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Topic: Has anyone else had this awful experience?
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Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 08:36 PM
  
Hoping somebody can put my mind at ease please. In the past I have had just one 'psychic dream', I dreamt my grandfather came to say good bye to me and the next morning I learnt of his death. I have a friend who dreamt of meeting my daughter before he even knew she existed, and last night I had an awful one that's left me sick to my stomach, so sick I can't even verbalise it on here, but it involved my precious little 4 year old girl. I saw everything, felt everything and when I woke up I burst into tears. She is with her Dad this weekend and at 4am I sent him a text message that read "please be careful with Rikki around water tomorrow, I just had an awful dream". It's now 9am and I just sent another that read "I know it sounds odd but please don't take her to the beach today". He didn't respond, nor will he.In my dream it was me that was with her, not him, but it's summer here in Australia and he always takes her to the beach, and he isn't the most attentive person, or responsible. Is it true that psychic dreams only occur at the exact moment the events are happening? Or can you get warnings like this? I'm crying as I write this, I feel so awful. What else could such a sickening dream mean?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 09:05 PM
Yea you can get warnings, like you mentioned already, I guess it's just wait and see. More often than not dreams aren't predictive of the future so you have that working in your favor (!)
You didn't specify all elements in the dream & what happened tho it seems to involve your daughter's death related to water. Have to post details if you want analysis.
But it could just be simple anxiety about her being with her father and you not being there to watch over her, among others.IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 09:09 PM
Ok. I was holding her hand in the surf and it was coming up to her waist, then a bigger wave unexpectedly came and I lost her, she tumbled around in the surf like she was in a washing machine and I was trying to locate her, I felt around in the water and her little hand squeezed mine. I pulled her out and she was unconscious. I carried her up to the surf club and they told me it was too late. Then I remember a drawing and a goodbye letter from her with photos stuck on of her and I together, I was holding it in my hands and the wind took up and whisked it out of my grip, then it landed on a road and a car ran over it, ruining it. I was devastated, that's when I woke up.IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 10:19 PM
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NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 05, 2011 10:24 PM
considering your record, i would not ignore this, but it is also entirely possible that its anxietysorry i dont have much else to add ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 06, 2011 01:01 AM
I'm no dream expert but when I have a weird one I do this, locate symbols on dreammoods.com and piece it together, so you have ~Daughter: To see your daughter in your dream represents your waking relationship with your daughter and the qualities that she projects. Hand: To dream that you are holding hands with someone represent love, affection and your connection with that person. Your dream may also reflect anxieties about losing touch with him/her or that you are drifting apart. Ocean: To see an ocean in your dream represents the state of your emotions and feelings. It is indicative of spiritual refreshment, tranquility and renewal. Alternatively, the dream means that you are feeling empowered and unhindered. You have a positive outlook in life and are not limited by anything. If you are sailing across the ocean, then it signifies new found freedom and independence. You are showing great courage. If the ocean is rough, then the dream represents some emotional turmoil. You are doing your best to handle life's ups and downs. Waist: To notice your waist in your dream suggests that you are concerned about your diet or weight. The dream may also be a pun on "wasting" time, money, or some aspect of your life. Unconscious: To dream that you are unconscious indicates your helplessness and inability to function in some given situation. You are not prepared for the major changes that are happening around you. Alternatively, being unconscious suggests that you are oblivious to your surroundings or ignorant of some situation. The dream may be a pun on your unconscious mind and its suppressed content. Drowning: To see someone drowning in your dream suggests that you are becoming too deeply involved in something that is beyond your control. Alternatively, it represents a sense of loss in your own identity. You are unable to differentiate who you are anymore. Death: To dream about the death of a loved one suggests that you are lacking a certain aspect or quality that the loved one embodies. Ask yourself what makes this person special or what you like about them. It is that very quality that you are lacking in your own relationship or circumstances. Drawing: To dream that you are drawing represents an expression of your latent artistic abilities. You need to show more of your creativity in your waking life. Alternatively, the dream may be a pun on a "draw" to mean a tie or some undecided decision or argument. "It's a draw." Goodbye: To dream that someone is saying goodbye to you suggests that you are going on a journey of self-discovery. You are entering a new phase in your life. Letter: To dream that you receive a letter signifies a new opportunity or challenge. Alternatively, the letter represents a message from your unconscious. The contents of the letter may offer you some guidance in a current situation. Consider also how the letter may be a pun on "let her". Photograph: To see a photograph in your dream indicates that there is a relationship that needs your attention.You are not looking deep enough into the problem. Alternatively, the dream means that you are clinging on to the past or to some false hope. Consider who or what is on the photo. The image may be trying to take you back to a particular moment in time. Wind: To dream that the wind is blowing symbolizes your life force, energy, and vigor. It reflects changes in your life. Alternatively, the dream suggests that you need to pick up your pace and work on achieving your goals more quickly and efficiently. To dream of strong or gusty winds represent turmoil and trouble in your life. You are experiencing much stress in some waking situation. Road: To see a road in your dream refers to your sense of direction and how you are pursuing your goals. Cars, I know this one, it stands for how you navigate the course of your life, the person in the driver's seat is the one in control so ideally it'd be you driving in all your dreams. Lots of symbols here. if I were to throw something out there, I'd say that your relationship with your daughter is infringing upon other areas of your life, the water represents being overwhelmed by emotion, by situations that you can't control. The photo, drawing, goodbye letter, road, car, those all point to aspects of yourself that are not seeing light of day, you've forgotten some key piece of yourself in the process and this has left you like you said devastated. The car running over the letter/photo/drawing represent again, like the ocean waves breaking, a lack of control over your destiny. If you've just started some creative venture then it could symbolize feeling disloyal to your family. But really just read through the symbols and see what resonates, it's best for the person who had the dream to interpret their own since they know their own life/feelings the best. IP: Logged |
Wild Places
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Bend, OR, USA
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 01:27 AM
What an awful nightmare! I have a daughter close in age -- and she is with her father on weekends as well...I sometimes struggle with trusting his attentiveness and releasing my own need for control. Not saying that this is your issue at all -- I'm just wanting you to know that I empathize with your reality -- and the horrifying dream you've experienced.I've had dreams like this, the kind where it's so vivid, so real -- the loss so tangible, you wake up in tears -- actually crying out. Nothing has ever come of those dreams. I do feel that they have meaning - beyond anxiety - perhaps it is a past life recollection; but not a premonition. I am a medium, and regarding the dream you've had with your Grandfather, I have heard from many clients that this is their only experience in dreamlife that gives them any kind of "faith" in afterlife. Despite being a medium, I don't have a verdict yet on how I am able to channel -- or an opinion on what happens after we die... I do believe though from my own experiences that our energy is expansive and infinite -- and time is a creation of man. Death is a boundary of the body. That you received a message from your Grandfather when he passed, is a gift to you. It doesn't mean that your nightmare about your sweet girl is premonition. Motherhood is the most difficult kind of love one can experience -- at once we are the nurturers, providers, pillars of strength -- and, incredibly vulnerable to this immense love for this person whom we've known before we actually conceived of them, before they were even conceived, and before we ever took a glance upon their faces. All will be fine -- she has a long life ahead of her. Expansively,
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Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 01:54 AM
Lonake and Wild Places, I really appreciate you taking the time to help me with this and you have put my mind at ease. All morning it felt as though it really did happen and that I was grieving. How do people lose a child for real? I can barely comprehend it.
Lonkae you touched on a few things that I now think make more sense than my original thought of it being a warning. In recent weeks I have been very angry with her Dad. He is a real womaniser and has been too busy trying to find himself a girlfriend through her lately, than focusing on her, for example asking her pre school teacher and little friends single mums on dates. I do feel anxious when she is with him as I don't know where his attention is. The last time I saw her, which was Thursday, the two of us attented an Introduction day at 'big school' to prepare her for next year, I became very emotional because she is growing up...."let her". I did have a look at drowning in an interpretation today, and it did suggest a need to come up for air in a spiritual sense and not get too buried in spirituality, something I feel I'm guilty of of late. Maybe I need a little grounding. The wind, well I have no control over her spending time with her father, or starting 'big school'. It has to happen.
Wild Places, thankyou for clarifying. The scariest part of this was that I woke up and remembered Iv'e had this kind of dream before, when it related to my Grandfather and THAT was real! I was just so scared.
Tomorrow I will collect her from pre school and she is in for a little bit of smothering and hugs and kisses I tell you.
If it's of any interest she is my little fish, (Pisces) and I have Pisces rising.IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: on earth
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 01:59 AM
pray to God to keep the both safeIP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 01:59 AM
pray to God to keep the both safeIP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 5754
From: U.S.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2011 02:11 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
All morning it felt as though it really did happen and that I was grieving.
If it's any consolation, when my baby was younger I had repeated nightmares of her being kidnapped, all different sorts of scenarios. One v.vivid one we were on vacay in Mexico and all these strangers kept throwing her up in the air and passing her on to another, farther and farther out of my reach, ran all over the city, woke up breathless. I even told the daycare worker about it the next day, she stared jaw dropped, I had to remind her that it was just a dream, but it felt SO REAL that I made sure to tell them 'just no matter what, wait until i get here to pick her up, don't let her leave with anyone else today.'
Forgot what conclusion I came to with mine, but they stopped!  IP: Logged |
Wild Places
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Bend, OR, USA
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 04:21 AM
I'm so glad you feel a bit better! How beautiful, that you, a sensitive and spiritual Pisces have the experience of (I'm sure), having such a sensitive daughter. Getting grounded will be so beneficial for you - I just guided my dear Piscean friend who's been picking up a lot lately, through a simple grounding exercise. As you learn, you will be better able to channel your abilities to your desired use -- and, you will be able to guide your daughter!Expansively,
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 1519
From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2011 07:04 AM
your daughter is absolutely adorable!  i don't discount your intuitive abilities, but parents do have nightmares about their children (though i don't have a kid but i heard from friends who do). i'll be sending thoughts of safety and hope you'll feel at ease very soon.  IP: Logged | |
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