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Topic: anyone else here who have sag moon + scorpio venus? how do you love?
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heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 19, 2011 09:57 AM
  
i hate it when i'm in love (which rarely happens btw) but once I am, I fall in love easily (sag moon)..and when I fall in love, I also fall HARD (scorpio venus). My mind doesnt always seem to agree with my heart  I feel like an 'emo' living in a fancy girl's body..I always kept my feelings all to myself, pretend that everythings okay, and try to look/act as optimistic as possible, as if nothing's bothering me inside..i've always felt that no one understands me in the deeper level, not even my mom or sister, i never told them anything, ever..i'm afraid that if i tell them my crush or that i'm "in-love" they might misunderstand me or make fun of me and not take me seriously that's why i'd rather keep everything to myself..and this is what exactly i'm feeling right now, i feel like i'm about to explode any moment but at the same time i can't really because myself tend to identify only the 'good' things i like to think about to cheer me up and forget all the sad ones for a moment and so usually, these sad things i have in mind are bottled up inside me i hate how my moon don't allow me to express myself the way i want it to. i miss someone so much right now and yet sometimes, i try to ignore this fact and think it's nothing and that there's so many good things to think about, why think about him? gah...my moon and venus are not working together to help me cheer up anyone else with this placement feels the same when they like/love someone? i wanna hear your experiences. I'm so sorry if that was long but i just thought that maybe this could help me 'loosen' up a bittttIP: Logged |
frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 310
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 19, 2011 02:56 PM
Yes I have Sagittarius moon & Scorpio venus..
I agree, they don't get along. I fall hard and fast, and turn into a totally different person in the relationship ..I get jealous, possessive, suspicious, etc (Scorp Venus) and I HATE IT...I hate feeling so tied up in emotions (Sag Moon) and I often break it off and run far, far away.
I can be up front about my feelings if I trust the person, if I don't..I pretend to be cool and aloof while I'm actually dying inside. I know how you feel. Go with your Moon. Sag moon loves freedom and growth and expansion and experience and optimism and fun....it feels so much better to take on my moon's qualities than my venus' qualities..but it's impossible to ignore venus, she's conjunct my scorp ASC and makes aspects to my mars...so she's pretty obvious. Do you feel like a totally different person when single and when in a relationship? IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 153
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 20, 2011 12:11 AM
^Omg, you described perfectly how I feel in/out of relationship, except I'm Aqua Moon (Cap Sun, Scorp Venus), especially that part about acting aloof while actually dying inside....I think that might be a Capricorn-ish thing though, cuz Venus in Cap also does that.Gandhi had the same problem due to his Scorp Venus and dealt with it by becoming celibate. I'm considering doing the same. The world has so much to explore, and so many people who could use my love and attention, so why waste any of it on some undeserving dime-a-dozen dude who makes me feel less than completely cherished? Heartstrings: I totally understand how you feel. Venus has a hard time in Scorpio and other Venus placements are way too easygoing to understand the manic emotions we go through, and what we need to feel loved. Maybe you need another Scorp Venus with Moon in a masculine element. IP: Logged |
frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 310
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 20, 2011 08:54 PM
I could not be celibate!! EVER!! I can separate love and sex, but it is hard to not become jealous and possessive . IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 20, 2011 09:10 PM
thanks for the replies, even though there weren't much lol. no, i've never been in a relationship before  it's a rule in our family that we must finish our school first and must have a job before i'm actually allowed to have a boyfriend which also makes me not have many crushes compared to other girls lol. every guy that i talk to, my parents gets suspicious and think we're going out! it's really annoying especially that my moon feel strangled because i feel like i couldn't do anything without their permission..what the hell is wrong with having guy friends anyway?? ugh. Anyway, i also kind of noticed that when i like someone, i become so jealous easily, i tend to feel as if they're mine already but no hehehe, i tend to be always aware of where they are or what they are doing....I'm just really upset at the moment because i feel like the only person who understands me in the deeper level, the only person that i can trust, the only person that i feel i can be myself when around him, is slowly slipping away from my life no trust and promises were broken, but i feel that my connection with him is slowly disappearing because of the fact that we're going to diffent states for college and as i said earlier, i tend to act as if all these are nothing to me because of my moon, i feel like i'm coming off as unemotional when really it's really killing me noww but i think my venus is also affecting me big time because i let me fall for him hard! oh well, maybe this is how 'young' love really feels likeee!IP: Logged |
acousticbob
Newflake Posts: 19
From: UK
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 21, 2011 12:25 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I fall hard and fast, and turn into a totally different person in the relationship ..I get jealous, possessive, suspicious, etc (Scorp Venus) and I HATE IT...I hate feeling so tied up in emotions (Sag Moon) and I often break it off and run far, far away.
In relationships - I feel scorpio can love so deeply that it makes them vulnerable, which can evoke the negative emotions (insecurities) you describe. It can also be the deepest love if in the right relationship.Out of relationships - nothing can get too deep behind the scorpio's (emotional) protection so everything is easier - but eventually more lonely..
I'm scorp sun + venus - Taurus moon
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