posted October 31, 2011 08:46 PM            

And...is it true what they say that venus in Sagittarius people often find it hard to commit to a relationship, just because their sense of freedom is sooo important to them?

And lastly, would conservative, closed-minded people turn you off? Are you guys more drawn to those who are very open-minded and with a bit of the "out-there" attitude?

posted October 31, 2011 09:21 PM            

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posted October 31, 2011 09:48 PM            

I don't think it makes them have commitment issues. I've had 3 exs with venus in sag (and also a fire mars). They were quite frankly all alittle clingy and needy. One was SUPER needy.

They do like people different from themselves. It's like they like to learn about other places and cultures. They like to have a relationship where it's more high energy and fun, as opposed to sooo intense and possessive (I think they can be alittle full on if they're into you, BUT they aren't that possessive) which imo is a good thing.

It's quite strange too that one of my exs had uranus conjunct venus in sag lol and he was really clingy and full on and needed to be with me all the time? How does that work? Was it cos he could feel like he didn't have 100% hold over me and that I was less attached?

There was also a tendency towards discussing bigger issues (you know world issues, philosophy, history, art etc) which I actually loved. Like venus in libra, virgo, gem and aquarius... Venus in sag love mental stimulation. You have to be somewhat mentally compatible. They don't want a boring person lol.

posted October 31, 2011 11:25 PM            

I will tell you a BIG problem for quite a few of us Venus in Sag people is that we have a habit of mistaking friendship for love.
I've done that my whole life.
If we feel a comraderie with someone,
and we can talk with them (gotta be able to talk!) and we find them attractive, we can tell ourselves that we are in love, when we really just have found a good friend.
It can be painful for both parties when we figure it out.

As for the serious type, that's my preference.
I beleive that opposites attract, just my opinion. I like complicated, dark sort of people, Winter people.. Scorps, Caps and Pisces.. so go figure.

And finally, Biggest problem in my romantic history is people smothering me.
Last r/ship ended over the fact that he paid my phone bill and felt that b/c of that he could text me every hour and I should text back immediately and for however long he wanted.
I don't like to feel owned.
I don't like reporting to anyone.
I don't like expectations.
9 times out of 10 I would of done what (you) wanted me to do, if given the chance, but once I know that it's "expected" the hackles go up, and then the problems begin.

posted November 01, 2011 07:44 AM            

I'm currently seeing somebody who has the following:

Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Capricorn

He is not at all much scorpio-like. In fact, I have more scorpio than him!!! But sometimes I'm just alittle confused with his reactions..

For example - He doesnt hesitate to question me about all the guys who he sees sends me text messages / facebook messages. "Who's this?" "Who is that??" when he asks, his tone of voice changes and is more "stern" - I guess that comes from the scorpio-ness. If it was girls he wouldn't even ask!! He doesn't like it when I (jokingly) turn away from him while I'm texting someone so he doesn't see.

However, he has said to me once "I'm not supposed to tie you down, so when you go out, you don't have to worry about me and just have fun"

Be the truth is, whenever I mention going out and "drinking" with friends his face will change and he'll keep saying things like "oh..please don't drink too much..be careful..." (I had a case where I drank so much I was half passed-out in the bathroom)

He is conflicted!!!!! I don't know which aspect of his natal best describes him. Obviously scorpios are suppose to be intense and all that, but it conflicts with his saggy traits.

posted November 01, 2011 07:47 AM            

Scorpio Ascendant
Sun Libra
Moon Libra
Mars Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mercury Scorpio
Pluto Scorpio

posted November 01, 2011 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
I've done some research about venus in sagittarius people..and I'm just curious. Does this placement in venus make you guys love/like somebody who is different from you (culturally, personality-wise, etc.) and someone who is very care-free?

And...is it true what they say that venus in Sagittarius people often find it hard to commit to a relationship, just because their sense of freedom is sooo important to them?

And lastly, would conservative, closed-minded people turn you off? Are you guys more drawn to those who are very open-minded and with a bit of the "out-there" attitude?

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Wow.
Let's see.

They don't have to be different culturally or in personality etc. But I think I'm more capable of dealing with that than many people (possibly with other than Sag Venus). I certainly don't have a problem with that, however it's not a deciding factor.

Do I find it hard to commit to a relationship? Absolutely not. The opposite! I only really like long, meaningful ones. It's not that I don't like my freedom, just in another way (like recharging on my own rather than in company).

posted November 01, 2011 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think it just makes them love the outdoors, more 'down to earth/chill' people as opposed to high maintenance girls/guys, and they also love fun and spending time with happy go lucky people. They like to be with relaxed people. Think they would really clash with venus in scorpios and cancers.

I don't think it makes them have commitment issues. I've had 3 exs with venus in sag (and also a fire mars). They were quite frankly all alittle clingy and needy. One was SUPER needy.

They do like people different from themselves. It's like they like to learn about other places and cultures. They like to have a relationship where it's more high energy and fun, as opposed to sooo intense and possessive (I think they can be alittle full on if they're into you, BUT they aren't that possessive) which imo is a good thing.

It's quite strange too that one of my exs had uranus conjunct venus in sag lol and he was really clingy and full on and needed to be with me all the time? How does that work? Was it cos he could feel like he didn't have 100% hold over me and that I was less attached?

There was also a tendency towards discussing bigger issues (you know world issues, philosophy, history, art etc) which I actually loved. Like venus in libra, virgo, gem and aquarius... Venus in sag love mental stimulation. You have to be somewhat mentally compatible. They don't want a boring person lol.

I love venus in saggy <3 they're so bouncy.

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That's right, I'm rather on the clingy side a little. But I can behave.

posted November 01, 2011 11:26 AM            

I am really interested in people from different culture not only in "fall in love" way but also friendship, partnership etc...

My freedom is so important to me that even i keep myself away from serious friendships, because i dont want responsibility and also dont want to make them dissappointed cuz of their expectations from me.

I just want to "have fun" in relationship... Live the moment, carpe diem whateer you call it i wanna live my life with someone really KNOWS TO HOW TO LIVE. I can/want to do everything with my lover. I wanna share everything. This is really venus in sagittarus thing ->> SHARING FREEDOM.

I also want my lover to be my friend,mother,sister, partneretc.. Nothing is wrong about that. This is the really sharing thing. Some above posts whine about it but to me it is the really deal.

I am a travel freak also.

I never cheated, i am loyal but i bore quickly ->>> running away . Also because of that a few people come close to me when it comes to love,date partner because i am not really someone that people want to give their heart.

posted November 01, 2011 04:00 PM            

i need my partner to be a best friend, comrade, sibling etc. very close, but "stifling" is a ginormous turn off...

posted November 01, 2011 09:15 PM            

Thanks for all your responses! It definitely gave me a better insight.

Perhaps the common theme is the ability to connect with the person on a MENTAL level (meaning the person has to be as smart as you are and willing to talk about things with you) and the ability to connect on a PHYSICAL level.