posted November 20, 2011 04:40 AM            

how do you handle your pluto, guys? i was reading about it today and thought about what plutonic relationships i've found myself in and i've never realized them happening and i don't know why that is.

it's been very subtle, how it all happens and i think that there may be some plutonic one's that are somewhat active right now; i've never been one to really try to play games unless we both are aware that it's happening and have openly stated that they're in session, but even then, i'd only play with people i've established some ground rules with first and we've both acknowledged what's fair and what isn't and that we each get unlimited 'T' for time-out's.. the one's that begin without anything being said are the one's that throw me for a spin because half of the time, i'm not even aware that they may be happening..

are you the same? are you the pluto? are they? what kind of tricks have you picked up along the way from watching other people? ..Mickey would like to know,

thanks!
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posted November 20, 2011 04:59 AM            

what had me post this was that i got an invite today to a birthday party and it's from somebody that has a pluto link with me in synastry.. thing is, i'm torn between being thrilled and flattered for being objectified sexually by them and also the person i met them through, and also slightly uneasy about the whole thing!

i didn't really understand why, but the person that introduced the 'party' person to me used to invite me places and i thought they were really sweet and of course, i thought they were just being nice til one day when i get invited over for dinner with two of their friends and once the friends leave, they stood in between me and the door to not let me leave til after their friends left (that was the case - i gather that they're projecting their and i being together when we're not~); then it clicked as to why they wanted me to be there about an hr or two before their friends.. silly me, right?

well, the party person, is already in a relationship but they've kinda done the same thing.. they've hinted at 'other' things a few times and i let em know that i'm not comfortable with that but still, they've invited me to their party and though i've said to them that i'm not comfortable with the whole relationship thing and their coming on to me sexually; with the type of work that i do, it isn't necessarily an 'invite' but rather, it's business (at least to me, it is).

what can i do to claim that plutonic vibe and turn the tables all in my favor? because right now, there's a love/hate feeling going with the whole being objectified by both of them -- the things that i share with you guys and that i talk about, i'm being myself, i'm open and real.. i'm some product around them and it's a little weird because product's aren't 'real' and i'm very real..

so, i dunno...

i'm thinking that i've better get on my pretty pony as i do have some pluto links with these people and i have a feeling that they adore me to my face but behind closed doors, they've said things that have led me to believe that they're calling each other to discuss whatever they know about me over their microwaved meals! it only makes me uncomfortable because it does deal with work and because there's no really set line between work and personal relations here, so.... that, and, one of them has shown small signs of being vindictive and a little bit of a sh*t talker out of insecurity to prop themselves up.

i'm not sure if i'd have to let it slide or open up a can of whoop a$s if there ever was a first time of it happening..

i'm thinking that i'll just have to create and present to them an alter ego so that none of it affects me in any way! :/

and yeah, if you guessed it, you probably guessed right; if there was a chain of command, they'd be the 'higher ups' so i'm trying to be civil here because if something were to happen, i'm not so sure that i'd have the upper hand, so to speak.