posted November 03, 2011 01:22 PM            

The Geminis in my life are just like 'Oh, whatever happens happens'
Ugh, I can not stand this...
My sister is a Gemini and my SO for the 8 years is one as well.

We have to plan work this weekend and I need to know how many loads we can get out and who they are going to, today.
My SO is just keeps saying 'Whatever happens happens, dont plan for anything'
And I am left with nothing to tell anyone.

My sister is always 'Oh, I dont know what Im going to do tonight.. whatever comes, comes.'
(then she usually flakes out on everything and doesnt do anything that was preplanned)

posted November 03, 2011 04:46 PM            

I HATE this about Gem's too!!!
And I'm a planner too although after interacting with WAY too many "airy" signs, I am a bit closer to their non-planning standard.
Still hate to leave things at a last minute "whatever" decision or on someone's whim.
My Saturn is in Taurus so it's patient, methodical, solid, reliable. Tell that to the "puffed up" guys!

posted November 03, 2011 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
Im an aqua sun and I just like to plan head. I like everything to fit neatly in my schedule and when it doesnt I feel like Im a ticking time bomb. (I think its a control thing)

The Geminis in my life are just like 'Oh, whatever happens happens'
Ugh, I can not stand this...
My sister is a Gemini and my SO for the 8 years is one as well.

We have to plan work this weekend and I need to know how many loads we can get out and who they are going to, today.
My SO is just keeps saying 'Whatever happens happens, dont plan for anything'
And I am left with nothing to tell anyone.

My sister is always 'Oh, I dont know what Im going to do tonight.. whatever comes, comes.'
(then she usually flakes out on everything and doesnt do anything that was preplanned)

Cant. Stand. It. Much. Longer.
(And I thought we were suppose to go along well with each other! lol)

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Yep I Have gemini in the 7th and draconic mercury, venus and mars in gemini and natal NN in gemini and I don't like planning ahead bc that means I am making a commitment to doing something and don't like the idea that I can't change my mind. I Like feeling like I Have options and can change my mind when it comes to social things. I have a lot of mutable in me I like flexibility and spontaneity.

My chart is mainly mutable: virgo, pisces, sag, gemini...with some fixed and lots of fire. Have cardinal void and air void in my natal but draconic packed with air and cardinal.

My aqua friend with sag in venus is spontaneous like me.

posted November 03, 2011 05:12 PM            

What grates on me a bit is the fact that she goes to the store and completely changes what she wants to get, making the list pointless. She then asks me to help her make a decision about which option to go with and tears down my suggestion as a way to bolster the opposite choice. If I really want to mess with her, I then agree with her decision, so she can spend another 5 minutes tearing that decision down and changing her mind.

I have learned to stay silent when she asks.. she usually comes to a conclusion on her own (often about a random third option) within a few minutes.

posted November 03, 2011 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
My sister is a Gemini too and she writes lists and then adds those lists to bigger lists.

What grates on me a bit is the fact that she goes to the store and completely changes what she wants to get, making the list pointless. She then asks me to help her make a decision about which option to go with and tears down my suggestion as a way to bolster the opposite choice. If I really want to mess with her, I then agree with her decision, so she can spend another 5 minutes tearing that decision down and changing her mind.

I have learned to stay silent when she asks.. she usually comes to a conclusion on her own (often about a random third option) within a few minutes.

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WTF??! LOL......that is insanity....is that the gemini in her really? it sounds rebellious....she makes a list and then wants to rebel against it LOL.......does she have mercury/Uranus aspect in her chart by any chance?

I would love to know what is going through her head when she is changing list at the store. IT must be her love of option and fear of commitment and perhaps some libra influence in her chart.

the sun virgo in me likes makings lists, its very important to make lists in order to organize, remember things that need to get done and follow through but I actually pay attention to the list and looove scratching off an item when mission has been completed.

posted November 03, 2011 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
WTF??! LOL......that is insanity....is that the gemini in her really? it sounds rebellious....she makes a list and then wants to rebel against it LOL.......does she have mercury/Uranus aspect in her chart by any chance?

I would love to know what is going through her head when she is changing list at the store. IT must be her love of option and fear of commitment and perhaps some libra influence in her chart.

the sun virgo in me likes makings lists, its very important to make lists in order to organize, remember things that need to get done and follow through but I actually pay attention to the list and looove scratching off an item when mission has been completed.

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Uranus doesn't make an aspect to Mercury, but it is in Libra, 3rd house, and square her Mars in Gemini.

posted November 03, 2011 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Heh. Sounds like you're hanging out with some immature Geminis. I'm a Gemini, but I plan everything out years in advance.

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posted November 03, 2011 06:02 PM            

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'Oh, whatever happens happens'

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I like this about mutable people! It's not just Geminis!
They can go with the flow.
It's not a bad thing.

posted November 03, 2011 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I like this about mutable people! It's not just Geminis!
They can go with the flow.
It's not a bad thing.

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posted November 03, 2011 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
Uranus doesn't make an aspect to Mercury, but it is in Libra, 3rd house, and square her Mars in Gemini.

I think she has an obsession with options, when she eats out with others, she insists everyone get something she will also want to eat, that way everyone can share their food and she won't have to eat just one boring thing HAHa.

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posted November 03, 2011 10:44 PM            

So all look at everything expected to happen and say if things add up this way things will happen that way, if not it will swing the other way.

Otherwise things will go the way they'll go,

A recent example whould be the euro crisis, if Greece agrees to the bail out, things will happen that way, otherwise it will be the other way.

Whatever will be will be. I hope that makes sense.

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Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun, 5th House
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
Venus In Taurus

posted November 04, 2011 12:06 PM            

I am a mutable person (more in fire)
my sister is a strong cardinal while my SO is a mix between Mutable and Cardinal...

Did I mention my mom was a Gemini too?! (whats up with that?!?!)
I dont really recall her actions though.

Anyways..
Here are their two charts