, after a trainwreck of luke-warm relationships.We just met. Unfortunately, he lives in another state. But we will be seeing each other again in a month when I have a conference in his hometown. At this point, we are just friends/colleagues... but I am smitten. He fits my "ideal guy" image to a T. At least from my end, there is amazing chemistry. The chart seems to reflect that -- my Mars conjunct his Venus, my Venus trine his Mars, his sun conjunct my Mars, double whammy of sun conjunct Eros... Amor conjunct Amor (1 degree), Amor conjunct Eros (exact)... Mars sextile Mars. So many conjunctions. His Jupiter is also conjunct my sun/Amor. His Saturn conjunct my moon, my Neptune conjunct his moon. My Venus/Jupiter completes a grand trine with his Mars and Neptune. Instant familiarity as well. Maybe from the conjunct angles, or my sun/Mercury/Amor on his south node. We also have a double whammy of my Pluto conjunct his north node, and his Pluto conjunct my south node. However, I have an over-excitable Venus in Aries, square Neptune so I rarely see relationships clearly. Does this one have potential, or is it just wishful thinking on my part? I know I'm getting ahead of myself; I don't even know if he likes me romantically or not. Synastry:  IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted September 26, 2011 02:04 AM
It looks very promising! His Sun conjuncts your IC, so you must find his being very comfortable to be around. Moon-Saturn is a sobering contact, but is one that's found often in long-lasting relationships. The Moon in partner's 12th is a very intimate connection, in which the Moon person can intuit the 12 Houser's subconscious patterns. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted September 26, 2011 04:09 AM
^ His Moon is in his 12th not hers.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted September 26, 2011 09:57 AM
Oops thx for pointing that out.  Correction: The Moon-Neptune conjunction with his Neptune in your 12th is a gentle and romantic connection that facilitates emotional intimacy. With his 3rd house (talking) overlaying your 12th, you will eventually find it easy and natural to talk to him about feelings that you normally hide, and he will find it easy and natural to talk about them. He actually has an 8th house Chiron, so he has a knack for getting people to open up. Question for ya: You have Chiron in the 3rd. Do you have deep hurt involving siblings or lack thereof? How about communication? As a child, did you feel that no one was listening?
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featherlightly
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posted September 26, 2011 07:05 PM
Thanks for the feedback!Capriaquarius -- I'm actually the one with Chiron in the 8th; he has Chiron in the 3rd. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted September 26, 2011 07:35 PM
D'oh! Sorry again. Im using my smartphone and it doesn't let me view more than one window at a time. Well, from my experience, 3rd house Chiron seems to have issues with their early schooling, especially pertaining to communication through words. Or they may have felt that no one listened to them as a child, perhaps due to a sibling who overshadowed them, so their life becomes a quest to make others listen. These people really appreciate those who make them feel at ease when speaking on the phone. But if you're not cool to talk to on the phone, that's a big minus in their book.I have 8th house Chiron too. Do you find that people in general like confiding in you? IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted September 29, 2011 04:58 AM
Haha, no worries Capriquarius Awesome description of Chiron in the 3rd. For me... yes, I'd say people do like confiding in me. I think I come across as very non-judgmental and tend to ask questions in a way that lead people to open up and share. What sign is your Chiron in? IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
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posted September 29, 2011 05:34 AM
before a girl falls madly in love with a guy, who she deems perfect, one should probably make sure that he likes her first....God. Some of these doe set themselves up for so much disappointment, heartbreak and disillusionment. All because of the silly cartoons and princess stories that they were brainwashed with as children. "The etching on stone of the false dreams and aspirations of how things "should" but will never, ever be. Reprogram yourselves. Align with your destiny. The true reality. A picture more perfect than the wildest fantasies and ghosts that you continue to chase. You are just getting further and further away from home. From the source. You will drift so far chasing these illusions that one day you will find yourself completely lost with no traces of how to ever get back to where you came from. Where you come from. . . This is your ultimate designation. You can never find love. You can only become it. Only then will Love, which you should now represent, attract its likeness. True love is magic. It just *happens. When you least expect it. You never TRY to find the right person. Your search is always in vain. The best things in your life and existence have a certain point or moment in this Spiral which is destined to occur at that specific moment. IP: Logged |
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