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Topic: Check out this synastry.. too good to be true?
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Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:11 PM
  
First I met this man about a month ago, we have only been talking, we have never gone out, and it seems to be a very slow process..
We are just kind of getting to know each other.. Both of us are taking our time, and there is just no rush.. Most of you know all the drama, and trouble I have in relationships ( yeah I know, I have issues)
I feel drawn to this guy... But at the same time, I feel a deep need to go very very slow.
Ok so my Saturn is dead on his Venus..
and our NN or at the exact same degree even by the second. We are born a month apart.. So all the generational planets are conjucnt. I do have this fear, like to good to be true... This cant be it...
I like this guy, but hummm Im afraid at the same time..
What do you guys think?? I dont know his birth time, so you cant look at his houses.  IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:20 PM
meeeeeeee-ow!idk lioness.. you natally have that placement but what i think strengthens that connection is the aspect to pluto..... i don't know how i feel about the uranus placement though because even though u have it natally, u have it as well in synastry.. i'm not sure if that conjunction from venus to satun helps the uranus bit, or at least makes the unpredictability something that u can both rely upon and it gives u shelter.. BUT, as with all things pluto: u guys place nice, now, hear?! IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted October 02, 2011 06:22 PM
Whoa, almost everything is matched up.I wonder what THAT'S like. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
meeeeeeee-ow!idk lioness.. you natally have that placement but what i think strengthens that connection is the aspect to pluto..... i don't know how i feel about the uranus placement though because even though u have it natally, u have it as well in synastry.. i'm not sure if that conjunction from venus to satun helps the uranus bit, or at least makes the unpredictability something that u can both rely upon and it gives u shelter.. BUT, as with all things pluto: u guys place nice, now, hear?!
Yeah I was wondering about Saturn stabilize Uranus.
But if you look his Saturn sextiles my Leo planets, and trines both our Uranus. For me in my Natal, Saturn definitely stabilizes me. I can easily go from Uranus to Saturn w/o issues..
Meaning I know when to do bad  lol
He seems very stable also hes a psychologist.
and runs his own practice..
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Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:29 PM
We both also have Uranus conjunct Juno... So IDK we both like Uranus... Does that make sense? IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:43 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yeah I was wondering about Saturn stabilize Uranus.
But if you look his Saturn sextiles my Leo planets, and trines both our Uranus. For me in my Natal, Saturn definitely stabilizes me. I can easily go from Uranus to Saturn w/o issues..
Meaning I know when to do bad lol
He seems very stable also hes a psychologist.
and runs his own practice..
pretty cool! did u look at the chart with aspect lines then to chiron? i had a synastry trine between their uranus and my saturn/uranus conjunction in my eighth. don't know how it worked out. :?
that's the pisces with the venus in my twelfth. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:44 PM
north nodes in the seventh house from ur fifth seems kinda cool.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:48 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
north nodes in the seventh house from ur fifth seems kinda cool.
IDk his time.. So his houses are wrong.. My NN is in H11.. Im on the inside.. As for Chiron... chiron conjunct chiron so its the same in our natals his chiron trines my leo stellium
opps my Uranus
sextiles my saturn It makes a bowl pattern... My chiron to him
sextiles his venus
squres his moon/sun
opps his uranus
makes a t-square IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:48 PM
DUR!!!!!!!! HELLO!!!!!!!!!!! how did i miss that?what's the orb between their luminaries and your nodes? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:49 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
DUR!!!!!!!! HELLO!!!!!!!!!!! how did i miss that?what's the orb between their luminaries and your nodes?
Not sure what you mean.. Moon to NN?? IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
IDk his time.. So his houses are wrong.. My NN is in H11.. Im on the inside.. As for Chiron... chiron conjunct chiron so its the same in our natals his chiron trines my leo stellium
opps my Uranus
sextiles my saturn It makes a bowl pattern... My chiron to him
sextiles his venus
squres his moon/sun
opps his uranus
makes a t-square
i think that him being in his field and the uranus aspecting your chiron oughta be a good refresh.. his sun and moon fall in ur fifth house which of course mean that u definitely enjoy him! if u were to take that fifth house cusp and make that the ascendant, then both of your nodes fall in the seventh house of the chart if u looked at it that way. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Not sure what you mean.. Moon to NN??
both of u have north node in the same sign
but he has moon and sun in the opposing sign
and i read that some people give luminaries an orb of 10 degrees
that would probably be,
if anything,
some of the flavor behind your really liking him. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:55 PM
and tr pluto is opposing ur venus....
u coy little sly devil, u! why u no participate in the tr. saturn sq. venus thread?  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:55 PM
Ok gotcha! What do you think of both our Mars are unaspected but in the same sign... Is that why made its a slow process, and neither of us seem to be in a rush to go out?? Also his Venus dead on my Saturn..
Sounds scary... I might be to restricting for him? Or he would feel that way? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 06:57 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
and tr pluto is opposing ur venus....
u coy little sly devil, u! why u no participate in the tr. saturn sq. venus thread?
Well T.Satun in my 7th with venus sq t. saturn...
I really wont to get past that part of my life... My and my husband split.
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tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 06:59 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ok gotcha! What do you think of both our Mars are unaspected but in the same sign... Is that why made its a slow process, and neither of us seem to be in a rush to go out?? Also his Venus dead on my Saturn..
Sounds scary... I might be to restricting for him? Or he would feel that way?
venus first.
always venus first. uh, i think that u both would do good to be careful and keep some of the romance in ur lives because of what he does.. if u guys (of course) can enjoy those kinds of conversations, then it can be of great use to each other and it can be a very stable and healthy relationship so long as u both know that there are certain boundaries that can't be crossed as far as that goes and those boundaries are kind of working the other way for u guys.. whereas usually people cross other peoples', the situation might be that u guys keep yourselves within your own self created space and never really excite one another... the saturn and venus might give u a certain stability that allows u to find freedom in knowing that u can rely on this person, even if on their own unreliability or erratic traits.. or maybe it's just loud music lol or maybe it's just the fact that you're into astrology and he's into his totally different field yet both are somewhat compatible. if it turns into a capricorn household though, which it may, try to bring in a libra.. or something.. at least even if just to open up the shades IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 07:01 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Well T.Satun in my 7th with venus sq t. saturn...
I really wont to get past that part of my life... My and my husband split.
that saturn reputation just doesn't seem to change..... *sigh IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
that saturn reputation just doesn't seem to change..... *sigh
LOL... Well I did split with the ex when T. saturn hit my 7th..
What can I say... But it was for the better, Im better off and I have no regrets 
It was just a tough experience... Ill go through and read it later tonight and add something..
I was off the net for 2 weeks I had internet problems, so I missed a lot of threads. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
LOL... Well I did split with the ex when T. saturn hit my 7th..
What can I say... But it was for the better, Im better off and I have no regrets
It was just a tough experience... Ill go through and read it later tonight and add something..
I was off the net for 2 weeks I had internet problems, so I missed a lot of threads.
sounds fair. i think now's the time for me to go on and hunt online personals to find me a yearly mate before the flipping thing enters scorpio by the end of next year.. when it does, it'll square my venus and mid transit through the sign it'll enter into my seventh... astrology really takes some of the fun out of things.. i'll be walking into this already knowing what to expect and just being very whatever about it.. at least i'll have a finish line to look forward to, i guess. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
both of u have north node in the same sign
but he has moon and sun in the opposing sign
and i read that some people give luminaries an orb of 10 degrees
that would probably be,
if anything,
some of the flavor behind your really liking him.
Both our NN at 26Cap00
his Sun at 18Can28
moon at 16Can27
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Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:15 PM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
sounds fair.i think now's the time for me to go on and hunt online personals to find me a yearly mate before the flipping thing enters scorpio by the end of next year.. when it does, it'll square my venus and mid transit through the sign it'll enter into my seventh... astrology really takes some of the fun out of things.. i'll be walking into this already knowing what to expect and just being very whatever about it.. at least i'll have a finish line to look forward to, i guess.
I have found the Saturn transit through my 7th has brought me lots of lessons, with men... (wink) but at the same time, its made me see the light on some of my own issues..
Dont be afraid of it... Its been a good thing for me over all.. Its what I needed..
Just take the lessons, and look for your inner truth.. It will all work out IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted October 02, 2011 07:32 PM
i really want no more friggin lessons i just want to enjoy things for what they are and not fudging care.... ugh! it's moving through my sixth house right now.. while it moved through my fifth, it moved smacked dab over my sun and south node and i think did a retro move over it and that took the joy out of almost everything and as it moves through my sixth, i don't know.. i really just wish the stupid thing would back OFF already! have u seen my chart???????????? quote:
i'm bitter because i just paid about close to 300 dollars with money that i just barely made and i've yet to even take some out of the atm to smell it and it lay naked in it and i've already had to give it away. it's getting on my nerves this whole thing and really, i'd just like a little magic and hope in my life.. not even a little, a LOT.. i want a LOT... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:38 PM
Fighting the lessons, makes it worse... We all need them, its there for a reason, its part of our inner growth..
The sooner you accept, the less you feel it.. Saturn says TAKE IT DAMN IT! or suffer.. Its been a testing time.. Ive seen them coming, and when I said oh well I dont care, Im going to do what I want, it bit me in the azz, when I did what was right, I felt better about my self, and I fiqured this is the way to go... (sometimes )
Sometimes I still say screw it!! LOL I wanna have fun... hahahha..
But now I feel the regrets, and shame... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:41 PM
AHHHHHHHHh your coming up on your Saturn return... No wonder.... Its lesson time... Time to learn to grow....
Its coming.... Dont fight it... See the clearer picture, and it will go alot smoother for you.. Fight it, and you will feel the effects worse.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 02, 2011 07:44 PM
Wait until Saturn hits your Uranus.. It made my sex life crappy!!! LOL... All my Uranus fun came to screeching halt! IP: Logged |
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