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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:02 PM
  
Im working and testing a different method of reading some composites... If some one can post an old composite and let me know if I am correct or not..
Please dont put up a new composite, Im looking for one's that you already know, how it played out.. Please add Juno, Vertex, Eros, Psyche. THANKS!!
Lonake, since we spoke about this method before can you help...
I will explain the method after a few tries.. Please give feedback on whats correct. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 10:12 PM
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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:14 PM
THANKS!!! Ok give me a bit.. Will you be on for a while? IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 10:17 PM
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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:24 PM
Ok.. wow...
My first thought is the female was giving him money...
She (sort of) used the money to control him.. Or more for the power issue... She really liked him, but always seemed some what behind him... I think he was on the controlling side.. He wanted all the control.. But it was probably done in a stern but still subtle way. Did the relationship end because of a secret that came out, or a lie was discovered? Was each person's or one person home life caused problems with the relationship?
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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:25 PM
I know its short and brief.. Im just trying to get a feel for it.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 17, 2011 10:31 PM
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Lonake, since we spoke about this method before can you help...
Well I might be wrong..you're gonna have to correct my work (!)IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 10:33 PM
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Ok.. wow...
My first thought is the female was giving him money...
She (sort of) used the money to control him.. Or more for the power issue... She really liked him, but always seemed some what behind him... I think he was on the controlling side.. He wanted all the control.. But it was probably done in a stern but still subtle way. Did the relationship end because of a secret that came out, or a lie was discovered? Was each person's or one person home life caused problems with the relationship?
You know, I never gave him money 'cause we're both 20 somethings with no money to give, but I remember buying his movie ticket and he never paid me back for it. That's okay, I threw away his cigarettes which are like 5 bucks a carton. I paid for him for something else too (something small) I can't remember what though. I never used it as power though. I did really like him and yes, did always seem somewhat behind him. Like a little sister, it was really annoying. He told me we were equals and I was thinking "Hello, anybody home?" The romantic relationship ended because of a kind of secret. He had issues with his sexuality going on, but I knew that going into it. The RR only lasted a week so I don't count it. We were friends for a year afterward and yes it ended BECAUSE I knew there was something he wasn't telling me, and I mean I figured it had something to do with his feelings and maybe he loved someone else, I don't know but he wouldn't tell me. I know there was a secret though, I know it. It's always really really bothered me. Do you know what it is? Maybe his family didn't like me. I don't know, it seemed a lot more intense than just that. It ruined us though. I guess I had to 'fess up to little white lies I had told to cover my feelings and white lies I'd told to relate to him more that snowballed and after that I felt so disgusted with myself I couldn't be his friend anymore. Did our families cause problems with the relationship... I was kind of embarrassed by our relationship so I don't think I could ever bring myself to have him meet my parents or have him be apart of my family, you know. I also think he "dated" me for his parent's sake although he would never admit to this, AND they were already aware of his sexuality. I think he had a very controlling family, esp. his father but both him and our mutual (well, she's not my friend anymore) friend always said his family was really loving and functional. I actually liked spending time with his family but again back to the secret, there's something missing about the whole thing. Something that if I knew it would put everything together. OH, he was also very controlling and yes in subtle ways. Similar to what they say about Capricorns not even needing to say a single word and it's already known - that was him to a T. It was so irritating. How did he feel about her? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 17, 2011 10:38 PM
for hannarama,
OK I see her being overly generous, she feels a friendship vibe here, her social circle is widened by knowing him. She feels like the relationship is touch-and-go, can she trust him, does she want to trust him. She basically adores him, loves talking to him.
He is chatty, witty, flirty, basks in her attention. He wants a say in how things are run, esp on the home front, any space they share, it is his way. So in the end he is somewhat unreliable and needy.OK Lioness check my work (!) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:46 PM
Not in a bad way.. but think what you said right here..
****but I remember buying his movie ticket and he never paid me back for it. That's okay, I threw away his cigarettes which are like 5 bucks a carton.**************In a nice way (from me) thats controlling 
He didnt pay you back so you threw away his cigs... Like Ill get you back...
Just wanted to put that out there... I see him wanting to control the entire situation... To his benefit.. His "self" was some how hurt.. or maybe he hurt him self... I do see confusion with other people about the two of you...
But I think it was a lesson for him.. More to probably find out, who he is, and how he wants to project him self to the world.. She was just more "Im ok with it" Its different... Wow.. so I was right about the secret??? It was meant to be! His secret... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:50 PM
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for hannarama,
OK I see her being overly generous, she feels a friendship vibe here, her social circle is widened by knowing him. She feels like the relationship is touch-and-go, can she trust him, does she want to trust him. She basically adores him, loves talking to him.
He is chatty, witty, flirty, basks in her attention. He wants a say in how things are run, esp on the home front, any space they share, it is his way. So in the end he is somewhat unreliable and needy.OK Lioness check my work (!)
OVERLY generous... Good one! I went straight for the money..
I agree.. She gave more to him, then he to her.. Yes I would agree she found a friend in him.. Liked being with him... I think people thought they dont fit together, they seemed off...
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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 10:53 PM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b]Lonake, since we spoke about this method before can you help...
Well I might be wrong..you're gonna have to correct my work (!)[/B][/QUOTE]OHH hon.. I could never correct you.. Maybe one see's what the other doesnt and visa versa.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 17, 2011 10:55 PM
I only get bits and pieces of this, not much help, am afraid."I think people thought they dont fit together, they seemed off... "
---OK you get to say why later (!)  lol
I still don't have my head wrapped around this.
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hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 10:57 PM
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for hannarama,
OK I see her being overly generous, she feels a friendship vibe here, her social circle is widened by knowing him. She feels like the relationship is touch-and-go, can she trust him, does she want to trust him. She basically adores him, loves talking to him.
He is chatty, witty, flirty, basks in her attention. He wants a say in how things are run, esp on the home front, any space they share, it is his way. So in the end he is somewhat unreliable and needy.OK Lioness check my work (!)
I was overly generous with my time, I had a hard time standing up for myself to him and often let him get away with being a giant ******* to me. My social circle was not widened in knowing him but shrunk. He was NOT chatty and that annoyed me to no end. He was morose, depressed, and self-absorbed (sure, we had our laughs but the majority of our time together that is what I remember) I was the chatty, witty, flirty one. He definitely would not do something until HE wanted to. Very stubborn (which would fit with his progressed Aqua rising.) He was definitely unreliable and needy. I loved him the way a mother loves her child regardless of what he is, and then I loved him the way I wanted to love him but knew that kind wasn't healthy for me because it would never be a normal relationship. I eventually told him everything about myself but I did not trust him. I did it because I felt like I had to, like he might as well have had a gun to my head because I'd eventually spill things 'cause it seemed like he knew already. He was very secretive. IP: Logged |
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posted November 17, 2011 11:03 PM
He was secretive, but unfortunately I never found out what that secret was. I have my theories but that's all they are - theories. I liked being near him yes, but it seemed better the less we talked. I was very much physically attracted to him. I don't think he was as much to me. He never seemed to pick up (maybe he just didn't care) my hints when I wanted to get off the phone, when I was tired, when I was in a bad mood... I felt like I had to pry it out of him but whenever I did it was genuine. He was very, very needy. Texted me all day, then he wanted to talk for hours on end at night (him doing the talking) even though I didn't feel like talking. For some reason there was a pull, a force... something very Plutonian (Aha! Magnetic!) I couldn't say no even when I wanted to. OH! About the self, I figured out he cut himself, but that still wasn't the secret, or at least didn't make the secret vibe go away. He was suicidal in the past but assured he wasn't anymore (I don't entirely believe that.) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 11:05 PM
Yeah I see him, as wanting all the control.
I dont see him as chatty... Lonake do you see what she said in the chart? IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 11:11 PM
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Yeah I see him, as wanting all the control.
I dont see him as chatty... Lonake do you see what she said in the chart?
What made him want to control me? Did he love me at all?
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Lioness
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posted November 17, 2011 11:17 PM
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What made him want to control me? Did he love me at all?
I dont know why... He just did..... As for him loving you, I think he was comfortable with you.. He did like speaking to you... I think the relationship was more mental, but you guys werent on the same page. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 17, 2011 11:17 PM
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...How did he feel about her?
Her..? i was under the impression that u were hinting at knowing he was gay?  as far as the charts go, i don't know what trick you guys are trying out so i hope you do share.. i always just thought the relationship was able to be seen in the composite, not the individuals.. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 17, 2011 11:28 PM
i'm not sure if this would count any because i've already read what hanna wrote about their relationship but the sexual issues would be neptune and mars.. the opposition is the 'attraction/confusion/repulsion/wtf is going on here?' aspect... there's attraction, there's not really a knowing to what and once the attraction blends together, something about it confuses them.. i guess sexual issues could be a theme but i think even if the sexuality(orientation?) wasn't an issue, there'd be something of an issue when it comes to the person and the other one being confused because they might not be the 'norm' that they're attracted to.. it really sucks because that confusion can be partly due to our culture (and i think it may be due to neptune being a generational planet) and lots of people are under the impression that what they see on tv or the internet or any other public figure is what is attractive and have a hard time comprehending when their individual tastes rear their head and surprise em..the chiron and uranus/saturn opposition might be something else to do with that and their splitting apart to not acknowledge or even wanna deal with what the real issue was.. natally, that opposition i've found to be amongst 'workaholics' or self-made individuals so maybe the relationship might've been the same.. a sort of 'at all costs, through thick and thin, out of duty' sort of thing.. dealing with life and the oddities of it to the extent that they might even pack their schedule with even more things to not deal with their emotional pain and even if they decide that they may want to, they may find that they just have to keep trucking along and keep it moving. but the sibling thing would be due to the packed third house there and mercury being the ruler of the relationship.. if i'd want to see what the effect or the 'bond' between the two would be, since it is a composite, i look to the eighth house (that's just me and a personal preference) keeping the eighth house composite thing in mind, looking at that ruler would also be helpful... it's also in the third house. with pluto there, i would assume that it might've left an impression even if it didn't last.. maybe the relationship might've set up a model for them to look for in the future. i wouldn't be surprised if they end up with another partner that reminds them lots of the other (aka one of the two in the composite). there is bonding; don't know about the sex, if there was sex, but, well, i digress. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 17, 2011 11:41 PM
Tuxedomask nailed the attraction bit. I know he was gay, he came out as gay years prior to meeting me, and then a little before meeting me he all of a sudden is like OH I can see myself with a woman (-_-) meets me and then I don't even know wtf. We had similar body types, similar heights, similar ticks. Exact same feelings about things outside our relationship and ABOUT relationships in general which is why I was so confused 'cause he wasn't living up to his beliefs... There was an attraction between us 'cause he would give me love songs on a CD, he'd get jealous when I tried moving on to his co-worker (another Leo, in fact.) and kinda nipped that in the bud which ****** me off, he asked me if I was "hooking up" with my friend's boyfriend even though 1) I'd told him before that was my friend's boyfriend and 2) he knows I've never been with anybody. At all. I remember I told him I needed space and I thought he'd be okay with it. and his reaction was like "Yeah I'm intuitive, but you know I'm still a guy..." so he responded to the "I need space" thing as if we were in a relationship, 'cause in essence he was worried I was leaving. He was always worried about losing me for some reason. and I was confusing the F out of him. I think we were attracted to each other but didn't know what to do with it or how to direct it, or if it was attraction and not love, etc. IP: Logged |
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posted November 17, 2011 11:42 PM
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Her..?i was under the impression that u were hinting at knowing he was gay? as far as the charts go, i don't know what trick you guys are trying out so i hope you do share.. i always just thought the relationship was able to be seen in the composite, not the individuals..
I'm not trying out anything with him, the relationship and all contacts have been severed for a year now (my doing.) Even if he's gay, we were still friends. And you can still love a friend. Imo, anyway. IP: Logged |
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posted November 17, 2011 11:45 PM
Here's an old one, and the most significant as a result
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Lonake
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posted November 17, 2011 11:50 PM
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Yeah I see him, as wanting all the control.
I dont see him as chatty... Lonake do you see what she said in the chart?
I need pointers from you, I am messing this one up lol.
I don't know where you saw the 'she stands behind him' which hannarama confirmed.
I -might- be able to see where the secret is.
I see the self absorbed bit and if you use a generous orb I see morose.
"I loved him the way a mother loves her child regardless of what he is, and then I loved him the way I wanted to love him but knew that kind wasn't healthy for me because it would never be a normal relationship"
^ I don't see this part. I see the adoration but not like a mother child love.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 18, 2011 12:01 AM
Awhl rite I am a glutton for punishment, I throw my hat in the ring again lol,
for JFK,
OK she has intense feelings for this one. He pushes for the relationship and good times, he wants to get lost with her, get lost in the dream that their relationship means to him, but he is messing things up here, royally. I think it's called hubris. He knows they should be together but something messed up in him turns it all to crap. He's possessive, he wants to have good times w.others but doesn't want to lose his grip on her. She wants more of a commitment than he can give, he has an immature view of how relationships should progress, he thinks he can act however he wants with no respect to her feelings. They end up having completely diff views on what constitutes a good,healthy relationship.
OK I read it based on what Lioness does, but honestly, she does it better; so listen to her IP: Logged | |
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