posted October 30, 2011 05:32 PM            

(it's funny because some of my best friends are Gemini so i know it doesn't have to do with the sun signs alone.)

posted October 30, 2011 08:29 PM            

You're very Plutonian which means you must be very in touch with your personal power. Your family senses your intensity and are put off, it frightens them. You've got a depth, and are magnetic, traits that are enviable. It's not surprising your have to deal with this. Understand it's nothing you're doing it's who you are and what you represent and those are things you can't change. Embrace your power, own your intensity, find truth and understanding with your ability to go deep.

I have Pluto in the 8th also as well as other planets there and I've dealt with a similar situation within my own family. Since I was a child my father's side of the family have always been put off by me. My father has a strong dislike for me, and so do my family members on that side. I scare him and them, they sense something inside me that makes them aware of things they aren't comfortable with. My family has a dark past. They don't trust me, and I definitely don't trust them. My father's side has a history of mentally instability and sexual abuse. I was actually abused by one of my father's siblings when I was child. I consider myself the truth teller/black sheep in the family. I know too much and I can't help but say it, and at the same time I bring things to the surface just by existing. People honestly either are intrigued by me or strongly dislike me within seconds.

posted October 30, 2011 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Honestly it probably is a mix of misunderstandings and jealously. There's this idea that people are unconsciously attracted to powerful things, and when they sense something more powerful they become intimidated and intrigued because it's represents something that they'd like to possess.

You're very Plutonian which means you must be very in touch with your personal power. Your family senses your intensity and are put off, it frightens them. You've got a depth, and are magnetic, traits that are enviable. It's not surprising your have to deal with this. Understand it's nothing you're doing it's who you are and what you represent and those are things you can't change. Embrace your power, own your intensity, find truth and understanding with your ability to go deep.

I have Pluto in the 8th also as well as other planets there and I've dealt with a similar situation within my own family. Since I was a child my father's side of the family have always been put off by me. My father has a strong dislike for me, and so do my family members on that side. I scare him and them, they sense something inside me that makes them aware of things they aren't comfortable with. My family has a dark past. They don't trust me, and I definitely don't trust them. My father's side has a history of mentally instability and sexual abuse. I was actually abused by one of my father's siblings when I was child. I consider myself the truth teller/black sheep in the family. I know too much and I can't help but say it, and at the same time I bring things to the surface just by existing. People honestly either are intrigued by me or strongly dislike me within seconds.

Investigate your family, find out if there are any secrets in the family closet. Understanding your family will help you better understand yourself and why they react towards you the way that they do. It could be ancestral, skeletons that haunt your family name because you have an 8th house. Or it could be personalities that clash. But it seems a lot more complex because you've got some potent Plutonian energy.

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posted October 30, 2011 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
he sounds like a bully....just dont worry about him. He'll probably grow out of it.

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posted October 30, 2011 10:11 PM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted October 30, 2011 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
SPANK HIM!! if hes just a kid, then discipline him when he gets out of line with his elders...namely you

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Believe me I have a couple times, he'll just laugh or roll his eyes. I guess he doesn't take me seriously because I never hit him when i'm at my boiling point or "flipped out" as i mentioned .. Idk what i'd do to that kid. I might be arrested. I was alil embarrased to include that, i don't want anybody to think i'm weak and that i'm letting a child overpower me.

posted October 30, 2011 11:18 PM            

If he is like my stepfather, your Mercury in Sag is what causes him to want to pick on you. For some reason he takes your brand of communication as a challenge to his intellect (which hurts Gemini more than a physical beating). He is offensive to you because you react in the same way he feels when you challenge his intellect.

Several resolutions exist, but I'll just pose the high and low road options.

High Road - Call him smart, ask him to teach you something he knows well and pay attention with the intent to learn. Be courteous of the way you communicate with him and keep an eye out for comments which could be viewed as belittling or placating. Because he is agitated by the way you communicate, expect to be shot down until he warms up. Something else to consider is the possibility he is attracted to you. Boys can become aggressive as a reaction to attraction and some Geminis love to tease to the point of harm. Saturn or Mars square Mars, in the right chart can be experienced as sexual tension. If you are both male, this could be something which just requires him to deal with in his own way. You can always stop him the next time he acts out and tell him very calmly but directly, "I don't know exactly why you have an issue with me, but I am willing to talk about it when you are. If you are not willing to tell me what's wrong, than don't act like I should know". Geminis are notorious for being thrown off their game when confronted with the infamous, "Why?". Whatever the case, the only time I have seen Gemini act like this is when they are feeling inadequate.

Low Road - Ignore him, tap into that Scorpio vengeance and remember, NOTHING gets under a Gemini's skin more than pretending they don't exist. Walk away in the middle of whatever he is saying, if you overhear him say something, chuckle mockingly. If he says something, stare at him like he has mud in his mouth and respond with a placating, "Okay". If you choose the low road, expect to continue having a bad relationship HAha... cause he will HATE you.

My personal suggestion is to take the high road, but it could be tough, Gemini does not like admitting fault, so any progress is best made based on ignorance of his past transgressions.

posted October 30, 2011 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
HEHe I have personal experience with this. My stepfather is this kind of Gemini (among many other pleasant traits). Looking at your chart, you can talk a good talk, but overall you are a squish-beast who cares a lot about treating others with mutual kindness and respect.

If he is like my stepfather, your Mercury in Sag is what causes him to want to pick on you. For some reason he takes your brand of communication as a challenge to his intellect (which hurts Gemini more than a physical beating). He is offensive to you because you react in the same way he feels when you challenge his intellect.

Several resolutions exist, but I'll just pose the high and low road options.

High Road - Call him smart, ask him to teach you something he knows well and pay attention with the intent to learn. Be courteous of the way you communicate with him and keep an eye out for comments which could be viewed as belittling or placating. Because he is agitated by the way you communicate, expect to be shot down until he warms up. Something else to consider is the possibility he is attracted to you. Boys can become aggressive as a reaction to attraction and some Geminis love to tease to the point of harm. Saturn or Mars square Mars, in the right chart can be experienced as sexual tension. If you are both male, this could be something which just requires him to deal with in his own way. You can always stop him the next time he acts out and tell him very calmly but directly, "I don't know exactly why you have an issue with me, but I am willing to talk about it when you are. If you are not willing to tell me what's wrong, than don't act like I should know". Geminis are notorious for being thrown off their game when confronted with the infamous, "Why?". Whatever the case, the only time I have seen Gemini act like this is when they are feeling inadequate.

Low Road - Ignore him, tap into that Scorpio vengeance and remember, NOTHING gets under a Gemini's skin more than pretending they don't exist. Walk away in the middle of whatever he is saying, if you overhear him say something, chuckle mockingly. If he says something, stare at him like he has mud in his mouth and respond with a placating, "Okay". If you choose the low road, expect to continue having a bad relationship HAha... cause he will HATE you.

My personal suggestion is to take the high road, but it could be tough, Gemini does not like admitting fault, so any progress is best made based on ignorance of his past transgressions.

Hope that helps.

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That's true, i didn't think of it like that & I like the way you think! the High Road suggestion is definitely something i'm going to take into consideration.

My Sun, Mars, & Pluto actually conjunct eachother, all less than 3 degs. I think the only thing that keeps me composed when i'm angry is the fact that i become ashamed of myself when i put my emotions all out of the table. maybe because of pisces moon & ascendant?
I found that the best way defend myself is to keep holding in my emotions until i go into a blind rage. I honestly don't even know what happens in that phase, like a light switch lol.

posted October 31, 2011 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
That's true, i didn't think of it like that & I like the way you think! the High Road suggestion is definitely something i'm going to take into consideration.

My Sun, Mars, & Pluto actually conjunct eachother, all less than 3 degs. I think the only thing that keeps me composed when i'm angry is the fact that i become ashamed of myself when i put my emotions all out of the table. maybe because of pisces moon & ascendant?
I found that the best way defend myself is to keep holding in my emotions until i go into a blind rage. I honestly don't even know what happens in that phase, like a light switch lol.

Thanks for the advice :]

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LOL, in that case it is probably best to get this resolved before you rip this kid's head off his neck. Pisces can endure a lot, but when backed into a corner and left with no other option, they can become a very unfortunate energy to underestimate. Add Scorpio to the mix, and the fuse gets a bit shorter.

A good thing to keep in mind is how you joke with your friends. With a Sag Mercury, and all that Scorpio, I would guess you can poke at your friends with no intention to harm. Some Geminis are all about the communicating end, but not much for the "where it goes after it has been communicated" end. His intentions may be lighter than their results and he may think you can handle more than you prefer, because you tend to hold your reactions in.