posted November 04, 2011 04:46 PM            

I posted this in soul unions but realised I am also interested in leo/saggie relationships and dealing with more watery leos...

So lately I have been having "feelings" for my close guy friend, it developed over the summer where we supported each other through our break ups but it was only recently that I began to feel differently and had a dream where he and I were a couple so it woke me to maybe something i was denying. We have been spending time together and are close but today I realised he has gone away to see his ex girlfriend, he deliberatly avoided telling me and just dissappeared! We are friends so it's not a big deal but as an open saggie I found it strange, having spoken to him the night he didn't say a word. Please don't get me wrong, he doesn't owe me anything at all.

I have tried to upload the charts...but didn't work! Can someone remind me how to do it please?

The main signs:

Me

Sun Saggie
Moon Leo
Venus/Mars Libra
Asc Capricorn

26/11/1983 )9:49 am Melbourne, Australia

Him

Sun Leo 22°47'13 in house 9 direct
Moon Pisces 12°34'50 in house 4 direct
Mercury Leo 6°00'18 in house 9 direct
Venus Virgo 26°06'25 in house 10 direct
Mars Taurus

15 August 1973 Mexico City

What do you think? Have I imagined it all? Am sorry I could not upload pics correctly

Sparkling

posted November 04, 2011 08:10 PM            

HOW TO GET YOUR CHART
1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.
2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”
3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).
4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.
5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.
HOW TO UPLOAD YOUR CHART
1. Create a free account at www.photobucket.com .
2. Select “Upload Now” which will bring up “Select Photos and Videos.”
3. Navigate to your desktop and select.
4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”
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7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.
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I guess you can call me a watery Leo..
Also remember pisces is very private...

I dont think I would have told you either...
If Im going out of town or what ever, I may only tell one person.. for just in case...
With everyone else, Im home chillin... Not doing much..

Why??? IDK I dont like explaining my self, or people asking why this or that...

posted November 04, 2011 08:29 PM            

Give him space, on the surface you guys are definitely compatible, both being fire signs but underneath there are definitely some differences. With Venus and Mars in Libra relationships are important to you, but you view them from an intellectual standpoint. He has Venus in Virgo and Mars in Taurus, that's some major earthiness. He's looking for stability and reliability when it comes to relationships. He might even be a bit possessive with Mars in Taurus which maybe be too suffocating for someone who has Venus and Mars in Libra. Then again you guys know each other and you're friends already, it might make any incompatible aspects easier to manage. You've got innate sensitivity for each other because you're already close friends.

Immediate advice: give him space, let him discover what he needs to discover at his own pace. Venus in Virgo's take relationships very seriously as do Venus in Libra's but you view them differently. I don't think you've imagined your connection, but I do think the whole situation is a bit complicated.

posted November 05, 2011 04:49 AM            

Thanks for this, Lioness - you are totally correct, he told only one friend where he was going. I only worked it out cause I connected the dots. I am working today (on a weekend, so will upload charts later).

NativelyJoan- yes I was having the same thoughts as you...confused about any feelings I was having because superficially, it is a good friendship, we adore dancing, chatting about philosophical/relationship issues but indeed underneath we are different. Yet, there is an intuitive connection between us, I often have "feeling" about something to do with him and am often correct.

Well I will continue on my way and not think about it too much! (Libra mars and venus, I find it so hard sometimes because intellectually I think something but then my leo moon demands some attention on an emotional level. I only have my cap asc grounding me.)

Wishing you a good day

posted November 06, 2011 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Dear both

Thanks for this, Lioness - you are totally correct, he told only one friend where he was going. I only worked it out cause I connected the dots. I am working today (on a weekend, so will upload charts later).
Sparkling

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LOL... Yeah thats what I thought...
I was alot worse when I was younger.. I never told anyone,where I was...
I once drove to Florida (I live in Calif) on a whelm, I didnt tell anyone...
Missing persons reports...mom freaking out.. etc etc...
NOW!! I tell at least one person...

IDk its nothing personal not to tell someone, I just dont like too many people know what I am doing...
Maybe because my H12 ruler is in my 7th.. Shrug..

posted November 07, 2011 11:29 AM            

and here is Leo

what do you think?

posted November 07, 2011 06:37 PM            

I am Sun and Moon in Pisces, Ascendant, Mars, and Jupiter in Saggitarius. Venus in Aries

I have a very close friend as well.. he is Sun in Sag, Ascendant in Pisces, and Moon in Cancer. Venus in Aquarius

HE is still not over an ex girlfriend. Talks about a lot.

But is also unbelievably intimate with me. We spend a lot of time together.... share a lot. And I feel I am in love with him. I have dreams about him almost everynight.

But on the surface I pretend to be his "friend" or "sister" as he makes a point to label it this way...especially when it gets to intimate or nice....

I feel for you..

I really do.

And here I am a pisces, complaining about a Sag and I am supposed to be the vague one.... Ofcourse who knows what I am portraying, I am sharing none of this with him it s in my private world..

If anything, I do make a point of keeping other guys in the picture, to justify to myself hanging out wiht him all the time, and all these feelings that i cannot handle...

But u know what, we have a golden opportunity.. to discover another person without the pressure of "knowing you re together"..... Your leo moon can get the emotional attn. she wants and even demand it (if it feels right) all undercover...

You have a man in ur life who s company u greatly enjoy... Why do we feel unentitled to feel the way we feel, if we re not sure of the other person's feelings?

Why can t we just enjoy the feeling... it s so beautiful and so real, and it s your reality. ...

Enjoy it for as long as it is enjoyable.

This is what I plan to do. It s hard. It makes me feel vulnerable all the time, being with a man who s presence, i am so aware of...but, it s part of the learning i guess

posted November 08, 2011 04:30 AM            

What a tangled web love and friendship is...I think a man is usually clear when he is interested in someone, part of me feels "rejected" in some way by my leo friend. He is done nothing wrong at all and I do understand this...but emotioanally maybe I don't!

I was dreaming also of my ex boyfriend and it seems I crave him when I am dissapointed in another way. This is not healthy, I also know.

What to do?

posted November 08, 2011 04:41 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Hello,

What a tangled web love and friendship is...I think a man is usually clear when he is interested in someone, part of me feels "rejected" in some way by my leo friend. He is done nothing wrong at all and I do understand this...but emotioanally maybe I don't!

I was dreaming also of my ex boyfriend and it seems I crave him when I am dissapointed in another way. This is not healthy, I also know.

What to do?

Sparkling

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posted November 09, 2011 02:30 PM            

Mr Leo spoke to me yestrday and we had the most confusing conversation ever where he was telling me where he had gone away but not really telling me. I told him to contact me when he is back.

Honestly, want to run to my ex cause it is safe and what I know,...not because it will be good for me. My colleague at work lay into me today cause he was upset with something but he got personal and mean....so feel crap.