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hannarama
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posted November 08, 2011 02:16 PM
  
Pluto makes a lot of contacts in my composite chart with someone. Does this ever signify attraction or is pluto ALWAYS about power struggles? Moon square pluto, and venus square pluto as well as pluto in the 7th house (to name a few). What aspects indicate heavy attraction? I know it's probably been said over and over again, sorry for the redudancy. IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 08, 2011 02:47 PM
It can signify both or just one of those or even something else entirely that Pluto is also known for, like transformation.IP: Logged |
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posted November 08, 2011 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by hannarama:
Pluto makes a lot of contacts in my composite chart with someone. Does this ever signify attraction or is pluto ALWAYS about power struggles? Moon square pluto, and venus square pluto as well as pluto in the 7th house (to name a few). What aspects indicate heavy attraction? I know it's probably been said over and over again, sorry for the redudancy.
I am wondering the same thing. Just started seeing someone with moon square pluto, mars square pluto and venus conjunct pluto in composite. I see power struggles written all over this. The mars/pluto especially scares me. I would love to know some experiences as well... IP: Logged |
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posted November 08, 2011 07:11 PM
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posted November 08, 2011 07:22 PM
I think a lot of Pluto can be good, but you need balancing aspects such as "softer aspects" with Moon, venus and some nice asteroids like Valentine etc, which will give heart and soul love, not just passion, imo.------------------
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tuxedoMask
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posted November 08, 2011 08:10 PM
i've had some encounters with pluto.. none of which have lasted and carried along with me to where i am now.some have had pluto opposing my mars but that means their pluto then became part of a grand cross and i like to think that if they had any kind of underhanded scheme's planned to execute, i had a nice surprise for them which meant 4 squares all over dat a$$!!! anyway, don't know but the mars and pluto folk have only been encountered during a dark phase in life. they were influential in finding some things out while i was in that phase and then i was either removed from that interaction or removed myself because i saw just how not-so-good it could be. something about them made me somewhat nervous.. there was annoyance in both cases and i only had one or two arguments with each before i broke it off completely. i have been the pluto to someone's venus, twice.. either opposition, or square and once, i believe i was the conjunction... during the opposition, i found myself dealing with them trying to play out the pluto with venus related things. it wasn't good.. eventually, my pluto lashed out and even now, i hold their finances in hand and could quickly destroy all of their future opportunities and the one that they're involved in now. the other time i was the pluto, was with someone that i didn't get to know on a personal level and with that pluto, i'm glad.. they got a glimpse of me and something about me they were drawn to and i saw them immediately change their whole demeanor to try to get my attention.. i found it kind of pathetic.. i was the venus person once and i unknowingly did pretty much the same thing.. while being the venus, i was also the moon.. it FREAKED me out!!!!!!! i was sooooo into that person but only momentarily because their venus was opposed by my uranus. it went nowhere but just being around them freaked me out to where i wanted to go and hide because i felt as if they could see right into my soul!!!!!!!!! it was odd because it was never like that when i was the pluto, i think it might be the venus person or the other planet person that plays out whatever the pluto is about til the pluto catches on and lashed back.. projection. it might have a lot to do with the natal pluto and where it is and in who's chart.. mine is very close to my descendant and as such, i can easily project it onto other people even when their planets fall in my first house.. it's all a game of give and take, i guess.. only to see how the power feels at the hand of someone else before pluto takes it back and lashes out at them letting them know it was just target practice. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 08, 2011 08:33 PM
I think close orb trines and sextiles are better than squares and conjunctions.IP: Logged |
good girl
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posted November 08, 2011 09:04 PM
if you specifically mean within the composite chart then it is more likely about power struggles. I say that because the composite chart is a chart of the relationship itself. I think it's easier to see attraction by chart comparison and if it indicates a pluto type attraction , THEN the composite can be read that way. But since it is the relationship chart then I tend to read it as external pressures and forces  IP: Logged |
good girl
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posted November 08, 2011 09:06 PM
PS as far as heavy attraction: saturn, pluto for sure to venus. Tight conjunctions of ascendant to venus. I think are some of the strongest attractions.IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 08, 2011 09:44 PM
Here's the synastry chart: I didn't see a lot of aspects indicating attraction, by the looks of it it seems more career oriented. There HAS to be some kind of pluto/uranus action though 'cause it's just so... magnetic!  IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 08, 2011 09:47 PM
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i was the venus person once and i unknowingly did pretty much the same thing.. while being the venus, i was also the moon.. it FREAKED me out!!!!!!! i was sooooo into that person but only momentarily because their venus was opposed by my uranus. it went nowhere but just being around them freaked me out to where i wanted to go and hide because i felt as if they could see right into my soul!!!!!!!!! it was odd because it was never like that when i was the pluto, i think it might be the venus person or the other planet person that plays out whatever the pluto is about til the pluto catches on and lashed back.. projection. it might have a lot to do with the natal pluto and where it is and in who's chart.. mine is very close to my descendant and as such, i can easily project it onto other people even when their planets fall in my first house.. it's all a game of give and take, i guess.. only to see how the power feels at the hand of someone else before pluto takes it back and lashes out at them letting them know it was just target practice.
Interesting! And yes I HATE that Uranus aspect. I had the exact same experience with a Capricorn/Leo (although he did have moon conj. neptune. All my friends seem to be empathic. Does that mean I'm an empath or I'm extremely selfish?) and yeah I couldn't be myself around him, it was a hilarious experience to look back on but very, very unsettling during. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted November 09, 2011 01:45 AM
poly,
I had a relationship with venus conj pluto and mars square pluto, he was pluto with both aspects, I think there were pluto aspects in the comp as well. It started out really deep and intense and slowly but surely degraded into something dark and abusive. Be careful about exploitation with pluto aspects also sometimes.
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posted November 09, 2011 04:22 AM
The intense attraction is because of the Sun/Venus conjuncting the NN.------------------
Ask Me anything. Anything. I will contrive to bring you the answer. The whole universe will I use to do this. So be on the lookout. This book is far from My only tool. You may ask a question, then put this book down. But watch. Listen. The words to the next song you hear. The information in the next article you read. The story line of the next movie you watch. The chance utterance of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river, the next ocean, the next breeze that caresses your ear—all these devices are Mine; all these avenues are open to Me. I will speak to you if you will listen. I will come to you if you will invite Me. I will show you then that I have always been there. All ways.
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hannarama
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posted November 09, 2011 09:42 AM
Is there any way to tell who is more attracted, or who holds the power in the relationship?IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 09, 2011 12:44 PM
*Bump* Aries in the house... need answers before I die.  IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 09, 2011 02:09 PM
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Is there any way to tell who is more attracted, or who holds the power in the relationship?
usually, it's the outer planet that calls the shots. IP: Logged |
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