posted November 17, 2011 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:

Hannarama, RegardsPlatero - I'm still trying to figure that out myself, because I still don't get it. I've interacted with men that have other placements in Leo, like their moon, or inner planets, and they're cool, it's always just the male SOLAR Leos.

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I AGREE! I said the same thing a few days ago in another thread here. I remember a Capricorn sun, Leo moon guy I knew and I REALLY liked him. He was very goofy, but he could definitely take my snaps and I appreciated that he never retaliated. I was moody then, k? I've never forgotten it, ever.

I'm also best friends with a Cancer who has Mercury in Leo and we get along famously, he doesn't get offended like Cancers are stereotypically supposed to around Aries. However, I know four Leo suns and two of them had Mercury in Cancer. Let me tell you - biggest BSers EVER. Didn't even matter that they had Capricorn and Sagittarius moon signs. That did nothing for them (although for the Sag moon I'm sure it just gave incentive to create bigger and better stories). The other one wasn't AS threatening 'cause he had Moon conj. Neptune, so he couldn't keep a lie going for long but he'd still try.

The other two Leo suns were gay and a couple and the biggest gossip hounds I've ever met, not to mention they ran the conversation, interrupted and eventually directed it back towards themselves. It's like it didn't flow without the conversation being about them. I also find if you are in any way generous with Leo suns that they'll push the envelope to see just HOW generous you will be. Motherf....

The female Leo sun I know (sorry, guess that makes five) isn't as bad but for one she has a Capricorn moon, and two she's an empath. I do notice they ALL love having "Woe is me" parties though and life's obstacles are very, very dramatic to them. It just irks my Taurus and Gemini placements so much I think but my Aries doesn't let me hold judgments for very long.

posted November 17, 2011 06:22 PM            

As I mentioned in another thread, they are big misogynists. The ones I dated (3! 2 were fairly long term and one was talking marriage) were not interested in hearing anything about my job/day/life. They gave horrible advice that only suited their needs. All they wanted to do was talk about themselves and sex. Nights usually went like this:

Me: So how was your day?

Leo Man: So tough…(blah, blah, long story about who he hates, who he loves, why he loves his job, why he hates his job, how he does everything…)

Me: Aw baby…(sympathy, meaningful advice, snuggles)

Him: What’s for dinner?

Me: <thinking>(…hmm, I guess no one cares about my day, but I’m talking about it anyway! )

Me: Well, I am so excited about working with the kids!...(blah, blah, kids, teaching, etc, etc, question about what I should do)…

Him: <rolls eyes> Don’t worry about it. What did you make for dinner? Hmm, you look good, let’s make out, wait no, could you rub my hands with lotion please?…

Me: <with clenched teeth> SURE!

It is almost like it hurts them to talk, unless it is about their lives of course and they expect dinner on the table, no matter what you did all day (I don’t mind this actually, I love to cook)…

I don’t know I guess I always end up with the Sean Penn/Robert De Niro silent jerk type of Leo man.

They are AMAZING in bed though. It makes me sad to think about it…They are also very generous but yeah, they are very self-centered and arrogant.

posted November 17, 2011 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:

I still think that they're whiny b@stards, but they're [b]cute whiny b@stards [/B]

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posted November 17, 2011 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
--My goal is to get along with everyone bc every sign has value.

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posted November 17, 2011 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
--My goal is to get along with everyone bc every sign has value.

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posted November 17, 2011 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:

ETA: I'd go out with another one though, just to see if things are different

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posted November 17, 2011 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
:laugh: still has not learned her lesson.

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posted November 17, 2011 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:

- Pisces – While all Water signs have the tendency to be sensitive I find that I have to walk on eggshells with them more than any other sign (even Scorpio!). While I am empathetic (Moon in 9th conj Pluto in 8th) it can be hard for me to adjust in order to just have a conversation with someone, with my Mars in Gemini and Mercury square Uranus. I know that people talk about Leo being self-centered but it is usually in a positive way, they like to talk themselves up, with Pisces I have found that they are self-centered also but they tend to talk about their troubles, their woes in order to get attention. I don’t care for that. I have mentioned this several times but when I think Pisces I think of a (not-drunk) 6’3” adult man crying in a bar. Blech.I had a love reading done by my favorite astrologer and while everything else was spot on she said that with Eros in Pisces I might “have a ‘thing’ for obvious Piscean traits”. I had to correct her in my feedback, uh, no, I can’t stand that actually and she wrote that “Leo sometimes has trouble with Piscean energy because it can be wishy washy, submissive, self-sacrificing and a little undignified.” She hit the nail on the head with that one.

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OMG yes! I know a Pisces who is just like this. And he can be a mean SOB too. Whines about this and that, and you really want to kick him after a while!

I'm supposed to get along famously with them but that is not the case!

posted November 18, 2011 12:26 AM            

Men:

Gemini

posted November 18, 2011 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
They're really harsh and abrasive right? And yet they can be the biggest sissys.

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haha, its so true!

If my friend was scared to do something I would probly tell her to shut up and shove her towards it... but if they turned around and said "You go do it"
My reply would be "Are you crazy?!"

posted November 18, 2011 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
I usually like Leo men and they are very sweet and tender once they are dating you BUT…

As I mentioned in another thread, they are big misogynists. The ones I dated (3! 2 were fairly long term and one was talking marriage) were not interested in hearing anything about my job/day/life. They gave horrible advice that only suited their needs. All they wanted to do was talk about themselves and sex. Nights usually went like this:

Me: So how was your day?

Leo Man: So tough…(blah, blah, long story about who he hates, who he loves, why he loves his job, why he hates his job, how he does everything…)

Me: Aw baby…(sympathy, meaningful advice, snuggles)

Him: What’s for dinner?

Me: <thinking>(…hmm, I guess no one cares about my day, but I’m talking about it anyway! )

Me: Well, I am so excited about working with the kids!...(blah, blah, kids, teaching, etc, etc, question about what I should do)…

Him: <rolls eyes> Don’t worry about it. What did you make for dinner? Hmm, you look good, let’s make out, wait no, could you rub my hands with lotion please?…

Me: <with clenched teeth> SURE!

It is almost like it hurts them to talk, unless it is about their lives of course and they expect dinner on the table, no matter what you did all day (I don’t mind this actually, I love to cook)…

I don’t know I guess I always end up with the Sean Penn/Robert De Niro silent jerk type of Leo man.

They are AMAZING in bed though. It makes me sad to think about it…They are also very generous but yeah, they are very self-centered and arrogant.

ETA: I'd go out with another one though, just to see if things are different

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posted November 18, 2011 06:42 AM            

Virgo men also, my brother Johnny is a Virgo and he always has a hard time seeing things for what they are, he is very analytical, but can't see the big picture. That might be something else all together in his chart.

The one thing that I've observed in MR and MS Virgo is they like to preach and not practice. hahah ;-) But, you have to love them for trying. All signs have their weakness and All signs have their strengths, thank goodness that our Sun Sign doesn't truly dictate who we are, so much more complex then that.

posted November 18, 2011 09:24 AM            

My Mars in Libra sits in the 7th. So I put a lot of work and conscious effort(Mars) to understand another point of view(Libra), especialy with regards to social interactions outside my immediate environment(7th). (or atleast that is how I understand it)

Naturally then, with the opposition to seventh;First house in Aries(I should really change my Username now), I appear very intolerant of bull***.(And to think that I thought that that was always a Taurian trait sigh!)

Now with Aries, whether its the sun, moon asc or venus, there is a kind of abrasive attitude towards other people. This can be irritating.

Taurus energy can be so stubborn especialy, in my experience, when mercury is there. I seem to struggle to have a constructive conversation with them. This, despite the fact that my mercury is also in earthy Capricorn.

Gemini energy. Nuff said. When Venus is there, it seems to be the worst placement for me to get on with.The attention span is as short as a 5 year old.

Cancer Sun. So eery, so defensive, so...uhm well, difficult. I tend to get on less with them when they are young.

Leo Sun. i still can't find a decent connectuon with these folks. I hear they are great, the ones I meet are hardly fascinating!

Virgo. Not really that interesting for me. Had a huge argument with one that had his Sun and Jupiter there(was my work colleague). I wish that they'd ease up on looking at faults so much.

Libra. I like these folks, but not when the moon in here(especially with personal relationships). Most Libra moons put their friends first and relationships second.

I had a person whom I was involved with who seemed to spend more time with his friends then he did with me.

He would talk very lovingly of our relationship with other people and I'd be suprised coz I'd think to myslef "but, we are hardly together".

Scorpio is difficult to get on with when Mars is placed there. They tend towards extreme and things get very personal when, at the onset, I only meant to converse and get them thinking about an alternative point of view. Can never have a discussion with these folks without me being crucified for defending, what they believe, is "clearly the guilty part".

Sagittarius sun(I am biased since this is my sign), but I must say that the Mars in Sag can be preachy and self-righteous(must be mirroring my qualities in some way though).

One guy I lived with was intolerant of people of a certain race(not to suggest that all Mars in Sag share this trait). He always made it a point to air his views publicly and ,to a certain extent, to embarrass those to whom he was referring.

Sorry, moon in Capricorn can be so gorgeous, but they are as passionate,to me, as an air conditioner. Don't get on with these folks at all.

Aquarius sun and moon have this whole "bringing everyone down to planet earth" thing that they do. when someone is confident or, in their opinion, "bigheaded", they like to shoot them down.

I actually have a friend who has Sun Aquarius and moon in Pices and he has a habit of doing this. But once you highlight his ego, he blatantly denies it. But I never take him seriously.

Pisces. Don't have much of a problem with them except the that the sun and mars in this position frustrates me with always wanting to be lead in some way. I hate that.

posted November 18, 2011 10:02 AM            

Exactly because of the reasons mentioned above.
I'm a Leo-Sun myself (Leo rules my 12th & my Sun is in it) and well, it's like they overrule my WHOLE being as if there's not the least space to go against their ego-flow or something... so no way.
My Scorp-Moon isn't very happy with them either.

posted November 18, 2011 10:15 AM            

But mostly Aqua and Taurus.
Aqua does not listen, you can see it in their face, they are just impatiently waiting for you to stop talking so that they can start, or they constantly interrupt.
They are so uber fixed in their view points it's like you can't tell them anything, they refuse to see another side of things, only their own, esp if they feel wronged somehow.
I see them as super manipulative and selfish.
But, it's cloaked in a disguise of gregariousness and big grins, so you don't see it.
They preach good will, but that only means good will if it agrees with their agenda.

Sorry to any Aquas. As above poster stated, this is only directed to the Aquas in my life, of course.

posted November 18, 2011 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
I usually like Leo men and they are very sweet and tender once they are dating you BUT…

As I mentioned in another thread, they are big misogynists. The ones I dated (3! 2 were fairly long term and one was talking marriage) were not interested in hearing anything about my job/day/life. They gave horrible advice that only suited their needs. All they wanted to do was talk about themselves and sex. Nights usually went like this:

Me: So how was your day?

Leo Man: So tough…(blah, blah, long story about who he hates, who he loves, why he loves his job, why he hates his job, how he does everything…)

Me: Aw baby…(sympathy, meaningful advice, snuggles)

Him: What’s for dinner?

Me: <thinking>(…hmm, I guess no one cares about my day, but I’m talking about it anyway! )

Me: Well, I am so excited about working with the kids!...(blah, blah, kids, teaching, etc, etc, question about what I should do)…

Him: <rolls eyes> Don’t worry about it. What did you make for dinner? Hmm, you look good, let’s make out, wait no, could you rub my hands with lotion please?…

Me: <with clenched teeth> SURE!

It is almost like it hurts them to talk, unless it is about their lives of course and they expect dinner on the table, no matter what you did all day (I don’t mind this actually, I love to cook)…

I don’t know I guess I always end up with the Sean Penn/Robert De Niro silent jerk type of Leo man.

They are AMAZING in bed though. It makes me sad to think about it…They are also very generous but yeah, they are very self-centered and arrogant.

ETA: I'd go out with another one though, just to see if things are different

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I haven't had that problem with Bear theLeo (we've been married a little over 5 years). He is the one that always asks about my day and will call me at least once a day while I'm at work to see how I'm doing. He is very touchy / feely and will rub my back, feet, shoulders and gives me big hugs when I come home from work or when he gets home / leaves for work.

As far as work, he listens and asks questions and I do the same. We both work for the Army (he's a Soldier and I am a civilian working for a BDE) so we have work in common and sometimes our paths cross during certain events / training.

If anything, he is way more affectionate and tender than I am.

He has a Pisces moon, Mercury in Leo and ACS / Venus in Virgo

I tend to get a long with most signs but I find that I don't form close relationships with Gemini's (men or women), Cancer men or Libra women. That is to say, I am friends with them but not close friends. My very best friend in an Aries and my best work friend is a Taurus.

I should add that I am a Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Virgo rising

posted November 18, 2011 06:18 PM            

So I tend to look at them with a smirk and go about my way.

I've noticed Taurus too. Either I really like the person, or I can't be around them at all. I'm the same with Libra men and Pisces women.