posted November 10, 2011 09:20 PM            

Its like the word "NO" doesn't compute. Not hating but I have a lot of Gemini friends. A lot. They make up my closer group of friends. A lot of male Gemini's i attract.. We naturally "Trine" I love Gemini suns, never a dull moment, but I have noticed a common theme, even reading stories about them, and witnessing myself, is that the word "no" or anything centered around rejection doesn't sit well for them and they don't register it, they continue to chase after whatever it is even though they've been rejected. They will find a way to manipulate your words or you, into saying yes, very good at communication they are.. Why is that? Do you think anything else dictates this failure to comprehend rejection in their chart?

posted November 11, 2011 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Sorry the title was off:
Its supposed to say do gemin's have a hard time comprehending rejection of any kind"?

Its like the word "NO" doesn't compute. Not hating but I have a lot of Gemini friends. A lot. They make up my closer group of friends. A lot of male Gemini's i attract.. We naturally "Trine" I love Gemini suns, never a dull moment, but I have noticed a common theme, even reading stories about them, and witnessing myself, is that the word "no" or anything centered around rejection doesn't sit well for them and they don't register it, they continue to chase after whatever it is even though they've been rejected. They will find a way to manipulate your words or you, into saying yes, very good at communication they are.. Why is that? Do you think anything else dictates this failure to comprehend rejection in their chart?

Its very amusing to watch, I feel fortune to know a lot of Gemini suns, growing up around them especially the males because they do this a lot lol

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posted November 11, 2011 02:48 AM            

Generally, the answer is we will chase till we get board.

The best thing to do is let the gemimi get board and move on to the next "romantic conquest or project".

This can occur if you become less intresting or less resistant.

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
.. Cancerian placements can be sensitive to rejection.

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Vary true, I have some cancer placements in me so I'm a little carefull. Even when the odds are good and the answer is no I still won't accept it.

lindisfarne,

Is you mars closer to Gemini then cancer? that might also explain a bit.

I tend to draw a lot of Febuary born aquarians.

posted November 11, 2011 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
What RunAroundScreaming said, and also (maybe I'm not technically qualified for this since I'm an Aries sun. I have lots of Gemini in my chart though, so I'm qualifying myself - damnit!) I think Geminis analyze rejection and find a loophole in it. We are experts at finding loopholes. 'No' doesn't mean what 'no' means to a Taurus, or a Leo. Geminis favorite word is "No" (dating wise) because it presents a challenge, a puzzel of how to win this specific person over. When they win is when they could give two ***** and flit off to go play WoW, or something.

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They approach romantic challenge as an intellectual challenge and is why they keep going and going bc they are not hurt by the rejection but more like excited about the challenge!

posted November 11, 2011 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
....yeah I had a similar experience with a Gemini guy once and I was trying to figure out why he was so persistent and couldn't understand NO, even if you were blunt but I never got to see his whole chart bc that is how little I was interested in him romantically. Although he kept insisting that he understood and insisted he did also just want to be friends bc he found me really interesting and thought I had a good heart, I still didn't believe he really was ok with just been friends and in some level he continued to try which made me feel he wasn't really ok with just friends. I like persistence but if I am in the same level and never to that degree.

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It's nice that someone else had similar experiences...
I know a lot of Geminis, and I also attract them for some reason more than any other sign, romantically. The guy I'm dating couldn't understand "no" he said "ok I get it" the next day it was "hey what's up, so what are we doing today?" LOL..... I even told him straight up "Look we can't be anything alright? Not even friends you don't get it. You keep saying you do and the next minute it's clear you don't." He says "oh alright. no no I understand." the following week he still wouldn't get it. Also I agree with the person that mentioned cancer placements. He was perrrrsissstent add that cap Mars and rising and he was someone that wanted what he wanted. I agree ameilia. It can be annoying though.

posted November 11, 2011 08:09 AM            

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Originally posted by SpooL:
I actualy wanted to watch this play out for a bit and see how everyone answers.

Generally, the answer is we will chase till we get board.

The best thing to do is let the gemimi get board and move on to the next "romantic conquest or project".

This can occur if you become less intresting or less resistant.

Vary true, I have some cancer placements in me so I'm a little carefull. Even when the odds are good and the answer is no I still won't accept it.

lindisfarne,

Is you mars closer to Gemini then cancer? that might also explain a bit.

I tend to draw a lot of Febuary born aquarians.

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lol my mars is 11 def in cancer

it's so weird I attract Geminis like crazy! I was a little annoyed too because I wanted to attract other signs but it's like any guy that would be interested in me I always found out he was a Gemini sun which made me Cringe sometimes cause I'm already friends with a lot of them I can't escape it and I've seen how they play and thank the stars I'm their female Friends and nothin more.

I always attract Libra or Gemini but mostly Gemini!
Maybe it's an air thing? I'm an Aquarius so maybe that's it?