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posted September 28, 2011 07:49 PM            

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Hope someone can give me some insight? Sorry if this is a long post I am new to this so hope I do this right…

Okay this guy singer I have been to a few of his shows already this year and I got alot of eye contact from the stage but literally wouldn't even look my way during his breaks – well I was at his show last Friday, (found out he is a Virgo after our encounter) and he came to my table during one of his breaks and just started talking which completely shocked me – it was a great conversation – and there was lots of eye contact and smiling and laughing – my friend said she could see the sparks flying as we were talking back and forth. I am very shy and still can’t believe how much I actually talked! He basically kept talking until he was dragged back to the stage to do another set. I was so flabbergasted that I forgot to introduce myself and he didn’t ask for my name either… He said he would come back and talk again – during his next set he was smiling and gave me lots of eye contact from the stage – but no he did not come back to talk at his next break and then I had to leave anyway. I won’t be able to see his next show until November so I just left him a brief message on his facebook wall (which I normally would never do!) mentioning something that we were talking about in the hopes that he would remember me…so my question is it a good sign that he approached me? Do you think he will remember me? And what should I do from this point on? Any help with this would be appreciated

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posted September 29, 2011 12:08 AM            

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I wanna know what band! lol but I understand if you want to keep it too your self.

But that sounds really exiting. And I think the fb message was a good way to put your self out there just enough, for him to know how to reach you.

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posted September 29, 2011 11:04 AM            

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Thank you so much for replying to my very long first post! You might chuckle but he is actually and Elvis Tribute Artist - so no band - just him! I am a huge Elvis fan and he puts on these shows at various casinos around town so not a huge audience...but still tons of fun! but I have noticed that he normally just sticks with hanging around with his family during his breaks so that is why I was so surprised that he would even venture my way!

Anyway, thanks for your comments...there is really nothing else I can do at this point even if I wanted to...but I do have another question...should I approach him and say hello at the next show (not until November which is why I worry he won't remember me!) or leave it up to him? any thoughts especially because of the Virgo factor

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posted September 29, 2011 09:37 PM            

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Cool...I may be a 90's baby/kid...
but back in those days when Elvis was in his prime...Elvis was HOT! LOL

One of the only artists from like the 50's that I can listin to with out being creeped out. lol

I'll be honest I'm not exactly the go-getter female type.

But man...that Vegas stuff sounds fun!

But yeah the next time you see him...if your feeling BOLD...maybe throw like flowers while he's on stage...Since he's a performer it will probably be a huge ego boost to him...or whatever girls did at Elvis shows...Did they do the whole throwing bras and panites on stage back then? JK lol naw...I wouldn't tell you to do that...with Vegas bouncers and all. And that is just foolish.

But honestly I think the best advice I can give is to just enjoy yourself there. And try not to think about to much? like 'will he talk to me?will he talk to me?will he talk to me?' lol

Just trust your instincts. And do what feels right. Wheather you aproch him, he approaches you, or whatever else feels right being in his pressance.

And if your nervous...have a drink! or two?...but don't get like Snooki from Jersey Shore drunk/wasted. Just because people can do some embarracing things if they over do it on drinks. But if your nervous who cares your only human...something good could still happen anyways.

But yeah! Have a good time! November is just around the corner...kinda

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posted September 29, 2011 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by mcquarrie:
Thank you so much for replying to my very long first post! You might chuckle but he is actually and Elvis Tribute Artist - so no band - just him! I am a huge Elvis fan and he puts on these shows at various casinos around town so not a huge audience...but still tons of fun! but I have noticed that he normally just sticks with hanging around with his family during his breaks so that is why I was so surprised that he would even venture my way!

Anyway, thanks for your comments...there is really nothing else I can do at this point even if I wanted to...but I do have another question...should I approach him and say hello at the next show (not until November which is why I worry he won't remember me!) or leave it up to him? any thoughts especially because of the Virgo factor

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Honestly, I'd just leave it at the FB Wall Comment. If he remembers you and he's interested, he'll respond.

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posted September 30, 2011 10:58 AM            

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Thanks so much for your reply...Today I feel the same way about just letting things happen the way they will and honestly I don't know why I have been obsessing about this all week it is not like me at all! but it is exhausting and I have so many other things I should be concentrating on... so yesterday just told myself to smarten up and let it go already!! ha! ha!...and honestly there is really nothing else I can do from my end anyway because I have no other way of getting in touch except through facebook which I have already done....and regardless of what happens or doesn't happen I refuse to let it ruin my fun at these shows...so I am just going to go and smile and be myself...but again thank you for helping me out - it is appreciated! Have a great day!

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