posted November 05, 2011 05:51 PM            

Aries rising
Libra moon + venus

I once had a first date where it ended with us driving up to see the city lights after everything and ending up getting locked inside lol cos we were talking too much (gate closed at 10:30). We had to call the security people and since no one picked up the phone, we had to stay put and just sat on the top hill with the backdrop of the city and stars and chatted for hours ,then played random games and chatted some more in the car lol. Didn't get physical or anything, though you could sense the tension.

posted November 05, 2011 10:24 PM            

Well an intimate dinner on the porch if it were warm outside, with food ordered in and some Shoegaze music playing on the music player. After dinner, listening to music and talking then possibly taking a walk outside finding a spot to sit, maybe a bench and just talking some more. Then heading back to my home or his and sharing some herbal tea. We'd end with a nice good bye.

I like to get prospective significant others alone first. No public dates, I like to get to know them on a deeply personal level before we got out and about. You didn't ask but I have Mercury in Libra in the 8th and I like to have deep conversations during dates.

posted November 05, 2011 10:56 PM            

I like out of the box dates as well. I hate the job interview dinners and movies where you can’t talk. Coffee and drinks are a no-no as well since I don’t drink coffee and I have a drink once or twice a year (New Year’s Eve and someone’s wedding, if I am invited).

The best date I've ever gone on was at an amusement park. We had so much fun and it was surprisingly romantic. We held hands on the rides and fed eat other fair-type food (ice cream cones, cotton candy)…I felt 15 again at age 31 and he was 36! We also made out in his car afterwards, very high school!

I don’t think I could re-create that with anyone else, nor would I want to, but I can see something in that vein. Something active and fun – maybe bowling and some cheap eats. The beach and a walk on the boardwalk. An arcade with a climbing wall and batting cage and some fast food. Bookstore hopping and then an off the wall restaurant, no job interview talk though! I have played pool with a few of my dates and that has been fun…I like to get competitive right away I guess!

Okay, let me think, perfect, perfect…alright…

On a sunny Saturday afternoon my date picks me up and we head to an odd drink shop – bubble tea or healthy organic juices, something like that. The we take our drinks while we walk to the awesome bowling alley, the one that is a bowling alley-slash-“five star restaurant”. We play and I let him win (I’m no fool!), we eat, we play another game and make a friendly wager (something to do with kissing I’m sure), he wins again (so I have to kiss him) and then we go to a dessert place and spilt something chocolate and decadent while we talk about random stuff and how cute we are to each other.

Then, he walks me home, we kiss again and “goodnight”. He texts me right after to say how much fun he had and I say the same.

He calls the next day to arrange the next date (that we tentatively discussed the night before)…

Yay!

Moon in Libra, Venus in Leo, Aquarius Rising (…Mars is in my 5th!)

posted November 07, 2011 06:46 PM            

It s somewhere faraway in the meadows with the lake...and it s late night...... maybe some mountains too...

We're not together.... the attraction is unspoken but it s there.... We're walking, hiking with a group of people, but because we re so lost in each other, and each other's conversation...we lose the rest of the group..... and decide to keep walking by the lake/river anyway

There is no one..... and the nature is beautiful....

Everything is in harmony to us...... we're flirting indirectly...very witty comments, thrown back and forth, almost finish each other's sentences.... there s little but v intense physical contact...like him helping me with my step... or sthg

but that little physical contact feels like sthg is going to explode...

Eventually we sit down, talk about sthg deep, emotional or personal....

and on the way back, at an unexpected moment, we kiss, and it s super passionate. We go back and pretend it didnt happen and dont talk about it but have this huge tension/electricity..sthg in the air between us.......and are so aware of each others presence yet avoiding each other.....until we finally have some alone time again by chance....

I d like him to maintain that for a while, but to still subtly make it very clear he is interested in me.. All this is a build up, btu a grand gesture from the man is eventually required

Ascendant saggitarius,

Moon Pisces

posted November 07, 2011 09:41 PM            

Concerts!<3

Water Parks are so fun...but it might be kinda wired being half naked in front of someone I am trying to get to know.

Meeting his friends can be fun.

If I didn't know the guy well I would be creeped out if he said he wanted to hang out with me in nature...or somewhere really secluded. Unless he was one of those guys that genuinely loved to be in nature.

I've been on Sushi dates before.

Also I must say...the right person could make any place amazing...even coney island. LMAO...and a not right person could make you feel miserable even if your somewhere really amazing like a concert.
Trust me I know.

Gemini Rising
Scorpio Moon 6
Venus Pisces 10

posted November 07, 2011 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
If I didn't know the guy well I would be creeped out if he said he wanted to hang out with me in nature...or somewhere really secluded. Unless he was one of those guys that genuinely loved to be in nature.

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posted November 08, 2011 12:09 AM            

I knew a lot of men who I would just hang out with on a platonic level and refused to go a step further. Going out jamming, karaoke or take in some comedy show. The guys would get me seeing red in rage when they would call it a date but to me it was just a time out because I had no romantic feelings.

A long long time ago, it could have been dinner and a movie.

Currently a perfect date night for me would to leave the hubby and kids at home and take myself on my own date night and do what I want to do to unwind and have fun.

Cynn

posted November 08, 2011 03:10 AM            

I want to be laughing and goofing around 1/3 of the time, swooning over our intellectual and physical connection 1/3 of the time, and 1/3 having some kind of adventure or learning something together, something exciting. bonus points if nature of some kind is included, but wandering around in the city can be fun as well.

posted November 08, 2011 03:14 AM            

Moon Sag
Asc Gemini
Venus Pisces

Anywhere outdoors, by the beach-perhaps a lighthouse? or a concert in the park.

posted November 08, 2011 11:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Cynnared:
Robert Palmer's song I didn't mean to turn you on would be a great theme song for me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YO0WyOGHjU

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