posted November 06, 2011 03:06 AM            

Its either we want someone to notice us, want someone to give us something without having to ask for it or even when we are trying to seduce someone.

We all know that "mode"; the changing of the voice, the altering of the way we walk and even the way we look into the object of our desire.

So, yes,not all of us-in that mode- would don a skimpy outfit, take off our shirts provocatively or light scented candles and lay rose petals on the bed.(or maybe we do?)

So, I am asking how you get into that mode. And what energy do you think that you are channelling when you are eoking the inner "sphinx" or" tiger" in you.

For me, my Mars in Libra conjuct Eros simply takes over.

When Mars is in Libra, extra care is taken to please the partner. These people can be provocative in a quiet way. Their need for balance and perfection in their relationships may manifest itself at all the wrong moments. In bed, these lovers want things to be balanced. They love working on getting things right, and are especially turned on by role-playing sex games. They have a strong need for change and growth in their sexual expression. They are givers in bed, but they fully expect you to give equally in return. Although they can be pushed around for a time, their lovers must be aware that the best way to keep Libra lovers happy is to keep everything fair. These lovers can be a little picky when it comes to mood and atmosphere while making love (Virgo is all too often assigned this trait, but our experience suggests that Libra is the pickiest of lovers). Make them happy, however, and you have a lover who is going to think about you and your needs. These lovers can charm the birds out of the trees when they want to.

Eros in Libra. ( in )This is a rather flirtatious and charming position of Eros. Libra's tendency toward a "*** for tat" attitude shows up as a desire for equality on a sexual level, but in practice, Eros in Libra lovers often forget their own sexual needs because they are focusing on those of their partner. Communication is sexy to these lovers. These people can be hopelessly addicted to all of the "trappings" of falling in love, so much so that when a relationship settles, it may seem boring. Highly romantic and charming, Eros in Libra people enjoy the social "game" surrounding making connections with lovers, and they can be quite seductive.

When I want to get someones attention, I clean up real well and smile on cue. I make eye contact, offer to do favours for the person I am tring to impress and lightly touch them/exchange affectionate gazes with them.

When I want "it", I am the classic "straight from tv" seducer. I light candles, play soft music, role play the character I know my significant other is sexually drawn to(fireman, policeman, plumber, stripper etc.) and get very affectionate.

posted November 06, 2011 09:03 AM            

I don’t try to get attention either, I am pretty natural about the whole thing. If it happens it happens. I read in Sextrology that most Leo women don’t stand on ceremony when it comes to seduction and I agree with that. Forget the wine and candles and let nature take its course!

posted November 06, 2011 12:07 PM            

I wouldn't say I'm seductive, or do anything dramatic to entice potential suitors but I just hang in the background. I think seduction is where my 8th house energy kicks in. I try to lure people in, and once they get close enough my Venusian energy comes out so they assume they're safe.

posted November 06, 2011 12:10 PM            

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posted November 06, 2011 12:13 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
it's exactly what i want.
give it to me
give it to me NOW!!!!!///

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..ahem!

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LOL!

posted November 06, 2011 12:19 PM            

i respect and adore that black moon with almost all of everything that i have in me!

when it comes to seducing, i attract.

my placements give me LOTS of luck in doing so without needing to do much.. just have to mentally 'go there'.. it's in the bag.

when my mars flares up though, WOW!!!!!!!!

you'd think i had a mars in leo or something as i pull no stops! i turn into the typical don juan but not even.. i can come up with the best, cheesiest lines in the entire world and drop em without a care knowing that we'd both know where we stand so i might as well make it obvious where i'm going with it and i get a kick out of feeding their ego in that way as if i'm coming on to them, i'd be damn proud have em on my arm and that's it! i've made up my mind.. so with a line, a wink and a 'come on sweetheart, let's stop kidding ourselves here.. u want it, i want it, why don't we go grab ourselves some dinner, huh? i'll let u order whatever you want and what's best, someone else will do the cleaning.. i'll have more than enough time to look at and admire u with all of that free time and what could be better than that? grant me the night of a lifetime; we don't even have to do anything but just let me hold you.. and look at u.. and that smile.. '