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Topic: Being too mature, is this a Saturn/Capricorn thing?
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lindisfarne
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From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 20, 2011 12:32 AM
  
I tried very hard at times, to 'become one' with the majority of my peers. Partying/clubbing was never my scene but it was a friends birthday today, and she threw a party at her Condo.. or should I say her parents condo. First of all the music was way too loud, I predicted I would leave within 10 minutes of being there and I was right. I arrived there, everyone was drunk, sloppy and i was sorely disappointed not to mention irritated. (In a general basis, drunk people its not that they **** me off, they just.. do not make sense to me. They irritate me. A lot, I have another story about why I dislike my Aries mother so much especially when she gets drunk dear god..) I think me and some other guy were the only people among 100 or more that were not drunk. You see, i have tried drinking before. I don't like it. I tried it to see what it was like so that i could come to a conclusion about drinking. Its not for me. It may be for other people, but not for me. All of my friends were drunk, screaming, I witnessed a surprising about of guys who i personally knew attempting to take advantage of some girls there knowing the condition they were in. I bought my friend flowers and just gave them to the security guard downstairs, and honestly left. What I saw was disappointing and I couldn't believe I allowed myself to go there, also that I thought it would be much different than other parties I've been to. But these types of events never change, just different people.Tonight just made me realize I may be a bit too mature for my age. I have no idea when this maturation began either, I am only 18, what kind of 18 year old prefers to avoid these things? What type of 18 year old prefers to stay home, lay low, study, work and relax? I don't know but I always thought I was not normal as I clearly didn't understand what majority of my peers did - partying is the life - that was never my motto. I never really did these things, I mean i would go to them but end up bored and left early to go do something else. I don't drink enough, and when I do its an awful experience. But all the power to people that can hold their liquor. Is this how partying and clubbing is? Disappointing? Is maturation too early, a Saturn/Capricorn thing? I dont consider myself to be a Uranian Aquarius, more Saturn. as I am reserved, restrictive most times. I do feel like I am a 27 year old trapped in an 18 year old body to be quite honest with you. Whenever I go to these things, its not that I feel awkward I just feel like some parent, checking up on people, taking care of them, never allowing myself to partake in these things, (i have in the past once or twice but loss of self-control is something I detest) How were you guys like at my age? Be honest! Heres my chart
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Anglerfish
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posted November 20, 2011 12:57 AM
I was like you at 18.I'm surprised you don't have more Cap. I'd say Saturn in the 1st and all that 12th house is going to make you seem more reclusive and mature, since it's cap/aqua and saturnian energy. ------------------
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lindisfarne
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From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 20, 2011 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by Anglerfish:
I was like you at 18.I'm surprised you don't have more Cap. I'd say Saturn in the 1st and all that 12th house is going to make you seem more reclusive and mature, since it's cap/aqua and saturnian energy.
Is that what a 12th house does? I've always wondered why I mostly like to be alone and dislike being around others. I mean if its required i will but if I had to choose, most of my daily living i find, that I choose activities that involve me myself and I. I always felt more Saturnian to be honest.
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sand
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posted November 20, 2011 01:22 AM
yeah i'd say it is a saturn thing. i see you've got saturn in 1st. i have saturn in 1st too tho i don't communicate that way here or seem serious coz of some other aspects/ placements, i'm a pretty serious fellow. the people i interned with would shoot hoops in this arcade while in their suits like they were in a 3 pt shootout on our lunch break. i chose them tho coz they were fun so if i wanted to take a break from the work i'd have people game to do things with. (i have oppositions LOL so i can see saw between 2 extremes) i like to party tho hehe and i love meeting new people! just class it up a little, nothing trashy.. but those can't really be avoided at certain ages. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
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posted November 20, 2011 04:34 AM
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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 20, 2011 04:41 AM
I don't know that I'd necessarily call it 'maturity' in all cases. Capricornian/Saturnian people can be really SEVERE or really somber/sober, but there's a difference between that and actual maturity, and a lot of times one is mistaken for the other.I say this from personal experience, both with people in my family who have placements in Capricorn and people I've interacted with who have placements in the sign, or a prominent Saturn. IP: Logged |
starfox
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posted November 20, 2011 08:27 AM
When I was 18 I was riding round on motorbikes all night & having fun with friends..!I still like to drink and not get sloppy drunk, but merry. Earth is dominate in my chart, but I don't take much very seriously or act too maturely at all. IP: Logged |
Malena
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posted November 20, 2011 08:58 AM
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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
I don't know that I'd necessarily call it 'maturity' in all cases. Capricornian/Saturnian people can be really SEVERE or really somber/sober, but there's a difference between that and actual maturity, and a lot of times one is mistaken for the other.
I second this. Sometimes Caps will "tick the box" of things they are supposed to be accomplishing (stellar grades, respectable job, respectable spouse, et cetera) without actually growing up emotionally. Their work ethic and success are really admirable, don't get me wrong, but not the same thing as being mature. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 20, 2011 12:11 PM
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted November 20, 2011 12:14 PM
I have Retro Saturn conjunct the ASC. Even as a pre teen, I was concerned about my reputation. The other girls mothers wanted the wilder girls to hang out with me because I refused to do wild things. Saturn makes you consider consequences. It makes you responsible about your reputation.It makes you mature before your time. I can see that.Do you have compensating placements that let you loosen up? ------------------
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lindisfarne
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From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
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posted November 20, 2011 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have Retro Saturn conjunct the ASC. Even as a pre teen, I was concerned about my reputation. The other girls mothers wanted the wilder girls to hang out with me because I refused to do wild things. Saturn makes you consider consequences. It makes you responsible about your reputation.It makes you mature before your time. I can see that.Do you have compensating placements that let you loosen up?
Thats my chart. I can be silly.. but it rarely comes out.
I'm weirdly into my appearance not just aesthetically.. I can have fun and kick it, however I have a hard time showing others my wild side. It comes out in very mild doses and often around my boyfriend and best friend, and sometimes my sister but even then I will go back to being serious. I've never did stuff most of my classmates did.. I couldn't just go out and drink out on the streets, loiter places and do all that stuff. Even when I was with them I refused to drink, just watch them or take care of them. I was always too serious, paid extra attention to my appearance. do you see anything in my chart that compensates?
I mean I can act silly and goofy with my boyfriend but it comes in small doses.. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 20, 2011 01:22 PM
lindis, i completely empathize....i only drink on special occasions and i much prefer staying home and reading or studying (and i'm not even in school any more)i have 4 planets in capricorn, including saturn edit: and i'm 22...you should have come to my party instead, lol ------------------
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