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mintgirl123
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posted November 09, 2011 07:38 AM
  
Affect a person's personality and character so much?For example. A guy's a taurus sun, scorpio moon, aquarius mercury and gemini venus.
You would think having so many fixed signs would outweigh the flighty tendencies of their venus sign? But they will still be unreliable, flirty, liar and a cheat? Why is that?? Does it depend on the venus sign and how much it affects the person, or are all venus signs that crucial in determining the basic character of a person? Even if they had an aries rising (known for their honesty)
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malicefey
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posted November 09, 2011 07:50 AM
That's a really good question. I ask that myself. How much does a guy's venus sign effect his personality?I guess it would be how his venus sign is aspected also in his natal chart?? IP: Logged |
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posted November 09, 2011 08:25 AM
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posted November 09, 2011 09:02 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Affect a person's personality and character so much?For example. A guy's a taurus sun, scorpio moon, aquarius mercury and gemini venus.
You would think having so many fixed signs would outweigh the flighty tendencies of their venus sign? But they will still be unreliable, flirty, liar and a cheat? Why is that?? Does it depend on the venus sign and how much it affects the person, or are all venus signs that crucial in determining the basic character of a person? Even if they had an aries rising (known for their honesty)
Depends on where that Venus IS, and what aspects it's making. If it's angular or heavily aspected... IP: Logged |
Leonine8
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posted November 09, 2011 09:07 AM
Agree it's more noticeable when viewing with a romantic eye. S/he may also have a stellium, strong aspects, or be heavy in air or relevant element.IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted November 09, 2011 09:54 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Affect a person's personality and character so much?For example. A guy's a taurus sun, scorpio moon, aquarius mercury and gemini venus.
You would think having so many fixed signs would outweigh the flighty tendencies of their venus sign? But they will still be unreliable, flirty, liar and a cheat? Why is that?? Does it depend on the venus sign and how much it affects the person, or are all venus signs that crucial in determining the basic character of a person? Even if they had an aries rising (known for their honesty)
Well this guy is a Taurus Sun and Venus rules Libra and Taurus so it's fair to assume he'd act with a touch of Gemini, with Venus in Gemini. I'm a Libra with Venus in Leo and I've got Solar flair oozing out of me. I like everything in love and life to be BIG and GRAND!  Sun in Libra/Venus in Leo "Venus rules Libra, so there will be some Leonine traits, and the influence of Venus will be strong. Generosity is usual, and if love and affection are lacking there may be a tendency to try to buy them with elaborate presents. At your best, the individual is romantic with a love of good living, and will give much to a partner both through warm-hearted affection and sex. This is a considerate and sympathetic friend. Although extravagant, money is usually managed quite well."
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Ami Anne
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posted November 09, 2011 09:56 AM
Hmm, I think the moon trumps all, in an intimate relationship. I am a Gemini Sun, Merc and Venus and a Cancer Moon and Mars. I do not fall in love easily, at all. However,once I love a man or even a friend, I am one of the most loyal people you will ever see. I am my moon, at the deepest core of me.------------------
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hannarama
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posted November 09, 2011 10:00 AM
He sounds like a dream to me. (FIre/Air chart here...) I think a lot of how is behavior is played out has to do with how his Venus is aspected. It's also important to look at him as a guy and not a Taurus with this and that and Venus in Gemini. Another thing I heard is Taurus/Gemini combinations will often talk in circles for selfish reasons. So he'll sweet talk you without meaning any of it. The Aries rising probably just makes him very attractive and outgoing but doesn't necessarily (or heavily, maybe) affect his character. Venus signs point to how you treat your friends and lovers and in men how they feel about women. He probably keeps a certain distance from women, uses them (not in a bad way, like a mutual understanding F-buddies kind of thing) or talks to multiple women at a time. On the flip side, I've heard Geminis are very big and very lofty in their ideas about love. He could be quite the romantic and picky which would support his Taurus Sun's choosiness as well. IP: Logged |
malicefey
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posted November 09, 2011 10:06 AM
Scorpio Sun, Moon Aries, Mars Capricorn, Merc/Venus SagittariusWould this man be serious but also flighty? I am also a bit confused with his chart. He has moon trine venus..whatever that means.. ------------------
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mintgirl123
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posted November 09, 2011 10:10 AM
I like venus in Sag. I've had three exs with it. They don't fear commitment, you just need to know not to cling to them. When you let the cage open, they feel more inclined to fly back lol. They're alot more loyal than venus in Gems. And I like how they're more often honest about things. They don't say things and secretly think something else. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 09, 2011 10:30 AM
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Originally posted by malicefey:
Scorpio Sun, Moon Aries, Mars Capricorn, Merc/Venus SagittariusWould this man be serious but also flighty? I am also a bit confused with his chart. He has moon trine venus..whatever that means..
He'd definitely be loyal, slow to act (which is good considering his moon in Aries.) If he has moon trine Venus I imagine he gets along with women very well, better than most men do. Trines mean it's something that comes natural to the native - so natural that it isn't recognized or apparent to them and is simply apart of their personality. He's probably a wooer.  I like that fire though! It'll help balance out the more calculating aspects of his chart like his sun and mars. IP: Logged |
malicefey
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posted November 09, 2011 10:31 AM
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I like venus in Sag. I've had three exs with it. They don't fear commitment, you just need to know not to cling to them. When you let the cage open, they feel more inclined to fly back lol. They're alot more loyal than venus in Gems. And I like how they're more often honest about things. They don't say things and secretly think something else.
I was telling him about the guy I knew with taurus sun and gemini moon and how he was seeing 3 different girls all at the same time. He laughed at it, and I said "how's that funny? How about I go and I go see 2 different men while seeing you?" Then my scorp stopped laughing and frowned, to which I added "Ya..not so funny anymore is it?" lol I'm such a b****  But anyways, the Taurus sun/Gem venus guy I know is unbelievably flirty. I don't understand how my Sag sun/merc/venus friend was able to put up with him for 5 years. The relationship was CONSTANTLY fluctuating because the Taurus sun guy didnt know what the hell he wants. He also has moon in Aries, Mars in Aquarius and Leo ascendant. Yes he is a bit childish with his moon in Aries and impulsive but the Gem venus makes him really shady (in the area of relationships) I don't mean to generalize about Gem venus people, but I would be interested to know your POVs. Isn't the guy kind of selfish to tell my friend "Oh, I don't know if I'll cheat..so I need to do this now for my own sake, and once I marry I will be settled." Our reaction was: If you can do this now now, what makes you say you WON'T do this later? and that you WON'T cheat later? Probably more EASIER later too? ------------------
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hannarama
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posted November 09, 2011 11:09 AM
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Isn't the guy kind of selfish to tell my friend "Oh, I don't know if I'll cheat..so I need to do this now for my own sake, and once I marry I will be settled."
Lol yes that's selfish, but from his point of view he thinks he's doing her a favor being honest about it. Uh, who cares about honesty lol! I mean... he doesn't want her or else he'd be steadfastily loyal. Gems can straighten up when they want to... IP: Logged |
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posted November 09, 2011 11:20 AM
I detest my Venus in Aquarius and all the stereotypes associated with it. It isn't me at all and doesn't even remotely resemble me. In fact, some parts of my astrological chart continue to confound me, which only adds to my inherent overall skepticism, and thus my general indifference. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 09, 2011 11:24 AM
i agree with Joan...since Venus is a natural ruling planet of Taurus, it would definitely affect his personality....however, i have noticed venus will still affect your personality....my venus is in capricorn (as well as 3 others) and it sextiles my mars and pluto, but not sun nor moon and venus still colors me brown ------------------
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posted November 09, 2011 11:31 AM
I am just WAITING for someone to smack talk Gemini Venus. We always get a bad rep... for good reasons.  IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 09, 2011 11:33 AM
LOL, purr...this is true.....lets hope you have other placements that make you not so much like gem venus------------------
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posted November 09, 2011 11:35 AM
If he's a Taurus Sun, Venus is super important because it rules his Sun.Although, calling Geminis liars and cheats is a bit much. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 09, 2011 11:37 AM
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Although, calling Geminis liars and cheats is a bit much.
yes, good point...i completely looked over this....but not all are like that...i have gem asc and i'm not like that...and i know 2 gemini suns and neither are like that ------------------
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psytaurus
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posted November 09, 2011 11:41 AM
I'm a taurus sun/gemini venus gal and I do know a guy with similar placements. We've been friends since the eighth grade and not only does he have venus in gemini, but moon and mercury as well. He's a good guy, he has never cheated and considering he's not that old, he could've done it now just to have fun until he settles down. But he hasn't. And the way I see it with him there's a clear delimitation between flings and relationships. Right now he's out of the market and he's happy with his Cappy girlfriend.
As for the flirting, I have observed his interactions with women during all these years and most of the times people get the wrong idea. He's polite, friendly and a good listener and sometimes that gets mistaken for flirting. But in the moment he senses/realizes they read more into his intentions he backs off. And that tends to ruffle some feathers.
He's always been fiercely loyal to the people that he cares about.
He's the only guy that I know with this placement though so it may not mean much.IP: Logged |
Purrr
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posted November 09, 2011 11:41 AM
I  my Gemini Venus. It's my chart ruler. It's conjunct my Mercury, too. I sort of have a love affair with my own mind. I'm so darn clever! *Gives self hug*IP: Logged |
Purrr
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posted November 09, 2011 11:43 AM
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I'm a taurus sun/gemini venus gal and I do know a guy with similar placements. We've been friends since the eighth grade and not only does he has venus in gemini, but moon and mercury as well. He's a good guy, he has never cheated and considering he's not that old, he could've done it now just to have fun until he settles down. But he hasn't. And the way I see it with him there's a clear delimitation between flings and relationships. Right now he's out of the market and he's happy with his Cappy girlfriend.
As for the flirting, I have observed his interactions with women during all these years and most of the times people get the wrong idea. He's polite, friendly and a good listener and sometimes that gets mistaken for flirting. But in the moment he senses/realizes they read more into his intentions he backs off. And that tends to ruffle some feathers.
He's always been fiercely loyal to the people that he cares about.
He's the only guy that I know with this placement though so it may not mean much.
I think that's where things get lost in translation. People often confuse our actions with flirtation. When I moved to NY, I used to smile at strangers when passing by them because it's one of those nice Midwest/Southern things to do. It's just a pleasant thing to do. You wouldn't believe how many men thought I was trying to give hints or something! Awkward. I was just being nice... IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 09, 2011 11:44 AM
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I think that's where things get lost in translation. People often confuse our actions with flirtation. When I moved to NY, I used to smile at strangers when passing by them because it's one of those nice Midwest/Southern things to do. It's just a pleasant thing to do. You wouldn't believe how many men thought I was trying to give hints or something! Awkward. I was just being nice...
LOL, then i know i most definitely do not want to go to NY because i too am from the south
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malicefey
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posted November 09, 2011 11:55 AM
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LOL, then i know i most definitely do not want to go to NY because i too am from the south
I'm from NY and if a dude smiles at me I'll probably do the slap and yell "CREEP!!"  Just kidding. ------------------
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NickiG
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posted November 09, 2011 11:57 AM
LOL------------------
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