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featherlightly
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posted November 16, 2011 06:09 PM
  
Met this guy three days ago and I'm floored. Chemistry is off the chart and it feels like we share a brain, even on the weirdest, most obscure subjects. We both remarked at how familiar we seem to each other. Met at a conference, spent six hours straight talking until we realized it was four in the morning, made out on the spot... already planning to do a long-distance relationship. I NEVER move that fast with people. Is it the conjunct ascendants? Sun conjunct moon double whammy, even though the orb is wide? Something else?The Mars and Moon square Pluto worries me, but there is nice stuff as well... any hope for this one?  IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted November 16, 2011 06:14 PM
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scrappydog
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posted November 16, 2011 06:17 PM
Sun and moon conj double whammy is one thing, also ur son in his 7th and his moon in ur 7th, great for compatability, no wonder u two feel so much alike, I can definately see the familiarity. Let me take another look...IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted November 16, 2011 06:19 PM
Sun conjunct mc can be powerful and binding and moon conj mars is great for sexual attraction.
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mintgirl123
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posted November 16, 2011 06:30 PM
There's definitely alot of attraction, but seeing all the big squares, you're going to clash like mad and misunderstand each other probably several months into things. =/IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 16, 2011 06:33 PM
And one of you has sun in leo so it's not really a sun conjunct moon since they're not in the same sign? And I see you have moon square moon, moon square mars (by sign), sun and mercury square mars, venus and mercury square venus (sign), lol even with the asc conjunct, I think this won't last long cos pretty soon you'll start fighting over everything.You obviously met due to fate, but this appears to be somebody you'll learn lessons from, that won't be with you for long. Oh and the connection is bc of the asc conjuncting, your vertexes conjuncting (indicating fate =) and your sun conjunct moon in taurus. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 16, 2011 08:32 PM
yeah, i second the double moon/sun whammy.. that's a very interesting synastry u guys have! don't know what to say since both whammys are square each other, lol!  jupiter conjunct venus is niiiiice! that pluto isn't really kidding, either  don't know what to comment about it; there's def romance since it seems venus opposes neptune but idk.... lol, i can't wrap my mind around all of it so please do and fill us in on the details so that we may better understand, plz! IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 16, 2011 08:34 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
And one of you has sun in leo so it's not really a sun conjunct moon since they're not in the same sign? And I see you have moon square moon, moon square mars (by sign), sun and mercury square mars, venus and mercury square venus (sign), lol even with the asc conjunct, I think this won't last long cos pretty soon you'll start fighting over everything.You obviously met due to fate, but this appears to be somebody you'll learn lessons from, that won't be with you for long. Oh and the connection is bc of the asc conjuncting, your vertexes conjuncting (indicating fate =) and your sun conjunct moon in taurus.
featherlightly, i think they meant to say that one has moon in leo and the other is the one with sun in cancer but even so, yes, it is considered a conjunction, still. i had a brief encounter with the mars square moon in synastry and typed this up from what i've known and experienced, so, i dunno.. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/210448.html -maybe it'll prove to be useful. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 16, 2011 08:37 PM
It's not a close conjunction, and leo and cancer are VERY different signs, so I wouldn't count it? Leo likes attention and is more confident, is happy and flamboyant. Cancer is sensitive and is kinda insecure.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 16, 2011 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
It's not a close conjunction, and leo and cancer are VERY different signs, so I wouldn't count it? Leo likes attention and is more confident, is happy and flamboyant. Cancer is sensitive and is kinda insecure.
it doesn't mean that it isn't a conjunction; they're also luminaries and probably the most important personal planet to take into consideration: http://www.astrostar.com/Astrology-Aspects-Conjunctions.htm and with the signs in question, they're in mutual reception. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 16, 2011 08:46 PM
But that's talking about having the aspect natally which is a completely different scenario. Still does not negate the fact they have ALOT of big squares. Gonna have some major problems 4+ months into the relationship.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 16, 2011 08:53 PM
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But that's talking about having the aspect natally which is a completely different sc---.
oo0000-k... obviously you and i have some squares so i'm obviously not gonna do this.
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tuxedoMask
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posted November 16, 2011 08:54 PM
featherlightly, do consult someone more knowledgeable if you question yourself about what to consider and in regards to what, and please update us as to how your interaction with the fella play out as i'd like to know, thanks!IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted November 16, 2011 10:44 PM
Biggest thing: Angles conjunct. ASC/ASC and MC/MC. You're on the same page. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 16, 2011 10:54 PM
That's amazing  Congrats. Let us know how it turns out.IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted December 01, 2011 06:39 PM
UPDATE: Oooooh, the squares are emerging now, haha.On one hand, I really want to pursue this because we are creepily similar in every regard. Talking to him is insanely easy because I never have to explain anything -- he immediately understands where I'm going after just a few words (probably our moon conjunct Mercury and Mercury sextile Mercury, along with the other conjunctions). I think we could have a lot of fun together doing spontaneous stuff... But we are clashing over something TOTALLY stupid, which is the fact that I *hate* to talk on the phone, whereas he wants to talk for several hours each night and be in constant communication throughout the day. I literally am phobic of the phone because I have trouble understanding what people are saying if I don't have a visual (words or face) to go along with it. I'm an email and text-message person. Right now I have a ton of work stress and projects to finish by the end of the month, and don't have time to chat with him for that long each day... this is unacceptable to him, haha. Apart from that, he's sort of annoying me in ways I can't quite put my finger on. Maybe because we're so similar, we share the same flaws, and I get annoyed when I see the qualities I don't like in myself reflected in him. Plus there's another long-time friend of mine who I suddenly got a crush on. The synastry isn't as impressive but I feel like my heart is more open to him than to the guy above. Gah. What should I do? The sun/moon double whammy guy wants me to fly across the country and come spend a month with him after Christmas. Up until now I was totally on board with that, but I'm having hesitations now -- I can't tell if it's intuition or just feeling kind of b*tchy right now because I'm under a lot of professional pressure. IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted December 01, 2011 06:51 PM
This is the other guy I'm suddenly interested in. We've been friends/colleagues for the past year and a half... he was 100% in the friend zone for me until just recently, when all of a sudden (literally in a matter of seconds) I realized I actually have a big crush on him.   IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted February 29, 2012 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
But that's talking about having the aspect natally which is a completely different scenario. Still does not negate the fact they have ALOT of big squares. Gonna have some major problems 4+ months into the relationship.
It's a few months later now, and... mintgirl nailed it. We still have a very intense 'connection,' but it totally devolved into weird mind games and disagreements. He tries to psychoanalyze me a lot and makes assumptions about my past and my personality that are completely untrue, and tries to "help" me by giving condescending lectures on what he believes my problems are. I'm totally turned off and want nothing to do with him at this point. Bleh. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 29, 2012 12:59 AM
Aww =(. Hey! At least he was cool at the start lol. Do you guys still talk?
Guess his need to be your therapist must have killed alot of the interest on your end?IP: Logged |
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