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Topic: Can someone explain why Moon in Aquarius have a shard of ice in their hearts?
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 206 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 09:14 AM
I was kidding about my title by the way, but seriously how come they come across as VERY COLD and unfeeling as if they just do not care for/about you?My best friend as much as I love and enjoy his company and his thoughts,we have great rapport most of the time, I believe he IS my soulmate not romantically... friendship wise.. we just understand each other perfectly, I don't have to hide from him, expressing myself comes very natural around him, we have great energy. HOW EVER, at first i couldn't let go of the fact of how COLD he can be. Emotionally. Any time we talk about everything else he's there alive and well as soon as something emotional comes up whether id' be talking about it or whatever he just becomes like dead fish or something. He rarely talks about how he feels.. he attempts at it though. And when he does its an idea. Everything is relative to mental faculties never from the heart. And when he told me how he broke up with his boyfriend I thought to myself, "WOW and people say Im a frigid b*tch? You're an a*s*s" I actually told him this RIGHT AFTER he gave me his birth details everything made perfect sense. He was amazingly cold to his boyfriend, his boyfriend was pouring out his heart and soul and he just damn, he its like he wasn't even human. And he does this thing where he withholds information from me specifically about his feelings good feelings of course. He just isn't comfortable with it at all but he tries, but it comes out rarely. Im a lot more 'emotional' than he is. I've expressed to him we got into a fight where our friendship ended for the summer because I truly felt he did not care about me. He was being very cold towards me, ignoring me just being a terrible friend (I am always there for him always always and sometimes he would just not speak to me for no reason for weeks) and i would have little emotional outbursts pouring my heart out with him and he would ignore me! So I accused him of being a frosty little man with a massive iceberg in his heart and that he lacks empathy and what a terrible friend he was. I said a lot more mean things I won't say on there.. (when we made up, his way of initiating out friendship was for me to look at his birth chart he knows i like astrology) but when we made up, he admitted that everything I said to him really hurt his feelings i thought "Didn't seem like it, seems like you couldn't care less" and he said "well I do care, and you made me angry when you said I lacked empathy, im a very empathetic person." (sometimes i still dont believe it cause he is just not demonstrative about it at all) Here is his chart: Sun - Libra House 3 Moon - Aquarius House 7 Mercury - Libra House 3 Venus - Virgo House 2 Mars - Libra House 4 Jupiter - Libra House 3 Saturn - Aquarius House 7 Uranus - Cap - House 6 Neptune - Cap House 6 Pluto - Scorpio - House 4 Chiron - Virgo House 2 Ceres - Taurus - House 10 Pallas - Aquarius - House 7 Juno - Virgo - House 3 Vesta - Pisces Node - Sag Fortune - Aries ASC - Leo MC - Aries IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 849 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2011 10:09 AM
My 19 yr old daughter is an Aqua sun/moon conj in the 8th. She tells me Aqua moon is not so much emotionally cold, but that they dont know how to express emotion, would rather not so them come off as cold. She is quite the natural astrologer and offers intuitve insights. She has a Cancer asc and feels deeply, but just can not express her feelings most of the time. Most Aqua moons I have known, probably all come off as emotionally cold..to the point of icy. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 740 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 06, 2011 10:09 AM
Is his Moon conjunct Saturn? That could explain the coldness better than just simply having an Aqua Moon. My Mom has an Aqua Moon and I wouldn't describe her as cold at all (she complains about me being not affectionate enough and I have an Aqua Sun/Libra Moon so the opposite of your friend... Although I'm not cold).IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 206 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 10:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: Is his Moon conjunct Saturn? That could explain the coldness better than just simply having an Aqua Moon. My Mom has an Aqua Moon and I wouldn't describe her as cold at all (she complains about me being not affectionate enough and I have an Aqua Sun/Libra Moon so the opposite of your friend... Although I'm not cold).
Yes he does actually!!He also has Saturn house 7 I would imagine that would make it very difficult for him in relation to partnerships....
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starmoon Newflake Posts: 15 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 11:16 AM
my bf has tons signs in aquarius (venus, sun, mercury) and it's hard for me too - to see the emotional coldness come right over his face and body. i mean, he's 46, and i would expect emotional growth, but with no kids and no marriage behind him you can see he's a typical cold aqua. but, ladies, keep in mind, emotional distance is common in MEN, regardless of sign placements; they don't want us to gush about feelings and would rather keep it light. i have learned to accept his love in other ways and just not bother him to verbally express it. i ASK for things instead, lots and lots of things (like for him to cook me stuff, for him to fix things, for him to get up early and take care of chores) and he does all of this willingly every time, because that is how aquarian men can express their love, by actions not words. now if he doesn't even want to do the actions for you... he isn't in loveIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 1289 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 06, 2011 01:00 PM
Havent experienced that emotional coldness ur talking about. I have leo mion and to me they seem very social and friendly and usually happy, too. Not cold....IP: Logged | |