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Topic: Capricorn moon - the coldest moon placement?
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lindisfarne
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posted November 04, 2011 02:40 PM
  
Dang! I like being around moon in cap people because I totally and utterly respect them for their calmness, in situations of crisis. They seem unphased not bothered by things as much as others would react... but they come off as cold and if they could not care less? but it's so fascinating to watch and hear! When you speak to them about a tough situation that will respond very calm, and you are left wondering "Am I speaking to a robot?" I don't know why Aquarius lunar people get flack I honestly think cap mooners are very detached lol
for example Kourtney Kardashian I watch her and her cap moon explains her calmness and coolness. my friend also has this placement as well..I like seeing it though it's something I respect because I can feel "at home" with these people, I don't feel left out when around them because usually I am the one that doesn't respond if at all to dire situations - or my reactions are delayed we are talkin hours to days lol. It's weird because my moon is in Pisces but I don freak out at all I wish I could. I don't though. But I admire cap mooners do you know any cap mooners? How can they seem SO abnormally calm in situations of crisis? Here is my chart btw:
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Astra
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posted November 04, 2011 03:07 PM
Hey there! I have a Capricorn moon and yes, I can stay very calm under pressure. I once had an angry relative pull out a gun, and even then I was still perfectly calm. I quickly disarmed him and prevented the situation from escalating into something far more serious. I can't speak for other Cap mooners, but the reason I'm calm is that I've been placed in so many dangerous situations since infancy, that nothing surprises me anymore. I've learned to develop a poker face because I often have to handle some shady people, and if I were to show any signs of fear, they would eat me alive. I realize that in order to survive, I have to remain calm so I can think logically about what I'm going to do. Being calm also helps me read others better so I can anticipate their next move. The only regrettable characteristic of this moon is that we come across as uncaring. However, capricorn moons are far from uncaring. Our emotions run deep and we love others more than they'll ever know. I would give my life for my family and friends in a heartbeat. One of my friends was recently betrayed by someone she trusted. She was utterly devastated and didn't know how to fight back, so I stepped in and finished the battle for her. Capricorn moons are obsessed with structure and control. We're ruled by Saturn, after all. Showing our emotions and wearing our hearts on our sleeves puts us in a vulnerable position. It's a huge risk to do that. While I care deeply about others, you will rarely see me telling them how I feel. I prefer to show my feelings through my actions, and I determine someone's character based on their actions rather than their words. Why you ask? I've had too many people in my childhood that promised me the world and said all of the "right" things, but never followed through. This is why a person's actions are so much more important to me than what they say. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 04, 2011 03:29 PM
I'm envious of this Moon placement and try to emulate it. My sister is a Taurus with Cap Moon. She's formidable when it comes to planning and organization, according to her employers. Unfeeling? Not at all when it comes to family. She's actually very sensitive and remembers slights forever, but she doesn't waste time mulling over them or letting them affect her actions. But she is extremely cold and unfeeling when it comes to guys. She doesn't consider their feelings or rights at all and plays them without intending to. This might be due to her Gemini Venus though. Her immediate reaction to a breakup is to come up with a PLAN. She doesn't wallow in misery over a tub of ice cream; she comes up with this PLAN to go to the gym daily, improve her mind with reading, build up her resume and connections, etc. She usually finds a new and "better" (in Cap Moon's opinion, this seems to mean a more impressive career and fatter bank account) man within two weeks. This moon responds to every situation with, "What should one DO?"I'm an Aqua moon and respond to situations with analysis, which is less useful than Cap Moon's practical approach. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 04, 2011 04:20 PM
I can relate to this. It rings very true for me. It's not so much that I could care less... but I have spiritual beliefs (My Mars/Neptune conjunction is also in Capricorn & my Cap Moon is sextile Pisces Merc)... so I trust the Universe/God - whatever you want to call it - that things will be OK. When something negative is happening, I try to focus on the problems and dissect them in my mind so I can somehow resolve the situation. Sometimes this can have an after-effect.... I can be very calm while the crisis situation is unfolding - and then cry about it two months later when everything finally sinks in - and when I no longer need to be 'the responsible one' - fixing things. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted November 04, 2011 04:25 PM
I have a Taurus Moon and in crisis when everyone is panicky I am very calm and able to think clearly.
Of course I get to panick and/or collapse *after* the event when everyone else is recovering... 
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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 04, 2011 07:55 PM
To me it's actually a tie between Aquarius moons and Cap moons. They're so emotionless and cold about everything that a lot of times I find myself wondering if I need to check their pulse and see if they're still alive LOL.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 04, 2011 08:11 PM
There's another reason why I don't react. I am often prepared for all possible outcomes lol... so I'm not taken by surprise. Also, human nature does not surprise me... One of my friends thought it was strange that I wouldn't react emotionally if I found my ex in bed with another girl. This never actually happened - it was just 'hypothetically speaking'.
I wouldn't react because I would expect any guy to do that at some point. I would actually be pleasantly surprised if I woke up 20 yrs later and it so happened he let me know (lie detector test included and all) that he has never ever cheated on me.
I would be like: WOW - REALLY?
Now *that* would surprise me ^ Other people have been surprised that I don't react emotionally when someone yells at me in an argument. This is because I have some understanding for that person.. and I realise why they feel the way they feel... so I don't want to escalate things by yelling *myself*.
I'm always trying to assess the situation, thinking about what the best thing is for me to do at the time and what long-term consequences it can have. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 08:13 PM
"They seem unphased not bothered by things as much as others would react"
---Can you give an example?Anyway I have Capricorn Moon and I'm pretty calm, for a few reasons,
1) I have a track in mind of how I want a certain situation to proceed, so if my track is not being messed with I couldn't care less what else is going on. Keep eyes on Big Picture and I am A-OK, I can view events in the broader scheme of 'my plan' and realize that they're not tinged with that much meaning.
2) There are people out there who get off on upsetting others and I don't want to give them any satisfaction. So if they bring something crappy to my attention immed. I comment on the bright side of the situation, or something positive that can come out of it. The only topics I don't treat that way are death or terminal disease, cos they're serious. Moods always pass so they don't interest me as much. Even my friend with cancer that is in remission, she doesn't get any pity cos I don't think that's gonna help her one bit. She can go shop for it from others, thank God she's not the self-pitying type lol. Even when I've been ill and had to go to the doc I was making jokes about my situation the whole way through I even had the staff laughing. Leo Asc might add to this one.
3) Hate to waste my energy. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 04, 2011 09:03 PM
Its interesting, I have noticed that both Lonake and Betty are very nonjudgemental, unbiased and objective. Now I see that is their moon in cap that makes them objective about what to expect from others resulting in them not getting easily alarmed or taking things personally. I feel moon in cap also allows you to see the grey in everything instead of perceiving things as black and white. All these I appreciate. My virgo sun loves objectivity and grey thinking....people and life are complex. I am also digging moon in cap now thanks to the knowledge I am acquiring about this placement from this thread.I also like to think of all possible scenarios so I can prepare myself emotionally for the worst. Betty sorry about your friend betraying you  . What happened to you use to be my biggest fear. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 04, 2011 09:09 PM
i knew someone with that placement.. i'd look into their eyes and see a lot of pain and stuff that they would never have the world know but i think that it was apparent.. they seemed very sad.on the same but other hand, trying to have a light conversation with them is impossible.. there can't be anything said without their chiming in with a 'ba-hum-bug'! til the point where i just didn't know if i should bother saying anything at all or just wait for them to want to talk about something and agree with them because they'd find something to ba-hum-bug about, anyway! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 09:35 PM
^ That's your Leo Moon talking, I'm sure of it. My Leo Moon friends take my seriousness personally too cos that means I'm not on their 'fan bandwagon' at that moment in time lmao.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 05, 2011 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
^ That's your Leo Moon talking, I'm sure of it. My Leo Moon friends take my seriousness personally too cos that means I'm not on their 'fan bandwagon' at that moment in time lmao.
it's not a 'fan bandwagon' which to anyone with anything in capricorn would call it so if they're familiar with astrology. it's the feeling of no one ever feeling that they can relate or just be one on one with [cap] because it's always something.
"there can be no dancing in the house.. it's not allowed!" "let's go and pick fruit off of trees!  "let's not.. some stupid girl from across the street cheated on her state exam and had sex with the college director and now she's getting into a better school and there's no way she's anywhere near as smart as me and i can't believe it.. stupid fruit! it's so stupid!" that's what it's about. if it was about a fan bandwagon, leo has already quite a few and i'm sure more than enough. leo is a personal sign.. it deals with personal relationships and one-on-one. mr mountain goat over there, is the one that looks at most everyone as they should be a 'fan' especially those they see in positions of being 'subordinate' to the point where their nose isn't only so high in the air but brown on the brink of turning black to the point that they can't be bothered.. unless there is someone that is better than them that they look up to that wants them to do something and they'll be ever so glad to follow along like a little pup to see if they get a star.. eh, incredi-- err, uh, cappyboy?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDzF5aU8LnI
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if one wants to just 'hang' the protocol to 'hang' with them can be a little annoying. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 05, 2011 01:08 AM
tux how many moon in caps do you know? just bec someone appears detached doesn't mean they are not passionate, they just don't show it or go back and forth in showing it. Did you have a bad experience with moon in cap or have you had many moon in cap experiences? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 05, 2011 01:09 AM
Tux --
^^ Depends on the "one" doing the hanging and their own chart 
Your Mars is conjunct my Sun... so it's no surprise... (Aries/Cap are square - That can be a source of tension!)
I wish Leo *was* a personal sign... but it is actually a social sign...
I have a lack of social signs for the most part (my Pluto in Scorpio is pretty lonely) and as much as I attract them and usually like them -- their tendency to socialise ad nauseum kind of gets to me. I'd prefer to be out playing volleyball on the beach or doing something interesting&fun.. rather than 'talking' for the sake of it. -------------- quote:
I have noticed that both Lonake and Betty are very nonjudgemental, unbiased and objective.
Thanks amelia!! But we also have Pisces in common!
The non-judgemental part sounds more like Pisces. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 05, 2011 01:17 AM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
i knew someone with that placement.. i'd look into their eyes and see a lot of pain and stuff that they would never have the world know but i think that it was apparent.. they seemed very sad.on the same but other hand, trying to have a light conversation with them is impossible.. there can't be anything said without their chiming in with a 'ba-hum-bug'! til the point where i just didn't know if i should bother saying anything at all or just wait for them to want to talk about something and agree with them because they'd find something to ba-hum-bug about, anyway!
Or you're lacking in depth perhaps? Maybe they say things of substance and you cannot relate so you associate it with negativity? Cap/saturn is realistic lol what is your moon sigh btw
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lindisfarne
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posted November 05, 2011 01:17 AM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
tux how many moon in caps do you know? just bec someone appears detached doesn't mean they are not passionate, they just don't show it or go back and forth in showing it. Did you have a bad experience with moon in cap or have you had many moon in cap experiences?
Oh btw talked to my gem/cancer guy!IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 05, 2011 01:23 AM
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Oh btw talked to my gem/cancer guy!
Oh ya! I was reading about that on the other thread (that you cooked for him etc).. Did you end up forgiving him? IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 05, 2011 01:31 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Tux --
^^ Depends on the "one" doing the hanging and their own chart
Your Mars is conjunct my Sun... so it's no surprise... (Aries/Cap are square - That can be a source of tension!)
I wish Leo *was* a personal sign... but it is actually a social sign...
I have a lack of social signs for the most part (my Pluto in Scorpio is pretty lonely) and as much as I attract them and usually like them -- their tendency to socialise ad nauseum kind of gets to me. I'd prefer to be out playing volleyball on the beach or doing something interesting&fun.. rather than 'talking' for the sake of it. -------------- Thanks amelia!! But we also have Pisces in common!
The non-judgemental part sounds more like Pisces.
yeah, i thought about the square.. at the same time, i think about my neptune falling there and i've been neptune for lots of things people have in cap and it's not that i've snapped and told em to go to he|| right away, --as my mars would have me do- but i've actually endured it and yes, definitely that square is there and eventually just don't give a 'f'... i find it very hard to even care at all when almost every other thing out of them is pessimistic.. talk about 'debbie downers'. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 05, 2011 01:35 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Oh ya! I was reading about that on the other thread (that you cooked for him etc).. Did you end up forgiving him?
He apologized well I briefly explained to him why I was upset he said he thought I wouldn't ever cook for him and just assumed I would buy him something instead he felt bad that I cooked for him. I was already over it like I wasn't P/O to the point of never forgiving him (even if I did say that, i didn't mean it, thats just ridiculous not to forgive someone over something little like that) He understands now, I opened up a bit, as did he so now we both understand where we are both coming from. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted November 05, 2011 01:57 AM
Yes, I was born when the Moon was in Capricorn, and yes, I am the calm one in a crisis situation. It has to do with control, knowing that it is a moment in which rational control of emotions is an asset. The boundaries go up as others panic and we focus our faculties on problem solving. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 05, 2011 02:17 AM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Yes, I was born when the Moon was in Capricorn, and yes, I am the calm one in a crisis situation. It has to do with control, knowing that it is a moment in which rational control of emotions is an asset. The boundaries go up as others panic and we focus our faculties on problem solving.
Its great! I really admire this about you guys. A lot. Its my most favorite trait about cap moons. very misunderstood.. but i totally understand you guys... you guys have a spine of steel! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 05, 2011 02:20 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Thanks amelia!! But we also have Pisces in common!
The non-judgemental part sounds more like Pisces.
OH wow.....that is were that sweetness I sense from you is coming from!  ... IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 02:43 AM
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
it's not a 'fan bandwagon' which to anyone with anything in capricorn would call it so if they're familiar with astrology. it's the feeling of no one ever feeling that they can relate or just be one on one with [cap] because it's always something.
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"there can be no dancing in the house.. it's not allowed!" "let's go and pick fruit off of trees! "let's not.. some stupid girl from across the street cheated on her state exam and had sex with the college director and now she's getting into a better school and there's no way she's anywhere near as smart as me and i can't believe it.. stupid fruit! it's so stupid!" that's what it's about. if it was about a fan bandwagon, leo has already quite a few and i'm sure more than enough. leo is a personal sign.. it deals with personal relationships and one-on-one. mr mountain goat over there, is the one that looks at most everyone as they should be a 'fan' especially those they see in positions of being 'subordinate' to the point where their nose isn't only so high in the air but brown on the brink of turning black to the point that they can't be bothered.. unless there is someone that is better than them that they look up to that wants them to do something and they'll be ever so glad to follow along like a little pup to see if they get a star.. eh, incredi-- err, uh, cappyboy?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDzF5aU8LnI
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if one wants to just 'hang' the protocol to 'hang' with them can be a little annoying.[/B]
It's the Leo Moon.
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Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 02:45 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
The non-judgemental part sounds more like Pisces.
Yea I was thinking the same thing. Betty has Pisces Merc, me with Pisces Sun.
Cap otoh, esp the Suns, I've seen as being more prone to judgment. Esp the men with the Suns. My experience.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 02:47 AM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
what is your moon sigh btw
Exactly. In Leo, an incompatible sign.
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