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Topic: Are you marriage material?
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AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 469 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted October 11, 2011 11:11 AM
What aspects in a chart or sign positions natally, would make a person more likely to get married or be an eligible marriage partner?I've been looking at my chart for a while now and trying to figure out why I have such an obsession with meeting "the one" and guaranteeing a movie ending. I've been told 7th, 5th and to some extent 8th house personal planet placements are likely to outline this need for the "other".
I know that everyone basically has this idea of what kind of partner they'd like to have and when they'd like to marry. But to me its become a kind of obsession. I dream about it, think about it constantly. Make up the other person in my head ; how we'll meet, what they are most liley to say etc. And then the years pass and I get into unfortunate/unhealthy relationships to fill that void of feeling like "time is running out and this person is nowhere to be found" . What makes a person yearn so deeply for companionship? Its been like this for a while now and the need is getting stronger.
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 5625 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted October 11, 2011 11:14 AM
in a way i understand...i doubt my feelings are as strong as yours though...but basically i love being in a relationship and i hope to one day be marriedso if i were to go into what planets i have in the houses you mentioned, i have uranus singleton in 7th and venus, neptune, and saturn in 8th...empty 5th ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4347 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 11, 2011 11:23 AM
Sun and Venus on/around Dsc=alluring as potential partner. Very old-fashioned perspective,eligible,as u said; Also they could be those kind of people one ends up with because it's socially convenient relationship.IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan Knowflake Posts: 1098 From: New England Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 11, 2011 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: What aspects in a chart or sign positions natally, would make a person more likely to get married or be an eligible marriage partner?I've been looking at my chart for a while now and trying to figure out why I have such an obsession with meeting "the one" and guaranteeing a movie ending. I've been told 7th, 5th and to some extent 8th house personal planet placements are likely to outline this need for the "other".
I know that everyone basically has this idea of what kind of partner they'd like to have and when they'd like to marry. But to me its become a kind of obsession. I dream about it, think about it constantly. Make up the other person in my head ; how we'll meet, what they are most liley to say etc. And then the years pass and I get into unfortunate/unhealthy relationships to fill that void of feeling like "time is running out and this person is nowhere to be found" . What makes a person yearn so deeply for companionship? Its been like this for a while now and the need is getting stronger.
You talk of obsession which seems Plutonian in general. I think many people yearn for deep unions/partnerships however I think it's how they manage that and why they truly desire that. Are you afraid to be alone, is your environment heavy with couples? The 7th and 8th houses are my two strongest planet placements. Relationships are the center of my world. I don't mean romantic relationships I mean even the relationship I have with my local foods market. People make my world go round. I've learned most of my life lessons through my interactions with other people. Do I need other people to survive no, but interacting with others makes living life worth while. Joy and Happiness shared. What's the rush for deep companionship? When I was younger in relationships I tended to sacrifice myself to maintain peace and I've shed those traits through many metamorphosis's. At this stage of evolution, I can no longer tolerate anything less than equality and until that stares me deeply and truthfully in the eyes I'll be happy to ride out this life solo. You should think honestly about why you need a union with another so deeply. Aspects points to patterns or possibilities, but only you know the truth. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1973 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 11, 2011 01:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by NativelyJoan: You talk of obsession which seems Plutonian in general. I think many people yearn for deep unions/partnerships however I think it's how they manage that and why they truly desire that. Are you afraid to be alone, is your environment heavy with couples? The 7th and 8th houses are my two strongest planet placements. Relationships are the center of my world. I don't mean romantic relationships I mean even the relationship I have with my local foods market. People make my world go round. I've learned most of my life lessons through my interactions with other people. Do I need other people to survive no, but interacting with others makes living life worth while. Joy and Happiness shared. the truth.
Aww! That's beautiful. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1973 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 11, 2011 01:38 PM
So I have Uranus and Neptune in the 8th house.Ha I guess Earth counts as my 5th house And really only my DC is in the 7th. Oh yeah...who doesn't want relations and romance!? But I will say this...guys that want to rush/force romance...I find that to be a turn off. To me it's immature, fake, and superficial, sleazy, insulting, stupid...I could go on...! lol It's a turn on when a guy CAN TAKE THEIR TIME, and enjoy it for what it is now. I notice I tend to want the guy even more when he is fine with taking his time with me. lol IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 897 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 11, 2011 02:04 PM
I find that mindset and "obsession" typical of Cancers. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4347 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 11, 2011 04:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: I find that mindset and "obsession" typical of Cancers.
oomg... I just remebered 3 gals with Cancer Venus... U r onto sth IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 6997 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted October 11, 2011 04:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Sun and Venus on/around Dsc=alluring as potential partner. Very old-fashioned perspective,eligible,as u said; Also they could be those kind of people one ends up with because it's socially convenient relationship.
i have sun and venus in taurus h7. venus conj dc only though and not the sun. always thought i'd be the type to marry but i dunno. no reading i've had has ever said it was for me unless i read a generic one where i read just the placement. they're not aspected so well with oppositions from saturn and pluto. but yeah i think i'd check most boxes on a traditional type of thing. ---------------- my fifth house is pisces. i only have lilith there. my 8th house is in gemini. i have juno, nn, and chiron there. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 11, 2011 10:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: What aspects in a chart or sign positions natally, would make a person more likely to get married or be an eligible marriage partner?I've been looking at my chart for a while now and trying to figure out why I have such an obsession with meeting "the one" and guaranteeing a movie ending. I've been told 7th, 5th and to some extent 8th house personal planet placements are likely to outline this need for the "other".
I know that everyone basically has this idea of what kind of partner they'd like to have and when they'd like to marry. But to me its become a kind of obsession. I dream about it, think about it constantly. Make up the other person in my head ; how we'll meet, what they are most liley to say etc. And then the years pass and I get into unfortunate/unhealthy relationships to fill that void of feeling like "time is running out and this person is nowhere to be found" . What makes a person yearn so deeply for companionship? Its been like this for a while now and the need is getting stronger.
having scorpio in the 7th house could make you obsessed I would think about meeting the ideal partner. IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1077 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2011 11:17 PM
I have Venus conjunct DC and Sun & Mercury widely conjunct it as well in the 7th along with Jupiter in Leo and Saturn, NN and Vertex in Virgo. Pluto is in the 8th trine Mars in the 5th! Also, my Moon is in Libra conjunct Pluto, Juno is in the 4th and Hera is conjunct Aries Point.I yearn and obsess too… However, I don’t feel like time is running out and I am 32. I am willing to wait for something good and “right” (Saturn in Virgo) and I enjoy practicing “not quite serial" monogamy in the meantime (Mars in Gemini in the 5th). But, I know what you mean… ETA: quote: The 7th and 8th houses are my two strongest planet placements. Relationships are the center of my world. I don't mean romantic relationships I mean even the relationship I have with my local foods market. People make my world go round. I've learned most of my life lessons through my interactions with other people. Do I need other people to survive no, but interacting with others makes living life worth while. Joy and Happiness shared.
I love this NativelyJoan and I agree... IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1293 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted October 12, 2011 01:15 AM
When I was a pre-teen I wanted to have a bf. But I also had a 'crush' on like 5 guys lol. I don't really care too much about it now I mean I do but not like back then. I go through periods of wanting someone and not. But I think what I really want isnt some bf but Im obsessed with like the beauty of couples and romance. Like I want to become that freeze framed moment in a movie when everything is beautiful and perfect and the girl looks gorgeous and the guy is cute etc... Im more worried about the appearance of it and looking good and I guess I think Im gonna achieve some state of nirvana by trying to be that beauty. Its an obsession with the ideal of romance not actually having someone. I do want some guy to love me tho! and get me and all that too eventually. I have scorpio moon, that's a possessive obsessive placement i suppose. But I dunno how that ties into the whole ideal romance thing since its 2nd house conj pluto and I have nothing in the 5th 7th or 8th houses. And I've only had two guys say that they think I'd be a good mother/wife lol. I think theyre mostly crazy and were just trying to win me over tho :P------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe If the truth is relative then there's nothing that is really true. You were created the same way I was and will eventually be destroyed the same way as well. Who saw him die? I, said the Fly, with my little eye I saw him die (cawk robin) IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 12, 2011 05:23 AM
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AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 469 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted October 12, 2011 05:53 AM
VenusDiSirius Sun and Venus on/around Dsc=alluring as potential partner. Very old-fashioned perspective,eligible,as u said; Also they could be those kind of people one ends up with because it's socially convenient relationship. I have my Venus is conjuct descendant. So I think you actually might be on to something. You talk of obsession which seems Plutonian in general. I think many people yearn for deep unions/partnerships however I think it's how they manage that and why they truly desire that. My chart is Pluto heavy and so , yes, I probably do believe that Pluto has a role to play in my obsession. Did I also mention that it conjucts Venus in the 7th house? Yikes! NativelyJoan The 7th and 8th houses are my two strongest planet placements.
Me too! Wow people, this is a little freaky. I have 4 7th house placements(if you include the Point of Fortune) and 6 8th house placements(if I include the Vertex and South Node) NativelyJoan Relationships are the center of my world. I don't mean romantic relationships I mean even the relationship I have with my local foods market. People make my world go round. I've learned most of my life lessons through my interactions with other people. Do I need other people to survive no, but interacting with others makes living life worth while. Joy and Happiness shared. I don't know whether relationships are really the centre of my world as I have been living most of my life as a loner. I guess it has always been a defense mechanism because I fear letting people in or whatever. NativelyJoan What's the rush for deep companionship? When I was younger in relationships I tended to sacrifice myself to maintain peace and I've shed those traits through many metamorphosis's. At this stage of evolution, I can no longer tolerate anything less than equality and until that stares me deeply and truthfully in the eyes I'll be happy to ride out this life solo. You should think honestly about why you need a union with another so deeply. Aspects points to patterns or possibilities, but only you know the truth. Yes, I tried to look at it from that point of view and you are right, there are deeper issues than that. Truthfully though, I feel very lonely at this point in my life. Must be something about the pendulum swinging the other way; where I used to think that I don't need anyone, I can do things for myself and am my own person etc. I have become more corporative, more group conscious and more insecure about not being able to relate with others. Stawr So I have Uranus and Neptune in the 8th house. So do I But I have yet to figure out their role in the bigger scheme of things, far from being exclusive. frankie2912 I find that mindset and "obsession" typical of Cancers. My moon is in Cancer. I never thought of it like that.Hmmm..... amelia28 having scorpio in the 7th house could make you obsessed I would think about meeting the ideal partner. Right on the money. From the get-go, that placement is a recurring theme in my chart. I guess beyond the norms of 5th,7th,8th house Venus/Pluto associated placements, there is nothing else beyond them. Thank you all. Much has been learned thus far.
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