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Lonake
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posted October 25, 2011 12:35 AM
  
What was the comp Venus sign. Am I crazy, they say don't pay attn to comp signs cos they're meaningless but I feel them.. The Sun too. I now dread having a comp Aqua Sun with another and I have that every time I date an Aqua Sun, no others.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 25, 2011 12:47 AM
The C. Venus was in Aries.. And I felt it big time..
Do u think the men feel Sun/Mars more and the women Venus/Moon?This one person looks at the Composite like this.. Venus/Moon is the female.. Sun/Mars is the male...
He looks at aspects to see how each are affected by the relationship and whats going on..
He relies solely on the composite.
Ive looked at a few like this.. It did make sense...
Like if you see mars/Uranus he mostly just in it for sex..
but
moon/Uranus would be that she would want her own freedom and space..
She wouldnt allow him to tell her what she can do... What do u think??
Check some of your past composites and see if it makes sense looking at it this way.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 25, 2011 12:58 AM
Im gonna go to sleep, but Ill be back tomorrow..  nite IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 27, 2011 07:58 PM
I think there was a post are 2 after this, I guess it got wiped out.. IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2011 10:11 PM
I think if I remember correctly someone said that my venus/pluto midpoint is conjunct my Sun, and if I have noticed alot of 16 degree placements.. So I went back and looked.. Pis Guy -
venus 16 cap
NN 17 Virg
Pluto 18 Lib Ex husband Virgo
NN 18Tau
Pluto 17 Virgo
moon 19 Aries Gem
Venus 19Can
Uranus 18Lib Cap.. Baby daddy lol
NN 14pis
moon 13 Can HUH!!! weird that NN is near... Ive near noticed that before.. My venus/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct my pluto! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 27, 2011 10:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
This one person looks at the Composite like this.. Venus/Moon is the female.. Sun/Mars is the male...
He looks at aspects to see how each are affected by the relationship and whats going on..
He relies solely on the composite.
Ive looked at a few like this.. It did make sense...
Like if you see mars/Uranus he mostly just in it for sex..
but
moon/Uranus would be that she would want her own freedom and space..
She wouldnt allow him to tell her what she can do... What do u think??
Check some of your past composites and see if it makes sense looking at it this way..
OK I'm gonna check my high school Sweetheart lol, I'm so sentimental.
Sun/Mars (him)
-Sun/Venus
-Sun/Jupiter
-Sun/Uranus
-Mars/Neptune
All right so I think around me he played a strong romantic role, wanted to imagine himself as a romantic hero of sorts (!) haha dramatic teenagers. He had a smile on his face when he was around me, never angry or bothered by anything I did, very sweet and protective.Moon/Venus (me)
-Moon conj Venus
-Venus conj Sun
-Venus opp Saturn
-Venus trine Uranus
So I liked this guy before I even saw his face, I walked into the room and he was facing away from me but my attention turned right to him and I knew I liked him, I knew zilch about him, was new to the school. Venus/Saturn to me was that he tried to know me in a more close way than I wanted, I was going through a rough time and didn't want to reveal anything that I was going through emotionally to him (or anyone). Other than that he really was my sweetheart. And with the recent (H)ex, hehe Sun/Mars (him)
-Sun/Jupiter
-Mars/Saturn
-Mars/Moon
-Mars/Uranus
-Mars/Mercury
-Mars/Venus
There's a lot of Mars here haha. O this guy, Very touchy, You know I never really liked his physical touch and was interested in him more as a friend, but we got to be a bit more intimate. Moon is sq to Mars/Saturn. He wanted to marry me from the beginning, I refused, and it created the most vile atmosphere coming from him, he turned touchy and rotten, jealous, even exhibited stalker-like behavior after I stopped talking to him. Like I said he was v.attracted to me physically but it wasn't the same coming from me. I liked the friendship and exchange of ideas. Moon/Venus (me)
-Moon/Mars
-Moon/Saturn
-Venus/Mercury
-Venus/Mars
-Venus/Saturn
-Venus/Pluto
OK so with Moon sq Saturn he always accused me of being cold and unfeeling. BS since he saw me cry at least 3 times and I never saw him cry in person ONCE. But he'd cry on the phone and quickly want to hang up lol. Here's the thing with me in that friendship, I always pushed him to get real about what was going on with him, and he would create arguments just to avoid the issue, make an argument out of any little thing so he wouldn't have to face any problems. So unbelievably touchy (not in the good way), I couldn't stand his avoidance of issues. Venus/Mercury sounds right for my loving to talk to him (pre stalker crazy behavior) and sharing ideas. It was the mental compatibility in the beginning that attracted me, nothing else. The Venus/Mars is a sextile of 3 degrees, weakened strength? The Venus sextile to Saturn is 4 degrees. Wonder if they were trines would I have been more interested. This is really interesting, Leo Lady (!) Kind of fun to go over them. Does it work out for you? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 27, 2011 11:00 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
My venus/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct my pluto!
Sounds like a good money making combo ~IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 27, 2011 11:38 PM
These are composite aspects??
Look at aspects with venus/Moon for you and aspects with Sun/Mars with him.. Venus/Mars first... (on what your doing.. Ok with me..
Pisces
venus opps moon/Pluto
Venus in h12
venus trine Saturn
venus trine Neptune.. Moon conjunct pluto
moon trine neptune Well
first I did get obsessed.
venus in h12.. opps moon in H5..
I wanted the relationship, but I was afraid and kept it a secret..
but at the same time I wanted him to see me as perfect..
I admit I played with neptune... Him
Sun conjunct mercury opps mars
mars trine saturn
sun trine saturn
Mars conjunct NN
Sun/mercuy h1 mars h7
He said he felt really comfortable talking to me...
I think he was conflicted as I was, but maybe with his drive and his ego...
IDK... Maybe the saturn was because we work together.
Which is actually in H3 and we work in the transportation industry..
TRIP... lol
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Lonake
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posted October 27, 2011 11:50 PM
^ O I did it the lazy way, I just looked at planetary combos, but yea I looked at composite (!)I like the interp for yours using houses, v interesting. "Him
Sun conjunct mercury opps mars
mars trine saturn
sun trine saturn
Mars conjunct NN
Sun/mercuy h1 mars h7
He said he felt really comfortable talking to me...
I think he was conflicted as I was, but maybe with his drive and his ego... "
--I'm gonna butt in if I may  Going off of your analysis (and I don't know details of the Pisces I just remember there was Moon/pluto going on). OK So His Sun/Merc in H1 he has to be seen, everything is dramatized here for him, Mars H7 however goes for the relationship in an aggressive manner, pushes the other to relate to him, plans ways to get together with the other, but still there is the stronghold of holding onto to his own sense of self, there feels like compromise here but only up to a point, when it starts infringing on the ego (Sun) then there is a backing away, but still there remains the desire to be involved here (Mars H7). Trine to Saturn makes it easier to keep the ties even if there is a break, something dependable there, a source of strength from this so it would be dumb to toss it aside. Merc/Mars however points to nasty arguments, did he have an aggressive mentality with you after a while?
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Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 12:01 AM
Yeah we stopped talking for some 3 months because of a huge argument...
It was an ego argument I admit.. Then it just went nasty... (bad nasty) hahahhaIDk everything about his was very private.. Which bothered him, because of the rumors..
But I kept insisting.. He said he was tried of having a guilty conscious. We get along well over all,and we just forgive the other, which is really not in either of our character. I guess we will keep going back and fourth like this for a long time..
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Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 12:12 AM
Ok now Gem.. Venus cancer in h4
moon taur h2
venus sq pluto
venus opps jupiter
venus sq uranus
moon trine pluto
moon trine jupiter
moon sextile sun I really like him, I didnt get obsessed. but we spent alot of time together.
I never told him my feelings because I knew something wasnt right.. But I ignore it, because I liked him so much..
We would have alot of fun together... Always out..
Mars Gem h3
Sun Can h5
mars trne uranus
mars conjunct saturn
sun opps jupiter
sun sq pluto
sun sext moon..
He really liked me also, but never told me because WELL he had a GF....
He (now) told me he was very confused at that time, and he liked me, and didnt want to loose me..
He wanted to stick it out with me, but knew he couldnt....
Later when he did break up with his GF, he called me wanting me back.. I said NOPE.. sorry to late...
I the long run, he broke me heart, and changed me... I was never willing to give my heart again like that..
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Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 10:20 PM
LONAKE?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ????????
lol.......
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Lonake
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posted October 28, 2011 10:34 PM
Yes? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 10:38 PM
LOL.... Does your composites make sense using mars as him and venus as her? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 28, 2011 10:53 PM
O you want me to add in houses too? I looked at 2 that way above minus houses. Lemme see with the houses for the last guy,OK Him Sun 7th Mars 4th...well he wanted marriage and a family so that's that. Mars is sq Moon in the 7th.
Me Moon 7th Venus 6th...I didn't want marriage as there was a touchy atmosphere and I wasn't v. attracted to him physically so that may be me as the Moon...Venus is in the 6th conj Merc, we met at work and were friends there first, that Venus is sextile Mars/Saturn conj in the 4th. So I guess it was good as a friendship at work but more than that did not work out. Am I making sense? Did I do it right, lol? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 10:55 PM
Put up a Composite of an old relationship and let me see if i can figure it out..IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 28, 2011 10:59 PM
Ok here's one from a while back,  Uploaded with ImageShack.us IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 11:07 PM
Ok keep in mind Im a novice.. No where as good as you I think you really liked to talk to him, and you also learned some thing from him, maybe about life... Or a spiritual type of learning.
You were willing to stick it out with him, but you didnt see him clearly.. Or see the relationship clearly.
You wanted to be around him alot, but at the same time didnt have a fear of loosing him... I think he was too controlling for you,
He thought of himself more than you??
meaning he was more concered with getting his needs met, but not taking your needs into consideration.. Im thinking it was an inmature relationship??
meaning both of you were young, and not really menatally prepared for a long term one, but both of you wanted to try anyways??? So tell me whats right and wrong... IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 28, 2011 11:16 PM
^ He was better with the practical world than I was, he had a really good business sense and that helped me out, I learned a lot there. (He has Sun/Mars/ASC conj in Taurus.)
Yes, willing to stick around, it felt comfortable and compatible.
I didn't see all the hang-ups he had about relating intimately to another. We moved in together, no problem, but his intimacy issues sorta came to the fore. But he still hung around. Typical Taurus.
"I think he was too controlling for you,
He thought of himself more than you??
meaning he was more concered with getting his needs met, but not taking your needs into consideration.. "
--Yea, this was part of the intimacy problem. Where do you see this?
Yea we were young, it was like an experiment getting together. We met at work, got along, and thought why the heck not. My thinking was 'I just want to see what happens.' His family liked me, we all got along.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 28, 2011 11:22 PM
I see as controlling because mars sq pluto.Also him thinking of him self, because he's in H2 with the G.trine in fire mars/uraus/sun,moon Aries moon made me think inmature relationship.. Mars sq Saturn I think shows he wanted to but had a harder time with the relationship then you...
You have venus trine saturn, so you just easily went with it. Venus in H9 so I sad ooo she learned things from him... He taught you about life maybe.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 28, 2011 11:29 PM
^ Very subtle and detailed, I like it (!) I wouldn't have made the direct correlation with fire and immature but in that manner it makes sense. I prob also liked it cos the Sun/Moon is trine my ASC, the Venus is conj my Sun. Do you ever check your chart against composites, or no?IP: Logged |
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posted October 29, 2011 12:25 AM
So it was accurate? Cool.. Can you tell me about him being demanding, Im asking for a learning experience IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 29, 2011 01:41 AM
Well, I wouldn't call him demanding as a person. But in what sense do you mean it?IP: Logged |
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posted October 29, 2011 02:15 AM
Was he demanding towards you?
In anyway, or did you feel like he was? Im not sure how... I was curious how the mars/pluto played out. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 29, 2011 02:28 AM
He withheld sexually from me as a power play when he was upset. Does that count? He wanted to be the one in control, but I wouldn't say he was demanding really. Actually a v.quiet guy.IP: Logged |
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