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posted November 06, 2011 02:16 AM            

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What have your experiences been like with the twelfth house and it in synastry? Recall anyone with their placements in your twelfth? vice versa? What were the situations, how did they play out, were there transits involved and last but not least, where do you and that other person stand as far as any relationship is concerned?

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posted November 06, 2011 02:42 AM            

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Hmm, my boyfriend has 12th house Leo Moon. I'm really bad at "feeling" out how different planets manifest in the houses.

I've had a few early Libra/late Virgo friends with Sun in my 12th house. I've often found that they're good friends to share problems with. I can't say they really helped me rise above any problems... but I've always felt comfortable sharing with them.

I don't know many Cancer/Leo Rising... my placements would be mostly in their 12th house. I knew one Sag with Cancer Rising and we always had this weird secret attraction to each other. He was always very afraid to act upon his feelings for me... I think I'm his only Cancer friend, actually.

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posted November 06, 2011 02:47 AM            

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i think i started a thread about this but it's somewhere else.. there's 0 luck in using the search thing on ll.

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posted November 06, 2011 04:01 AM            

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i looked through about 20 pg's and found nothing so maybe i haven't started a thread on it, already... :/

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posted November 06, 2011 10:48 PM            

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My 12th house ruler (Uranus) is in my 7th... So IDK.. I have a lot of H12 experiences.

Its been a litle of everything
Secret romances,
Lies
Forbidden love..

But the part that seems to have the most effect is the self undoing...
IDK its a learning experience.
I think when someone activates your 12th, they are meant to change your inner self..
All of a sudden you see things about yourself that you never knew..
But its a very SLOW process, and at first you deny, fight and challenge it, but in the long run you just see your self through a different light.

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posted November 06, 2011 11:44 PM            

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Hmm...I dunno, man. There's nothing really going with people's planets in my Twelfth. There IS my best friend with her Libra sun in my Twelfth, but I dunno. We're really close. Is that' Twelfth house-y?

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posted November 07, 2011 02:14 AM            

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scorpy!

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posted November 07, 2011 02:18 AM            

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there's one libra rising that i fall in her twelfth.. she was not the best influence at all while growing up and even though i learned lots of things through that whole thing, i recently decided ('recently' meaning 'about a yr ago') that i would draw the line and if they dared even cross it (the wont) i'd have every excuse to kick their living as$.. because of how much i now do not like them, i am soooooo skeptical in having anyone's anything even near my twelfth.. i don't know if maybe different people have different experiences, but since the ruler of my twelfth is in my twelfth, it plays out differently.. i don't know where said relatives ruler is but i just want nothing to do with them.

i wonder if when one person activates the others' twelfth, if their own twelfth is in turn activated as well.......

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posted November 07, 2011 04:26 AM            

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Someone had their Venus in my 12th.
We were both in love with each other, but they denied their feelings when I wanted to make things clearer between us.
Weirdly, I felt a very familiar vibe around them, and they could get information from me without even asking. While in turn, they kept all their secrets to themselves.

I think unless the people involved are mature enough to handle the complexity of the 12th house, things can get pretty ugly. Lots of secrets, untold truths, and confusion as well as suspicion.
On the other side, the connection feels otherworldy, gives a sense of "fate" and belonging, and makes people want to "merge" into one another. I guess that's what the self-undoing is all about, losing yourself in the other person.. Maybe that's why people are so scared of the 12th house and its vibe, it feels like your ego is dissolved, and thus the other person can take advantage of you.

All I can say is that 12th house connections are deep. Very, very deep.

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posted November 07, 2011 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
...i don't know if maybe different people have different experiences...

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Probably, because she's really the only Twelfth house person I can think of. My sun is in her Sixth, if that holds any interest (opposite houses).

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posted November 07, 2011 08:54 PM            

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I've had a lot of experience with peoples stuff falling imho my 12th house. I responded to another thread on it recently.

Doux reve summed it up perfectly in her last two paragraphs.

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