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wondering_j
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posted November 17, 2011 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wondering_j     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do I....

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athenegoddess
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posted November 17, 2011 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be cultured.

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wondering_j
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posted November 17, 2011 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wondering_j     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Be cultured.

In what way? She is very conservative

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anongrl10
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posted November 17, 2011 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Best to bring a visual of the chart up.

I would like to also look at your chart as well as a synastry chart. The problem is not on her, or you, but on BOTH of you and how you relate to each other. Being polite and kind just because you don't want to curse her isn't the way to go obviously since it has not been working. My hunch is that you need to stand up for yourself and tell her point blank that she needs to "stuff it" when she really gets out of line. A couple of times like that and she will get the message.
The synastry will show where the bullying occurs (house, sign, aspect) but you still have to find ways to put firm boundaries in your relationship with her.

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