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posted November 13, 2011 01:16 PM            

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or is it completely psychological? Their upbringing? The only way they derive pleasure is by some form of sexual aggression/violence?

Pluto aspects perhaps?

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posted November 13, 2011 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
or is it completely psychological? Their upbringing? The only way they derive pleasure is by some form of sexual aggression/violence?

Pluto aspects perhaps?

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Right here! Mars and Pluto conjunct Asc in Scorpio. Now, finding the right guy to bring that aggression "naturally" has been hard to come by...I need aggression, take control of me...but no hitting in the face. I don't play that

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posted November 13, 2011 02:07 PM            

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I know a guy with Mars conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. He's sexually sadistic at the physical and emotional/psychological levels. The physical part is understandable to this Mars in Cap, but the psychological "games" and constant need to prove domination gets old fast. I bet Mars conjunct Pluto in Sag guys will be loads of S&M fun when they grow up.

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posted November 13, 2011 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
I know a guy with Mars conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. He's sexually sadistic at the physical and emotional/psychological levels.

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Wow sadistic is a whole other level for me. Psychological you say? I'm gonna have to keep this aspect in mind.

What's up with his Saturn? And how are the aspects to his 8H? Any Leo in there? You have me scrambling placements to understand the psychological stuff...

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posted November 13, 2011 04:30 PM            

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Eek, sorry, didn't mean to cause offense/alarm. He has Saturn in Sag. But he IS a Capricorn with a Napoleonic complex. Plus, his Moon is not in an easy aspect to his Venus or Mars, and his Venus isn't in an easy aspect to his Mars. He's had a difficult time with women, including having a strict mother.

We used to be coworkers and I used to chat with him on IM after I quit the place, and that's when he told me about his sadistic fantasies and how he likes to play with girls' feelings. I never woulda guessed otherwise, because he is total sweetheart in the office. I used to wonder why he'd get phone calls from girls screaming at him.

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