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Topic: Why is the attraction so strong on HIS side
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glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 12:17 AM
Here is the synastry/composite for me and new guy....the attraction on his side is way stronger...where does it show this?? Does it look good? thanks!!
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1706 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 12:57 AM
I have no idea who is who, so I can't answer your question. What I looked for I didn't find on either side which would be planets conjunct the Ascendant for the smitten one.can you be more specific? IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 400 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted October 07, 2011 01:35 AM
well yur the gemini right? so if thats so then his mars is in gemini i think and mars supposedly is like the lover someone yu find attractive, i read, but it said that was only for a woman's mars i think, but im sure it can go both ways! so maybe he likes yu because yu are the gemini his mars is attracted to. I noticed that I kinda like fiery or sag type people; adventurous, fun, etc... My mars is in sag. But its not that I would want to be with those people because they dont complement my venus. Its just attraction and flirtation towards them. More like a fling i guess. So maybe thats the source of his stronger attraction for you if hes got mars in gem and yur the gem sun haha.------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe If the truth is relative then there's nothing that is really true. You were created the same way I was and will eventually be destroyed the same way as well. Who saw him die? I, said the Fly, with my little eye I saw him die (cawk robin) IP: Logged |
AriesSun Knowflake Posts: 146 From: the red planet Registered: Jan 2011
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posted October 07, 2011 03:36 AM
1) The most of your personal planets goes to his 7th house.(7th house is house of relationships, its "You" when ASC is "I". I've heard that when person's Sun goes other person's 7th house there is usually some attraction) 2) That mars thing what L0veLess said 3) Your jupiter goes to his 9th house (He could see you like "happy marriage". You make him joy!) 4) Your moon conjunct his north node (Your deepest is the thing he have learned maybe his whole life) And why you are not that interested? 1) His moon in your 6th house (Do you think he's easily moaning?) 2) His saturn conjunct to your north node (Can make feel like your spiritual growing is sticked) 3) He have that saturn in his 8th house (Is he possessive?) 4) His mars is in your 10th house (Is there public fights?) 5) His venus in your 12th house (Are you afraid that he have other relationships going on at the same time?) In your composite chart there is Pluto in 12th house which means you are hiding strong emotions between each others. You have to talk about things! Don't feed the Pluto! If you do it usually do harm. IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 11:18 AM
Yes, I am the Gemini and he is the Libra.....I'm not saying there isn't any attraction on my side but a lot stronger on his...I think it's me afraid of letting my guard down or just being fed a line. I do fear there may be more relationships going on with him but I'm not for certain. IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 07, 2011 11:52 AM
Yeah, like others pointed out, it's because his Mars falls pretty close to your sun.IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 219 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 07, 2011 11:57 AM
I think it's the 7th house thing. I have experienced this, too, with men who REALLY like me but I'm not returning the affection nearly as strong...they had a cluster of planets (especially Sun) in my 7th house.Also, his 7th house ruler is Mercury..his own Mercury is squaring your Venus, and your Venus (AND Mercury) are falling into his 7th...definitely attraction of his part, you feel comfortable to him. IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 04:34 PM
Hmmm Frankie, I didn't notice that...I will look more into it..thanks! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20768 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 07, 2011 04:50 PM
Is he on the outside,Glam ------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20768 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 07, 2011 04:52 PM
The NN stuff is amazing .If his Saturn is on your NN, run lol I would but I am basing it on my longest relationship where his Chiron was exactly conjunct my NN and boy did I have Chiron i.e. pain lol ------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 08:43 PM
Ami, can you explain more on the saturn and NN....why run? lol I'm scared!! IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2011 09:22 PM
Does it mean anything that his Venus (ruling planet) is in Virgo..which is also what you look at for a male to see the type of woman he is attracted to...is in same sign as my ASC?? IP: Logged |
Mermaid Knowflake Posts: 27 From: From the deep blue seas Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 07, 2011 11:45 PM
The synastry is very interesting.Even though it feels like the attraction is stronger on his side.I think it could get very emotional for you as your Moon is in exact conjunction with his NN.Also his Saturn is conjunct your NN.It appears to be very Karmic in nature.Lessons to be learnt from each other for mutual growth.His Sun falling in your 2nd house (possessions)conjunct your Pluto and his Pluto squaring your Venus could indicate a lot of power play between the two of you.Of course,I cannot see the orb for the pluto square venus.I definitely see this relationship being life changing for both of you.IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2011 11:45 AM
Hmm life changing....that sounds big!!! I'm wondering now what the karmic lessons are between us?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20768 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2011 11:56 AM
Well Glam If HE brings Saturn to you as the color of the relationship which is how I see the NN in synastry, you may not want that.------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2011 01:23 PM
Ami- can you explain why??? What does it do??IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20768 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2011 01:44 PM
Ok Glam I get my theory from my relationship, so take it from that. His Chiron was conjunct my NN. He brought so much pain to my life. My life theme with him WAS pain. I think the NN synastry does that.Now, your moon is conjunct his NN.You could bring him heart. Do you? With Saturn, he would bring you restriction and discipline. Some people could want that, perhaps, but it sounds bad to me Feel free to ask questions and we can discuss it more! ------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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amowls** Knowflake Posts: 704 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 08, 2011 02:49 PM
The Composite Sun is in his 8th vs your 11th, maybe. As well as what others have said.I would also look at his Progressed Sun, Venus, Mars compared to your natal and progressed Sun/Venus/Mars. IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2011 04:57 PM
Hmmm restrictions and discipline...I guess being with the right person that I'm totally crazy about, I wouldn't mind the restrictions but I'm not sure!! lol IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2011 05:06 PM
Besides that..do you get a good feeling from the synastry Ami? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 20768 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2011 06:05 PM
Glam I do not have the time to analyze it the way I need to, to give an answer.------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2011 06:20 PM
Gotcha...I understand!IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 820 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2011 12:54 AM
His mars to your sun. to answer the original question.IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2011 01:31 AM
Thanks Nine..seems to be the majority vote lol IP: Logged |