posted November 02, 2011 04:11 PM            

I discount Mercury Square Saturn because I find it hard to believe that my wife is more conservative than I am.

I pulled the synastry report from Abacus Astrology, and I don't know if its entirely true, but I'm open to ideas and suggestions, especially from ladies, on how I should mitigate these negative synastry aspects.

Whatever the situation is, the marriage is almost 19 years old and is working.

Here is the report:

Synastry data for Dude and Chick
Planetary positions

Dude/Chick
Sun 05' 39' Capricorn
Sun 25' 27' Leo
Moon 02' 57' Gemini
Moon 20' 01' Gemini
Mercury 20' 28' Capricorn
Mercury 06' 12' Virgo
Venus 05' 23' Aquarius
Venus 11' 39' Virgo
Mars 17' 27' Capricorn
Mars 08' 10' Leo
Jupiter 10' 19' Aries
Jupiter 11' 46' Virgo
Saturn 20' 08' Aquarius
Saturn 25' 33' Aries
Uranus 09' 58' Virgo
Uranus 27' 27' Virgo
Neptune 17' 03' Scorpio
Neptune 23' 46' Scorpio
Pluto 14' 11' Virgo
Pluto 21' 40' Virgo

Synastry aspects
Trine Dude Sun / Chick Mercury - orb: 00' 33'
This is such a good aspect because few problems are insurmountable if there is good communication. This comparative combination is very helpful in any relationship because it denotes excellent communication between the two of you. You stimulate each other intellectually and share many cultural or educational interests. You are able to discuss problems and work them out.

Trine Dude Sun / Chick Venus - orb: 05' 60'
This is an excellent comparative combination for romantic and sexual attraction and marriage. You enjoy each other's company and have fun together. There is good emotional rapport and mutual sensitivity and generosity. You encourage each other socially and culturally.

Trine Dude Sun / Chick Jupiter - orb: 06' 07'
This aspect endows the relationship with a very harmonious and mutually helpful color. Jupiter is very generous, benevolent, and optimistic toward the Sun, while the Sun provides much vitality, and encourages the Jupiter individual. In a romantic situation, this aspect produces cultural and spiritual values that give durability and lasting quality. You are apt to make excellent traveling companions.

Square Dude Moon / Chick Mercury - orb: 03' 15'
This aspect produces difficulty in communication and with general understanding one another regarding everyday practical domestic affairs and family matters. There may be disagreement over diet, personal hygiene, neatness and order in the home, and the handling of personal affairs. Mercury tends to operate on a more intellectual and rational level, while the Moon responds on an instinctual and emotional level. Mercury is likely to view the other as over-emotional and unreliable, while the Moon person sees the other as overly critical and insensitive. A good deal of time may be spend discussing these differences with little resolve.

Trine Dude Moon / Chick Uranus - orb: 05' 29'
This comparative aspect often indicates sexual attraction. Uranus supplies a great deal of interest and exciting in the relationship. Together you can have a large circle of friends, and you may use your home as a meeting place for social gatherings, organizations and unusual activities. You encourage each other to be more individualistic and creative and allow freedom of emotional expression.

Square Dude Mercury / Chick Saturn - orb: 05' 05'
There is a tendency for the Saturn person to seem too conservative, opinionated, or negative. At times, and to react negatively and impose heavy demands on Mercury in terms of mental discipline and work. This is a difficult aspect for all types or relationships. Often, jealousy and resentment are involved. You have a hard time understanding each other.

Trine Dude Mercury / Chick Uranus - orb: 06' 59'
This is a good aspect sparking a very interesting and creative friendship. You seem to be able to help each other come up with original ideas that make sense. This is a good combination for individuals involved in writing, the communication media, advertising, and scientific work of all kinds. Your minds seem to click well together.

Opposition Dude Venus / Chick Mars - orb: 02' 47'
This comparative combination indicates intense sexual, romantic attractions. It is, however, completely dependent on harmonizing factors elsewhere in charts for any degree of stability or enduring qualities. This opposition shows problems with jealousy and possessiveness, and a lack of diplomacy in the relationship. Mars, in this placement, tends to be overly aggressive and inconsiderate, and Venus here is often supersensitive and easily hurt. Both parties are apt to feel that they are being used, and resentment and conflict often results. Nonetheless, this is a very exciting and sexually stimulating placement.

Trine Chick Venus / Dude Mars - orb: 05' 48'
This is one of the best comparative aspect for sexual compatibility. There is likely to be a strong romantic attraction here, as well as a connection conducive to emotional and social compatibility. This is an excellent combination for romantic relationships and for marriage because of the high degree of both social and sexual compatibility.

Trine Dude Mars / Chick Jupiter - orb: 05' 40'
This aspect denotes enjoyment in sharing outdoor activities, sports, and travel. It is a good combination for constructive, practical cooperation in family and domestic affairs. You are apt to encourage each other's efforts at physical, spiritual, or personal self-improvement. Jupiter tends to channel the energies of Mars into more constructive activity, while Mars has the effect of putting educational, philosophical, or religious goals into action.

Trine Chick Mars / Dude Jupiter - orb: 02' 09'
This aspect denotes enjoyment in sharing outdoor activities, sports, and travel. It is a good combination for constructive, practical cooperation in family and domestic affairs. You are apt to encourage each other's efforts at physical, spiritual, or personal self-improvement. Jupiter tends to channel the energies of Mars into more constructive activity, while Mars has the effect of putting educational, philosophical, or religious goals into action.

Opposition Chick Sun / Dude Saturn - orb: 05' 19'
This is a very difficult aspect as it tends to generate mutual jealousy and clashes of personal authority. The Saturn individual is apt to squelch the Sun individual's enthusiasm and self-expression. To live with this mutual aspect, you must both respect each other's autonomy and neither should expect to have the upper hand. The handling of serious mutual responsibilities will be a major issue. This is not considered a favorable aspect for romantic relations.

Trine Chick Moon / Dude Saturn - orb: 00' 07'
This comparative combination is helpful for cooperation in serious responsibilities, business matters, and domestic affairs. It is not an indicator of romantic attractions, but it certainly improves the durability of a relationship by conferring a practical, responsible approach to everyday issues and problems. You may tend to rely on each other for security or stability. Saturn tends to be the restraining or disciplining influence in the relationship.

Conjunction Chick Mercury / Dude Uranus - orb: 03' 47'
This aspect produces many exciting mutual mental interests. Original ideas and experiences are exciting and generaly the relationship is more open-minded and unbiased. Intellectual interests are shared. A sort of mental telepathy may exist between you.