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Leonine8
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posted November 04, 2011 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 04, 2011 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most of the aspects here are ideal for synastry, but if you don't know her time of birth I wouldn't rely so much on her moon aspects. Though you could probably get away with the Sun conjunct Moon because that's allowed to be a very wide orb.
But generally with all these harmionus aspects if she were to approach him I think he would be very warm about it even if it was a no. With the double whammy of Venus-Mars he'll probably comfort & assure her that it won't ruin there friendship, that's how i see that aspect playing out anyway.

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posted November 04, 2011 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh i want to add venus trine venus, which to me, is a very proper, respectful feeling, more like mutual adoration/admiration than sexy.

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posted November 04, 2011 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Great feedback, thanks! I'll let her know. She said he's not the type to be critical. Did not know that about the wide sun-moon conjunct allowance. How often does the moon sign change? Thanks again.

I believe every 2 hrs it goes up 1 degree, & your definitely right on the venus trine venus aspect. Usually when people tell there friends to ask there crushes out the motto is "the worse they can say is no" where as for her I think she'd have a much more soothing response whether it's a good or bad answer :]
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posted November 04, 2011 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, so it stays in sign but might go out of aspect?

She's old fashioned and might have other options.

Your help is great.

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posted November 04, 2011 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leonine8:
Ok, so it stays in sign but might go out of aspect?

She's old fashioned and might have other options.

Your help is great.


Yes exactly ^^
That's good, but depending on how long they've been friends maybe he feels the same way who knows. I just don't want to be the person who says Go for it because there synastry, and it turns out she didn't get the response she expected.
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posted November 04, 2011 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That makes sense. No, I won't let her blame you (or me!) for the botched come on. LOL. I can see ways they'd be good together and not. They have good Saturn but I think it would be too much detail to tell her about stability instead ofchemistry and all that.

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posted November 04, 2011 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol I'm glad, just being cautious XD
Oh okay, so is she looking for a fling more than a long-term relation?

They actually say that the (trines & sextiles) are less effected for saturn than the (conjunctions, oppositions, and squares)
I actually did some research the oddly enough the most common saturn aspects in synastry were Sun square Saturn & Mars square Saturn, it makes the relationship stick like glue.

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posted November 04, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh they have mutual sun sextile Saturn. I thought that would be supportive for friends at least. Do you ever look at same element as trine even if out of aspect? They have Psyche and Eros in same sign, Eros conjunct moon, Eros opp Mars, Psyche conjunct Mars, eros opp Sun, Chiron conjunct Chiron. Of course, I don't try to tell a non astrology person what an asteroid means. Too much info.

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posted November 04, 2011 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh they have mutual sun sextile Saturn. I thought that would be supportive for friends at least. Do you ever look at same element as trine even if out of aspect? They have Psyche and Eros in same sign, Eros conjunct moon, Eros opp Mars, Psyche conjunct Mars, eros opp Sun, Chiron conjunct Chiron. Of course, I don't try to tell a non astrology person what an asteroid means. Too much info.

Definitely, people who don't look at planets/asteroids that have the same signs despite the orb is kind of silly. The difference is that the attraction is instant w/ tight orbs. Where the elements alone can get along, but the chemistry will be less intact... kind of like it's there, but it doesn't mean anything or at least not as much.

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posted November 04, 2011 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see the same sign that way too, more of an undercurrent than in your face. Do you think the mutual Pluto-Venus will help them? That was making me think mutual, but sometimes you read Pluto is intense and sometimes that it triggers intensity in planet person.

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posted November 05, 2011 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone else offer insight?

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posted November 05, 2011 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I see the same sign that way too, more of an undercurrent than in your face. Do you think the mutual Pluto-Venus will help them? That was making me think mutual, but sometimes you read Pluto is intense and sometimes that it triggers intensity in planet person.

Yes that would help a lot ^^ but the only thing about pluto is that it's a generational planet. Many people don't take this aspect to heart because you also have it with everyone close to your age. Still, it definitely helps nevertheless.

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posted November 05, 2011 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leonine8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally think I feel the intensity of Pluto, but I see how people disagree. I'm also wondering if 6th house Venus and Mercury overlays are ever more than friendly. It bugs me when a planet is right on the edge of 6 znd 7 because those interps are so different. What do you do when it's on the line?

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