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BeholdAstarte
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posted November 02, 2011 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i was out having fun at this bar for halloween, all dressed up and what not, and the bartender was seriously GORGEOUS! to say the absolute least. i was with my friend and i was trying to convince her to totally mac on him because he was just too fine to pass up. so i start the conversation with him and im sort of joking around and i guessed his birthday and i was dead on! may 25th, sooo crrazay. but anyway it ends up getting to the point were he says "your sexual" and walks away, but i didnt say or do anything that was sexual so i asked him a bit later if i heard right, then seriously asked me some super strange and said " are you sexually attracted to me?" and i didnt really know what to say to that so i just said " uhhhm yeaaah your soo cute" and then he goes on to say that i was really attractive and i could rule the entire bar if i wanted to. i was seriously like wwwhhhaaat? why are you saying this, sooo off topic ya know? he walked away again and i talked to him about something else and he changed the topic again to ask me if i was asking for his number and i just didnt say anything to him and didnt talk to him anymore cause it was soo wierd and awkward. but i asked my friend who ive known for a really long time if i was sexual and he agreed that i could come across as sexual sometimes? but i always feel soo awkward i dont know how that could be, it makes me scared to talk to guys haha i dont realize my body or something! or maybe im playful and flirtatious sometimes.. and im curvy or something ii dunno buut im thinking it has to do with my venus as weeeell.

my risings in taurus, plus my sun/mars/merc are in libra giving me VENUSIAN POWERS! so my venus is in scorpio conjunct pluto in the 7th house closely conjuncting the descendent. i really dont mean to be a sexual temptress muahahaha, but that night, i really noticed my venus/pluto side come out and i didnt really.. think about it too much before, but its almost like i intimidate whoever im going after, or im just really intense, but they cant help but like me back or be attracted to it. it makes me wonder if guys sort of sense that pluto side of me.. and some are just really drawn to it and others run away

do other scorpio venus's out there have this same thing going on?

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Leonine8
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posted November 02, 2011 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think he just felt chemistry with you and sensed charisma and assertiveness. Sounds like quite a night.

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BeholdAstarte
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posted November 02, 2011 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah that could be it.. i dunno his mannerisms were really awkward though, like he was uncomfortable. thats why it sorta got a little bit wierd, and the topics were totally flipped around with him asking me that stuff. when he asked me if i was asking for his number i was asking him about the bar becuase i found out it was HIS bar, so i was trying to see how he attained it and all that because i want to own my own bussiness as well and in responce hes like "are you asking me for my number?" but he almost looked annoyed when he said that so i didnt say anything thinking "huh?" but yeah im sorta confused, im sorta thinking the same thing as you.. but im also thinking about how awkward he looked and felt (well his vibes) which makes me wonder if i scared him

it was a super fun night though.. this other guy that i new was getting really clingy with me too it was so overwhelming!

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posted November 02, 2011 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think you were too assertive and forward and he got caught off guard??

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posted November 02, 2011 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah he totally could have.. the thing is though. that he was flirting with this other girl but he would be looking at me while he was dancing with her, i dunno to me it came across like he was trying to make me jealous, it was like he were sort of testing each other out? i dunno. i might have came across as way too heavy, cause i have a really hard time starting off light with anyone, i dont know how to be really light and superficial, so maybe i was just too much for him to handle haha

and he thought he was playing the same game as me. thats the thing wheenever someone acts a certain way with me i always think their mirroring me for some reason

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posted November 02, 2011 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yep, i've had guys tell me the same things. scorpio venus in 1st house trine mars & jupiter. pluto in scorpio conjunct ASC, Scorpio ASC.

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posted November 02, 2011 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
my risings in taurus, plus my sun/mars/merc are in libra giving me VENUSIAN POWERS! so my venus is in scorpio conjunct pluto in the 7th house closely conjuncting the descendent. i really dont mean to be a sexual temptress muahahaha,

do other scorpio venus's out there have this same thing going on?


Yes, Leo Ascendant with Libra Merc/Mars & Virgo Sun 29th degree, so only the tiniest bit not Libra I also have Venus in Scorpio conjuncting Pluto plus a whole host of Asteroids focused around attraction etc. All in my 4th house. Near/on my IC.

I sometimes notice that I get a similar treatment from women as you described, its almost like an intimidation thing, its the only way I can describe it, but I really don't feel I give off any vibes like those you describe but I'm sure I must =/

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posted November 02, 2011 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was fun to read your story. You've just experienced the true gifts of Venus BeholdAstarte. As a fellow Venusian let me tell you, we can make quiet the impression, even if it's not immediately obvious. Venus being in Scorpio just intensifies all that Venusian energy. A Venusian/Plutonian talk about a seductress!

I'm a Venusian/Leonine and I think I attract by simply glowing and hopefully by exuding grace. In high school I had passing crushes but being the Libra I am, I did not pursue instead waited to be courted, alas that failed. Years later I discovered that many of my high school crushes were crushing on me too and were too intimidated to approach me...? I guess I really did leave an impression.

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posted November 02, 2011 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think you scared him away, I think you were too intimidating for him. He wants what he can't handle . You were probably making him nervous by exuding all that Venusian beauty and Plutonian intensity. I've been there before, if they can't handle the power of your seduction are they really worth being seduced? Not according to me. It's much more delightful seducing an enticingly willing candidate.

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posted November 03, 2011 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
yep, i've had guys tell me the same things. scorpio venus in 1st house trine mars & jupiter. pluto in scorpio conjunct ASC, Scorpio ASC.

zang yo, whats your sun sign and all that? ohhh you sound like you could be mysterious!! :3

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posted November 03, 2011 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Yes, Leo Ascendant with Libra Merc/Mars & Virgo Sun 29th degree, so only the tiniest bit not Libra I also have Venus in Scorpio conjuncting Pluto plus a whole host of Asteroids focused around attraction etc. All in my 4th house. Near/on my IC.

I sometimes notice that I get a similar treatment from women as you described, its almost like an intimidation thing, its the only way I can describe it, but I really don't feel I give off any vibes like those you describe but I'm sure I must =/


niiice, maybe its more focused on women because all of it is in your 4th house? i dont even realize half the time how im coming across, but i start to notice it when i "want" someone haha, so when i really like someone too not in an attraction way or anything.

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posted November 03, 2011 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you came on too strong so he got alittle turned off. Sometimes indifference is a good thing lol. He kept on walking away and if he was interested, he probably would have asked for your number instead of making a comment and just leaving??

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posted November 03, 2011 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
It was fun to read your story. You've just experienced the true gifts of Venus BeholdAstarte. As a fellow Venusian let me tell you, we can make quiet the impression, even if it's not immediately obvious. Venus being in Scorpio just intensifies all that Venusian energy. A Venusian/Plutonian talk about a seductress!

I'm a Venusian/Leonine and I think I attract by simply glowing and hopefully by exuding grace. In high school I had passing crushes but being the Libra I am, I did not pursue instead waited to be courted, alas that failed. Years later I discovered that many of my high school crushes were crushing on me too and were too intimidated to approach me...? I guess I really did leave an impression.


yeah i was thinking he couldnt handle me either! hehe, i like geminis but i almost feel like even though im a libra that im too much for them to handle haha cause their so much more free and flirtatious and sort of "light" or they seem to barely skim the surface? but ive always seemed to attract sooo many people, i wont even mean to either. its always really hard to stay single! haha

aww thats cute about u in high school! that always feels good to know the people you totally thought were babes were macing on u too! venusians know how to attract thats for suure. with your venus in leo, is your love nature sort of emotionally intense but in a light more "sunnier" way?

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posted November 03, 2011 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think you came on too strong so he got alittle turned off. Sometimes indifference is a good thing lol. He kept on walking away and if he was interested, he probably would have asked for your number instead of making a comment and just leaving??

yeah, i just think that he was taking me too seriously. becuase i didnt even want anything sexual/relationship wise to do with him and he kept bring that stuff up probably becuause thats what he thought my intentions were. he would walk away then come back becuase he was working a bar. it wasnt like i was stalking him down haha. but i felt bad becuase i came across a lot stronger than i intend on being which happens a lot at times

it was funny becuase for a second i was starting to think HE was the one who was a little crazy, becuase the stuff he would say in responce to what i was saying was soo off topic and obscure, especially the number thing becuase all i asked was how he went about getting his bussiness started becuase i was thinking it would take some time/money and thats all i was wonder then he asked me if i was trying to get his number. i was just sorta thinking.. your sorta wierd but idunno if i like it in a good way. but at the same time i felt bad, but i sort of agree that he might have been scared away and a little turned off. i dont know if i could be indifferent... haha

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posted November 03, 2011 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Women with Venus in Scorpio are sultry, owning an intuitive sexual chemistry. They may have studied the occult and can read your palm, tea leaves, or just your mind. In short, they will enchant you. They, as well as the male gender, are all or nothing people. Either they love something or someone, or ignore it. This Venus sign represents seekers for answers to life’s deep questions. When they forget to first connect to people at a more superficial level, they scare the Bejeesus out of others! No problem! Those who run from it, won’t be able to deal with its convictions, nor participate in a deep transformative love.

found that interpretation in another thread with venus in scorpio! true to the T!

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posted November 03, 2011 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, yeah, I had quite a few similar encounters like this one. But I never thought I might intimidate them! LOL I have also been told that I'm quite impressive (leave a good first impression) but I just don't see it.
Venus in Scorpio here in a square to my Mars in Aqua on my Asc and opposite my Moon in Taurus.
Pluto in the 8th.

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posted November 03, 2011 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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yeah i was thinking he couldnt handle me either! hehe, i like geminis but i almost feel like even though im a libra that im too much for them to handle haha cause their so much more free and flirtatious and sort of "light" or they seem to barely skim the surface? but ive always seemed to attract sooo many people, i wont even mean to either. its always really hard to stay single! haha

aww thats cute about u in high school! that always feels good to know the people you totally thought were babes were macing on u too! venusians know how to attract thats for suure. with your venus in leo, is your love nature sort of emotionally intense but in a light more "sunnier" way?


Yeah, it was nice to discover I had many admirers in high school, especially considering I had major crushes on them but I would have rather them man up and spoken to me back then instead of years later. I had no idea my crushes were mutual. I come off incredibly un-approachable. I'm aware of this from years of experiences and past partners giving me their feed back.

As a Libra with Venus in Leo I would describe myself as emotionally intense, definitely. What the added touch of Solar energy does to my Venus is make me long for a grand connection. I want to share a love that is expressive, enormous, colorful, passionate and honest. I'm talking fireworks, explosions, parades, celebrations, BIG love . I envision myself as the Queen a true Venusian goddess, and I'm looking for a King. But I also have 8th house energy and I want that love to be pure, transformational, elevating, elusive, infinite. I'm very intense when it comes to relationships and just about everything in life.

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posted November 03, 2011 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BeholdAstarte - i'm a Capricorn sun, Sag moon.


people have described me as mysterious...weird...dark...b*tchy..and overtly sexual, even though i NEVER "put myself out there".

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posted November 04, 2011 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
niiice, maybe its more focused on women because all of it is in your 4th house? i dont even realize half the time how im coming across, but i start to notice it when i "want" someone haha, so when i really like someone too not in an attraction way or anything.

Oh sorry, I'm Male.

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posted November 04, 2011 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by anongrl10:
Hmm, yeah, I had quite a few similar encounters like this one. But I never thought I might intimidate them! LOL I have also been told that I'm quite impressive (leave a good first impression) but I just don't see it.
Venus in Scorpio here in a square to my Mars in Aqua on my Asc and opposite my Moon in Taurus.
Pluto in the 8th.
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venus in scorpio is so intense.. and intimidating i love it!

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posted November 04, 2011 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Yeah, it was nice to discover I had many admirers in high school, especially considering I had major crushes on them but I would have rather them man up and spoken to me back then instead of years later. I had no idea my crushes were mutual. I come off incredibly un-approachable. I'm aware of this from years of experiences and past partners giving me their feed back.

As a Libra with Venus in Leo I would describe myself as emotionally intense, definitely. What the added touch of Solar energy does to my Venus is make me long for a grand connection. I want to share a love that is expressive, enormous, colorful, passionate and honest. I'm talking fireworks, explosions, parades, celebrations, BIG love . I envision myself as the Queen a true Venusian goddess, and I'm looking for a King. But I also have 8th house energy and I want that love to be pure, transformational, elevating, elusive, infinite. I'm very intense when it comes to relationships and just about everything in life.


yeah ive come to realize that the fires signs, especially leo, arent as "sunny" as always depicted. i mean leo is sunny but its also an intense sign as well, i think a lot of interpretations fail to mention that about leo haha. i mean aries is evident i guess and ive seen some moody sag's thats for sure, or really depressed ones at that

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posted November 04, 2011 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Oh sorry, I'm Male.



oh, haha. its hard to tell with this detached cyber forum thing ya know? but maybe the 4th could still effect the women in your life? i dunno

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posted November 04, 2011 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
BeholdAstarte - i'm a Capricorn sun, Sag moon.


people have described me as mysterious...weird...dark...b*tchy..and overtly sexual, even though i NEVER "put myself out there".


niice, i have a really close cap friend but she has her rising in pisces and her moon in cancer. is your sun conjunct neptune, uranus, or saturn? i always find the earth signs interesting becuase theyre usually depicted as the "practical" which i can see but ive noticed a lot of earth signs being very creative and somewhat goofy.

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