posted October 28, 2011 02:37 AM            

My Venus has rich deep desires and acts out of a need to deeply understand. This results in an attraction to emotional and sensual intensity. This Venus views raw exposure and bonding connection as valuable. This can lead to states of intense ecstasy, understanding, and metamorphosis. When Saturn in Virgo looks at this Venus, it often sees the possibility for intense emotions like lust, jealousy, and manipulation. Because these planets are square, Saturn is particularly bothered by the potential out-of-control-ness in Venus and Venus is particularly bothered by Saturn's obsession with keeping Venus hidden in a box. Again, because my Saturn is MUCH stronger than my Venus, those emotions run deep but are rarely expressed unless I am with people who understand and appreciate me deeply.

posted October 29, 2011 12:32 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
the man I like has venus square saturn in his natal but we also have it in our synastry. along with other aspects I know him and I have a magnetic attraction and sota silent connection.. but should i be the one (venus) doing all the work so to loosen him up as in asking him how is his day or basically talking first...would it make him more comfy around me, I also dont want to look desperate.

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You work together???

posted October 29, 2011 12:44 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
loool YES

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posted October 29, 2011 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
what do you mean?

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Saturn rules work.. Career..

What sign and house is Composite Saturn in?

posted October 29, 2011 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
My Venus Scorpio 29 (8th H) squares Saturn in Virgo 00 (5th H). Saturn is a much stronger planet in my chart, so Venus tends to lose the struggle every time. I'm not sure this is such a terrible thing though considering Venus has a rough time when it's in Scorpio. The way this angle plays out in my psychology is a struggle between what I perceive to be “an intense emotional desire to crawl up inside whatever I find beautiful” and “the over rationalization and moralization of any desires which could be considered unacceptable”.

My Venus has rich deep desires and acts out of a need to deeply understand. This results in an attraction to emotional and sensual intensity. This Venus views raw exposure and bonding connection as valuable. This can lead to states of intense ecstasy, understanding, and metamorphosis. When Saturn in Virgo looks at this Venus, it often sees the possibility for intense emotions like lust, jealousy, and manipulation. Because these planets are square, Saturn is particularly bothered by the potential out-of-control-ness in Venus and Venus is particularly bothered by Saturn's obsession with keeping Venus hidden in a box. Again, because my Saturn is MUCH stronger than my Venus, those emotions run deep but are rarely expressed unless I am with people who understand and appreciate me deeply.

When my Venus touches a favorable transit or experiences release in synastry, she often comes out in me as a wild-eyed starvation victim. I even went through a long period of time where I would just shut down flirting before it could develop, for fear of facing an obsessive and rabid Venus. Learning to consciously let Venus out of solitary confinement to stretch her legs, is something I should be much more aware of, even today. I don't know of anyone who I have shared synastry with, who also had Saturn squaring my Venus. I'm convinced my Venus endures enough abuse from my own Saturn, to go seeking more from other people. =)

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posted October 29, 2011 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Let that Venus in Scorpio unravel!!!!! Your venus in scorpio sounds like a beautiful thing. Tell the saturn in virgo to shut up! LOL.

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