posted October 10, 2011 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
Sure can. Can you see it okay?

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posted October 10, 2011 10:13 AM            

So your 7th house has a very strong Jupiter and Mercury Vibe:

°DESC in Sagittarius with DESC ruler in Sagittarius as well (Jupiter)
° DESC ruler in 6th house and Mercury in 7th house (Mercury-Virgo/6th house)

plus

° DESC ruler ocnjunct Mars (Mars)
° DESC ruler conjunct Neptune (Neptune)
° Moon in 7th house (Moon)

and a bit weaker
° 9th house (associate with the Sag-DESC) is in Aquarius (Uranus)

Your Jupiter is being satisfied by his Sun in 9th house trine Jupiter plus ASC trine Jupiter, though it could even be stronger

Your Mars is being satisfied with his Mars in Aries

Your Neptune is more than satisfied with his Sun in Pisces

your Moon is satisfied with his ASC in Cancer

your uranus is satisfied with his 11th house Mars

But your Mercury is NOT satisfied; he only has a weak resonance, because the sign at the cusp of the 4th house (associated with his Cancer ASC) is in Virgo.

All in all he still covers about 86% of your 7th house needs and explains the attraction.
But the fact that Mercury is a very strong need for you and he just hasn`t got it, could make you dissatisfied at times.

It also reflects well the fact that there are certain blocks to communication. It seems that communication about important issues (yours is a 6th house / Virgo Mercury - and the the 6th house is still in the emotional quadrant and needs a deeper exchange than the chitchatting 3rd house Mercury) is so much more important to you and the lack of it must make you feel as if a vital part is missing.

posted October 10, 2011 10:25 AM            

he has strong Venus and Saturn needs:

° DESC ruler in Taurus and Venus in 10th house (associated with his DESC-sign) (Venus-Taurus)

° DESC in Capricorn (Saturn)

A bit less strong are

° DESC ruler in 11th house (Uranus)

° DESC ruler opposite Jupiter (Jupiter)

° MC in Pisces (ass. with his DESC-sign) - Neptune

Taurus-Venus and Saturn as strongest needs is some kind of "mute"-constellations.
He needs more a physical, sensual and rather calm being together,a nd probably can enjoy just being in the moment without feeling the urge to communicate his feelings.
Taurus-placements are usually not so much for talking about feelings, but rather demonstrating them through touching, and Cappie`s are not that talkative either.

You fulfill his needs less good than he yours (though I once read that men are more easily satisfied, as long as the sex and the food is good. I am not exactly certain about that though ).

Anyway, you fully fulfill his Saturnian needs with a Moon in Capricorn.
That kind of belonging, security and purposedness that he needs you definitely can give him, and it is his second strongest need. So this is a definite plus.

Your Aquarius-Sun fulfills his uranus-need as well. So you are exciting enough.

your Sag-Venus fulfills his Jupiter-needs.

You do not have strong Neptune-constellations, but it is a less important need for him anyway.

The downer is that you only have your ASC ruler in 7th house for the Venus-needs.
But that is more associated with Libra, not with Taurus.

You would need to have some planets in Taurus / 2nd house or Venus conjunct an angle or in the 1st house to really satisfy this need of his, and it is his strongest.

You can easily see how different unfulfilled needs clash here.
Your Mercury stays hungry, and for him it is Taurus-Venus.
You say: Talk to me! Tell me how you feel! (6th house)
And he sais: Touch me! I can only feel my feelings if you`re physically close (Taurus).

All in all he gets about 61% of his 7th house needs fulfilled.
(the percentages are based on a scoring system, but it is still a work in progress, so they are just an approximate categorization, do not take them too seriously).

posted October 10, 2011 11:12 AM            

This has been MY issue from the start. "Talk to me about your feelings" and he does not like to go into real depth. I have always been that way. I analyze feelings to death. Why can't I just let that part go (at least somewhat)? It does not make a whole lot of difference in a true relationship. In fact, it deters. TOO MUCH TALKING. Guys say, "Ugh" to that. It is about the compromise. He gives me a little, I give him a little.
What a wonderful learning tool!

More touching .. I do not have a problem doing that.

posted October 10, 2011 12:00 PM            

5t house: attraction / spark / romance etc. all that sparkly stuff

Your 5th house:

again a Jupiter-dominance:
5th house ruler in Sagittarius with associated house in Sagittarius

also:
Venus/libra_
5th house in Libra

Mercury/Virgo:
ruler of 5 in 6th house and the associated house has Mercury in it

uranus:
Uranus in 5

A little bit of Moon as well, since MOon is in the assoicated house (cusp 5 in Libra - Libra relates to 7th house)

he fulfills that even better; something about 93%

The only thing that is missing a bit again, is mercury

For him

Saturn - ruler of 5 in 10th house plus ass house in Cap

Venus (libra) - cusp in Libra

neptune - ruler 5 in Pisces

Moon - Moon in 5th

Jupiter - Jupiter in 5th

You satisfy his Saturn, Venus (because this time he is searching for Libra and you have that, because Moon,a s chartruler, in 7th house resonates a bit with Libra) and Jupiter, but not so much his need for Neptune and Moon.

You satisfy about 62% of this.

From that I would think that probably you are more attracted to him than the other way round, but over 60% is still a good result, and certainly not onesided.

To compare I had a look at my Mum`s attraction potential to my Dad.
In term of her 5th house it was "only" 67%, but it seems to be still working out just fine. Though having said that, he satisfies 100% of her 7th house needs. Jep, you read that right, 100%

8th house:

his 8th house has the same profile as his 7th house, so you can read that there.
For you there is actually a bit of change here: almost no mercury!

I guess even though you have need for Mercury in term of longterm partnerships and also attraction, as soon as it deepens words are not really needed anymore. There seems to be an almost psychic bond there all at once.

Here in this house you have strong emphasis on Neptune, at least if we count yoru Saturn as belonging to 12th house. Only you can know.
But if this is so, then of course your PISCES is absolutely right for that.

You also have strong need for Saturn, Sun and Venus.

i find it interesting that both your 8th house rulers are in Taurus in 11th house.
Here in that area you should be very similiar, compatible even.
of course you still want to communicate and talk about these emotional experiences (ASC in Gemini always wants to communicate), but when you get deeper into the relationship, what you need is really the same thing as what he needs. With Taurus there, probably a good massage now and then.

posted October 10, 2011 12:29 PM            

I am going to make a deal with myself as well. Allow the other kinds of communication to filter into the relationship.